I can't even begin to thank you all for your supportive words - its a huge help. I'm too ashamed to even mention it to any of my friends or family so it's nice to be able to talk on here.
I'm upset, and annoyed, he can even dare to essentially accuse me of this when I've never ever done anything to even make him think I could cheat. And that he doesn't give a toss that I'm now sat upstairs crying my eyes out. Feel very alone all of a sudden. I can't live a life where I'm not trusted.
I'd be so pissed if my DH ever thought any of his children weren't his and honestly I'd tell him to hit the road if he asked for a DNA test and to get a lawyer if he really wants the test done I sure wouldn't stay with him. That said I had a friend that had this happen but he finally decided to just believe her the baby came out looking just like him so he hasn't ever thought it wasn't his since the birth sorry your going through this
if you keep saying no though, i know he will be thinking that you are lying about it so just tell him he can do any test he wants, he is the dad and your not putting up with his crap! Tell him you will take him on jeremy kyle lol, that will put the fear in him!!!
WOW!!!!!! I'd kill my OH if those words even came out of his mouth. What a terrible thing to say!!!!! I agree w/ the fertility test too. I wouldn't "just do it" bc it's easy, that's definitely not the point it's the principal that he's even asking for one! UGH!
my OH just read this and said maybe he is just driving himself mad with his thoughts? Like its crossed his mind and he ran with the thought and has got himself paranoid... try to have a proper talk about how he's feeling before you get upset. I understand that must of been hurtful and is also extremely insensitive of him but maybe he's finding things hard. all the best hope you work it out!
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