So sorry you are going through this.
I have been through exactly the same thing, only a few weeks ago
I don't want to upset you more but basically my OH demanded a DNA when baby is born, I was like, WTF? Didn't think he was serious!
He made up this whole story about him being infertile (he's now admitted it was a lie) and made up a story about someone telling him I'D been cheating and that LO wasn't his!!! He went as far as to text himself from a friends phone saying I'd been cheating with a friend of mine (just because I have male friends doesn't mean I'm shagging them!!) and told me it was from MY BOSS! Again, admitted this was a lie.
2 days later, I looked in his bag for nail clippers and found a letter. From a girl. Who HE had been cheating on ME with!!
So as soon as I read your post I must admit I thought, guilty conscience!

He no longer wants a DNA and has obviously admitted to the cheating. I have forgiven him and we are staying together. There are many reasons for my decisions although some people don't agree with it.

I do hope this isn't the case for you though, it's heartbreaking I know

Sorry this is long!!

I'm so sorry he's being such a jerk I've been hormonal in a bad way so I know if my boyfriend asked me anything like this I would be like GET THE HECK OUT and DONT COME BACK lol I mean seriously I'm cranky but i'd get the test and be like well you didn't believe me and without trust what kind of relationship do we even have? It really irritates me when guys can be so insensitive. I hope he gets it together and realizes that this is a great thing and instead of worrying about dang DNA test be HAPPY And Celebrate!!!!!

I get that it may be easier to just do the test to shut him up but genuinely feel I shouldn't have to. But am I just being stubborn? If he can't trust me I don't understand why he even wants to be with me - who can think their wife would lie about them fathering their baby??

seriously if my hubby even uttered that to me I would go mad with him. I would opt got the SA test to start with there is even a home kit one to prove he has good sperm. He needs a good kick up the backside xx

I agree who the flip does he think he is. Why on earth would he even ttc with you if he thinks he cant have kids Ii dont get it xx

What a complete and utter arsehole. I would seriously be reviewing my relationship even with a baby on the way. I could never forgive him for the lack of trust he clearly has in you. I cant believe he has just assumed he cant have children with no back up whatsoever and instead of finding out like a mature adult by getting a fertility test he is basically accusing you of sleeping with someone else!! (I know he hasnt come out and said those words but thats basically what he is saying.) Im sorry you are going through this. If I were you I wouldnt be able to look at him in the same way ever again. x

Woowww I would be majorly upset if my DH ever said that to me!!

Maybe he tried getting another girl pregnant once and it didn't happen therefore he thought it was him? Thats the only logical thing I can think of. Unless hes been wanting kids for the past 10 years and thought that because you didn't get pregnant that that had something to do with it? I dunno its crazy if you ask me!

i would just get it done and not take it personal. i never cheated on my husband (boyfriend at that time) and i told him that if he wants a test i wouldnt be mad.
it has nothing to do with mistrust just as a guy you might need another way to make sure. we carry the baby and know 100% a men doesnt.

my husband never got it done, but i would understand or not be mad if he wanted too.
if there is nothing to hide done dwell on it and just get it done after the baby is born

if you refuse the test he will start getting doubts. make him happy, but let him pay for it

Sorry but I most definitely have to disagree with this, respectively! In this case, it definitely seems like a case of mistrust. What other reason would there be?? Yes we should make our OH/DH's happy but, we shouldn't have to put our happiness second either. Especially with something like this.