would it offend you if your long time partner.....

ms.hope · Apr 2nd, 2012, 18:58 PM

ASK To do a DNA test at the same time baby is born??? I read this on another forum that in some countries they offer this free of cost at the hospital right when baby is born....This would be upsetting if my partner asked me to do this, I mean if your in a long term committed relationship or married then there should be no question unless he does not trust the woman. For couples that were on and off with the relationship then I can understand the speculations.

momofone08 · Apr 2nd, 2012, 19:05 PM

I think I would smack the heck out of my OH if he ever even mentioned that he wanted one.

greenbeans12 · Apr 2nd, 2012, 19:11 PM

I would be enraged, not for myself, but for the baby!!!!

Liesje · Apr 2nd, 2012, 19:19 PM

Not at all... If I were a man I would do it the first day also.

I even told my bf to feel free to do one, but if it turns out he's not the father, please let me know because someone else is out there with our baby lol

notmommyyet · Apr 2nd, 2012, 20:10 PM

I always said I could imagine what a man goes through when a woman is pregnant. Cause you never know 100% that the baby is yours. Id hate to be man. like this is the biggest responsibility of our lives and to know your not even doing it for your own child? Ya id want one. however if OH asked me id kill him. lol but i would gladly do it

Tasha · Apr 2nd, 2012, 20:13 PM

Yes it would upset me, because my husband should know me well enough and trust me enough to know I would NEVER do that

TwilightAgain · Apr 2nd, 2012, 20:37 PM

I would be really offended in all honesty. I can see why they'd want it done but I would still be upset.

ChesMik4eva · Apr 2nd, 2012, 20:52 PM

I would be MORE than offended. There is a 100% way of knowing, it's called having trust and faith in your partner. If you don't truly trust someone and know that you can count on them at face value then you shouldn't be in a committed relationship. That's a relationship should be based on, trust and respect. I feel if you ask me for a DNA test then you have neither of those things for me.

My OH wouldn't dream of it and if anyone ever suggested this baby wasn't his he would tell them to go jump off a cliff.

TheSmpsns · Apr 2nd, 2012, 21:11 PM

I would be pissed. I think it depends upon your relationship. After 8 years together, if he didnt trust me, it would break my heart. We are both faithful and have full trust in each other.

xtina6143 · Apr 2nd, 2012, 22:47 PM

My boyfriend were pretty on and off when I found out I was pregnant and he asked me if I had been with anyone else and I was offended but I understood where he was coming from. Even if we hadn't been off and on at the time there are so many horror stories about men finding out years later the kid isn't theirs that if he wanted a DNA test I would still be offended but I would have no issue having one so he didn't question our child.

Apr 2nd, 2012, 18:58 PM	#1
ms.hope Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: toronto, Canada Posts: 1,164	would it offend you if your long time partner..... ASK To do a DNA test at the same time baby is born??? I read this on another forum that in some countries they offer this free of cost at the hospital right when baby is born....This would be upsetting if my partner asked me to do this, I mean if your in a long term committed relationship or married then there should be no question unless he does not trust the woman. For couples that were on and off with the relationship then I can understand the speculations.

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Apr 2nd, 2012, 19:05 PM	#2
momofone08 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: USA Posts: 1,535	I think I would smack the heck out of my OH if he ever even mentioned that he wanted one.

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greenbeans12 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 1,707	I would be enraged, not for myself, but for the baby!!!!

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Liesje Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 1,825	Not at all... If I were a man I would do it the first day also. I even told my bf to feel free to do one, but if it turns out he's not the father, please let me know because someone else is out there with our baby lol

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notmommyyet Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 2,396	I always said I could imagine what a man goes through when a woman is pregnant. Cause you never know 100% that the baby is yours. Id hate to be man. like this is the biggest responsibility of our lives and to know your not even doing it for your own child? Ya id want one. however if OH asked me id kill him. lol but i would gladly do it

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Apr 2nd, 2012, 20:13 PM	#6
Tasha Other BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 24,023	Yes it would upset me, because my husband should know me well enough and trust me enough to know I would NEVER do that

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TwilightAgain Waiting To Try (WTT) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Manchester & Newcastle UK. Posts: 8,318	I would be really offended in all honesty. I can see why they'd want it done but I would still be upset.

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ChesMik4eva Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Darwin, Australia Posts: 1,107	I would be MORE than offended. There is a 100% way of knowing, it's called having trust and faith in your partner. If you don't truly trust someone and know that you can count on them at face value then you shouldn't be in a committed relationship. That's a relationship should be based on, trust and respect. I feel if you ask me for a DNA test then you have neither of those things for me. My OH wouldn't dream of it and if anyone ever suggested this baby wasn't his he would tell them to go jump off a cliff.

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Apr 2nd, 2012, 21:11 PM	#9
TheSmpsns Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Texas, United States Posts: 1,211	I would be pissed. I think it depends upon your relationship. After 8 years together, if he didnt trust me, it would break my heart. We are both faithful and have full trust in each other.

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xtina6143 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Posts: 290	My boyfriend were pretty on and off when I found out I was pregnant and he asked me if I had been with anyone else and I was offended but I understood where he was coming from. Even if we hadn't been off and on at the time there are so many horror stories about men finding out years later the kid isn't theirs that if he wanted a DNA test I would still be offended but I would have no issue having one so he didn't question our child.

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