VENT THREAD! Things you WISH you could say

To my nan: Please stop calling our son "my baby". You are making me feel like an incubator. We went through so much to get this baby and by saying it constantly you are making us feel like we are not the parents. Also stop saying that you hope I am looking after your baby! He's not your child! You had your children and your time to be a mum, let me have mine. I know you are excited, but you weren't even this over the top when my mum was pregnant with me, why now? And it's a bit much that you want to have a stock of baby clothes at your house for when he stays. It's not going to happen. You are in your late 70s and in no fit state to look after a child. What are you thinking?

Dear MIL, please pay your own bills. I don't know what you've done with your money, I suspect you've given it to your "boyfriend". My husband went through your budget and you should have enough to pay your bills. Stop being wasteful and expecting us to bail you out just because we're the only people in the family with any money. You may be old, but my grandparents are older than you are and have their lives together, what is your excuse? We've been responsible, wanting to be in a financially secure place for when Baby comes and I quit work to raise my child. However, you are draining our savings little by little, just like you've drained yours I will NOT go back to work and put my baby in childcare just so we can support your lifestyle. I shop sales and don't buy treats, I buy almost all my clothes at thrift stores, we don't have cable/satellite TV. We have been responsible with our money, and I do NOT like feeling as though we are being taken advantage of.

Awesome thread!

I just want to say EFF YOU! To the people who are thinking that I am crazy for wanting to cloth diaper, and that I am going to fail at it!

I also want to say EFF YOU! To the people who judge me for wanting to bottle feed my baby! YES I KNOW, they say breast is best, but I have yet to see an example of a person whose quality of life has been affected because of bottle feeding.

Originally Posted by JoulesRulez

Awesome thread!

I just want to say EFF YOU! To the people who are thinking that I am crazy for wanting to cloth diaper, and that I am going to fail at it!

I also want to say EFF YOU! To the people who judge me for wanting to bottle feed my baby! YES I KNOW, they say breast is best, but I have yet to see an example of a person whose quality of life has been affected because of bottle feeding.

Just want to reassure you that although I was breast fed, my younger sister was bottle fed and throughout our lives has been consistantly much healthier than me. I think that if you do what is right for you and your baby, you can't go far wrong. Personally I hope to breast feed, but if that doesn't work out so be it. Others really shouldn't judge.

to the above posts about the buses..

To the OB I fired: You are one incompetent b*tch and that's why I kicked your ass to the curb. My regards to the rest of your unsuspecting patients.

To my BIL and SIL: You're both are HUGE losers and will never be allowed near our kids again. There is no excuse for doing drugs around your children, drinking and driving, driving without insurance, encouraging your wife to use and drink while pregnant. (and she did too) You wonder why no one wants either of you around?! You'll both slip up one day and won't escape CPS, your kids deserve better.

To my family: I love you all but I think you're being pretty harsh about my youngest sister. Yes, she's old enough to help around the house and all but there are other adults living there. They can and should help clean the house more often. They all know dad's health is declining and he can barely walk without support now. Most likely, she's hardly around because she can't stand seeing our dad like that, so instead of bad mouthing her try talking to her.

Originally Posted by JoulesRulez

Awesome thread!

I just want to say EFF YOU! To the people who are thinking that I am crazy for wanting to cloth diaper, and that I am going to fail at it!

I also want to say EFF YOU! To the people who judge me for wanting to bottle feed my baby! YES I KNOW, they say breast is best, but I have yet to see an example of a person whose quality of life has been affected because of bottle feeding.

I've been getting shit from my SIL for wanting to cloth diaper. In her words "You'll get sick of it after about 6 months and you can't continue to do it after then anyway because the baby will be too big. You'll have to use sheets!"

OH REALLY???? My mum cloth diapered my sister for 18 months. How? By folding over the nappy only once and these days there are cloth nappies you can buy for all different age groups (you know those cloth nappies that look like disposables but they're cloth?) lol And just because she got fed up with it, does NOT mean I will...

Grrrrrrrrrr!!! The bitch shits me so much!

TO OH:
Why the F*** jumping on the computer the SECOND you come home until the second I go to bed so damn important to you all of a sudden??? Yes, I appreciate that you go to work all day so I don't have to and can stay home all day with our kids. But really??? FOR 2 WEEKS you've ignored us now! WTF?:!?!?!

TO MIL:
Hey, stupid B****! I've come to your house the last couple days to hang out with MY SIL NOT YOU!!!! I made up with you only just enough to PEE! instead of trying to hold it until I got back to my house. STOP trying to be all "Buddy-Buddy" with me! Its not going to happen! And just for the record, my faith in YOU of all people throwing me a Baby Shower THIS time-when I didn't even get one from you the first time-is remarkably low! THAT'S why I'm still on "your son's case" about going to buy ANYTHING for our son.

TO MY (NOT SO LOVED) SIL and BIL:
STOP STEALING ALL MY IDEAS!!! I know you're blondes, but really I've met blondes smarter than some other people. Surely you can come up with some idea of your own. Geez!! you take credit for the family pictures that we (all us kids) were supposed to in on, that OH and I paid for! You took credit for the house that I single handedly decorated when the neighbors commented on how great it looked for both Halloween and Christmas when OH and I lived with the InLaws. And now you're stealing my baby girl name!?!?!?!

Originally Posted by PitaKat

Dear MIL, please pay your own bills. I don't know what you've done with your money, I suspect you've given it to your "boyfriend". My husband went through your budget and you should have enough to pay your bills. Stop being wasteful and expecting us to bail you out just because we're the only people in the family with any money. You may be old, but my grandparents are older than you are and have their lives together, what is your excuse? We've been responsible, wanting to be in a financially secure place for when Baby comes and I quit work to raise my child. However, you are draining our savings little by little, just like you've drained yours I will NOT go back to work and put my baby in childcare just so we can support your lifestyle. I shop sales and don't buy treats, I buy almost all my clothes at thrift stores, we don't have cable/satellite TV. We have been responsible with our money, and I do NOT like feeling as though we are being taken advantage of.

Sounds like our in laws should party

I have another...

To the bitches of my extended family on FB....

After my status "I can't wait til September"

WHAT THE F*** DO YOU MEAN "what's happening in September"???!!!

I've only posted like everything to do with the baby and when it's due since I found out about the pregnancy!!!! You read my shit ALL the time

Oh, I need to let this out...
To my boss at work:

"I don't care what you remember about your wife being pregnant... she wasn't pregnant with twins and she didn't have a job. So stop giving me shit about taking time off when I'm sick. I feel awful, I'm vomiting half the things I eat and EVERYTHING is a struggle to keep down. I don't want to talk to patients while I feel ill, I don't want to stand on my feet for 8 hours, and I don't want to do most of your job because the other pharmacist is talking. You have somehow forgotten that I am not a contract employee and can QUIT whenever I want... you have to stay here for another year... I DON'T! And I won't! Good luck finding another tech who will put up with this crap and catch errors like I did. GOOOOOOOOD LUCK.