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struth · Apr 4th, 2012, 15:15 PM

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Originally Posted by TerriLynn

My due date is August 29th. Doctor said my conception date was probably around December 7th. So your date of conception would probably be around December 14th will a fairly normal cycle.

You've gone the wrong way! She is due a week before you and so would have conceived about a week before you (not after you!). If your conception date is the 7th December then hers would be the 30th November which concurs with what I have said above.

emalou86 · Apr 4th, 2012, 15:16 PM

terri lynn
i normally have a normal cycle but as prev comments tell u i only had a bleed for 1-2 days and it was very light which is un usual, i know i prop seem really dumb to all this but it is starting to get me down as i dont know where at all i stand on who is the father to my baby :-/

TerriLynn · Apr 4th, 2012, 15:19 PM

Also, if your due date is August 22, your last period should have been around November 18th. You normally ovulate around 14 days after a period. However, sperm can live inside of you for 3 to 5 days. So, with a due date of August 22nd, it is highly unlikely that the baby was conceived prior to November 28th. . . 27th at the earliest.

TerriLynn · Apr 4th, 2012, 15:23 PM

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Originally Posted by struth

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Originally Posted by TerriLynn

My due date is August 29th. Doctor said my conception date was probably around December 7th. So your date of conception would probably be around December 14th will a fairly normal cycle.

You've gone the wrong way! She is due a week before you and so would have conceived about a week before you (not after you!). If your conception date is the 7th December then hers would be the 30th November which concurs with what I have said above.

Had a dumb moment!

I corrected myself. Thanks!

emalou86 · Apr 4th, 2012, 15:24 PM

terri lynn

as i have said in above comments about my bleed in noveber 1-2 and it was very light would this count as anything as i normally have fine periods not quite dead on 28 day cycle a day or two before or after
i know i am prop being silly but it is starting to get me down and confused even more now on who could b my babys father,

TerriLynn · Apr 4th, 2012, 15:26 PM

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Originally Posted by emalou86

terri lynn
i normally have a normal cycle but as prev comments tell u i only had a bleed for 1-2 days and it was very light which is un usual, i know i prop seem really dumb to all this but it is starting to get me down as i dont know where at all i stand on who is the father to my baby :-/

Do you remember the dates of your 2 day cycle?

leahsbabybump · Apr 4th, 2012, 15:27 PM

im 21 weeks nearly 22 and i concieved at the end of october i know when i concieved as i only had sex once that month lol
you need to remember that conception can occur anything upto 3 days after you have had sexual intercourse
i think that either guy could be the father the only way you will find out is if you do a paternity test once LO is hear

emalou86 · Apr 4th, 2012, 15:29 PM

not off the top of my head the exact date but the light bleed i had i am sure the second day was around the 14/11/11 not 100% sure

leahsbabybump · Apr 4th, 2012, 15:30 PM

just red back if you had sex with 2 differant people within 5 days of each other then the baby could deffo be either you need to do DNA hun
do both the guys know the situation?

apple_20 · Apr 4th, 2012, 15:31 PM

If it was only a few days apart as others have said the sperm live for days so could be either. Also at my scan I was 13 weeks according to my last period and only unprotected sex I had that month yet the scan dated me at 14 weeks. I'm sorry but I can't give you an answer to your question. A DNA test will be the only true way of knowing, good luck x

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emalou86 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Posts: 11	terri lynn i normally have a normal cycle but as prev comments tell u i only had a bleed for 1-2 days and it was very light which is un usual, i know i prop seem really dumb to all this but it is starting to get me down as i dont know where at all i stand on who is the father to my baby :-/

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Apr 4th, 2012, 15:19 PM	#13
TerriLynn Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: USA Posts: 373	Also, if your due date is August 22, your last period should have been around November 18th. You normally ovulate around 14 days after a period. However, sperm can live inside of you for 3 to 5 days. So, with a due date of August 22nd, it is highly unlikely that the baby was conceived prior to November 28th. . . 27th at the earliest.

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Apr 4th, 2012, 15:24 PM	#15
emalou86 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Posts: 11	terri lynn as i have said in above comments about my bleed in noveber 1-2 and it was very light would this count as anything as i normally have fine periods not quite dead on 28 day cycle a day or two before or after i know i am prop being silly but it is starting to get me down and confused even more now on who could b my babys father,

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leahsbabybump Other BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: South Yorkshire - UK Posts: 9,760	im 21 weeks nearly 22 and i concieved at the end of october i know when i concieved as i only had sex once that month lol you need to remember that conception can occur anything upto 3 days after you have had sexual intercourse i think that either guy could be the father the only way you will find out is if you do a paternity test once LO is hear

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Apr 4th, 2012, 15:29 PM	#18
emalou86 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Posts: 11	not off the top of my head the exact date but the light bleed i had i am sure the second day was around the 14/11/11 not 100% sure

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Apr 4th, 2012, 15:30 PM	#19
leahsbabybump Other BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: South Yorkshire - UK Posts: 9,760	just red back if you had sex with 2 differant people within 5 days of each other then the baby could deffo be either you need to do DNA hun do both the guys know the situation?

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Apr 4th, 2012, 15:31 PM	#20
apple_20 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: nottingham UK Posts: 1,463	If it was only a few days apart as others have said the sperm live for days so could be either. Also at my scan I was 13 weeks according to my last period and only unprotected sex I had that month yet the scan dated me at 14 weeks. I'm sorry but I can't give you an answer to your question. A DNA test will be the only true way of knowing, good luck x

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