Got told to delete my status!!!!!!!!

overcomer79 · Apr 5th, 2012, 11:52 AM

So I had a rough day yesterday. I only got 2.5 hours of sleep. My day started at 545 am and ended at 930pm. Well, regular people can have heartburn and around dinner time I just put "How many zantac can I take in a day??". I didn't think that was a harmful post...well I get a text saying "delete your status" and went on lecturing me about how much I could take and how I probably should ask her instead of posting it on fb. Well, I'm sorry but how the hell do I know if you are always avaiable? She has been too busy to want to hang out with me at all but will make time for her other friends. I almost feel like she can't be bothered with me b/c I can't drive but that's not my fault. I just replied "yea ok". I nearly said "f!ck you". How would you feel if this happened??

Now, I did not complain about the baby giving me reflux, I was just asking a question that a non pregnant person could have asked too..am I overreacting in being mad??

hoping4girl · Apr 5th, 2012, 11:54 AM

no! i put on my status today that I didn't know my boys thought I loved plunging the toilet....what would she say to that?? I think its perfectly reasonable, you are right to tell her to shove it.

lynn1216 · Apr 5th, 2012, 11:55 AM

wow! thats not even bad!! i would have told her to stfu! its really none of her buisness what u post! and if u didnt she wouldnt have even seen it or knew to help!

just keep calm hun

ur alright!

Vigreybrance · Apr 5th, 2012, 11:59 AM

It's your status, and your business and you haven't posted anything offensive why would she feel it needed deleting? Sounds a bit controlling for a friend to me.

overcomer79 · Apr 5th, 2012, 12:03 PM

Yea I haven't spoken/texted her since. I was floored like wtf!! I am mindful of things I post as I have had two friends to lose babies this year and she is currently trying so I'm not heartless but damn! That just was so uncalled for.

teresapk · Apr 5th, 2012, 12:05 PM

ya that's bs. put your status to whatever you want. or she could always comment on your status with this helpful info rather than making you feel bad :/

jaymarie1991 · Apr 5th, 2012, 12:07 PM

Tell her if she don't like it then don't read it and mind her own business!! With all my pregnancy hormones I would have cursed her out!

artsiekat · Apr 5th, 2012, 12:09 PM

This was a friend? If I had a friend who tried to tell me what to do with my facebook page and lecture me for such a trivial reason, they would quickly find they are no longer my friend.

Leave your status up and ignore her, that's the only response she deserves.

hopeforamirac · Apr 5th, 2012, 12:13 PM

cheeky mare.... i wouldnt remove it.
your a grown woman and nobody should tell you what you can and cant say or do.

Louisey80 · Apr 5th, 2012, 12:21 PM

I agree with all the other posts it's your status and you're a grown woman and can say / post what ever the hell u feel like!! Silly cow! Hope your heartburn eases up x

Apr 5th, 2012, 11:52 AM	#1
overcomer79 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 4,419	Got told to delete my status!!!!!!!! So I had a rough day yesterday. I only got 2.5 hours of sleep. My day started at 545 am and ended at 930pm. Well, regular people can have heartburn and around dinner time I just put "How many zantac can I take in a day??". I didn't think that was a harmful post...well I get a text saying "delete your status" and went on lecturing me about how much I could take and how I probably should ask her instead of posting it on fb. Well, I'm sorry but how the hell do I know if you are always avaiable? She has been too busy to want to hang out with me at all but will make time for her other friends. I almost feel like she can't be bothered with me b/c I can't drive but that's not my fault. I just replied "yea ok". I nearly said "f!ck you". How would you feel if this happened?? Now, I did not complain about the baby giving me reflux, I was just asking a question that a non pregnant person could have asked too..am I overreacting in being mad??

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Apr 5th, 2012, 11:54 AM	#2
hoping4girl Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Wyoming Posts: 1,945	no! i put on my status today that I didn't know my boys thought I loved plunging the toilet....what would she say to that?? I think its perfectly reasonable, you are right to tell her to shove it.

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Apr 5th, 2012, 11:55 AM	#3
lynn1216 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 624	wow! thats not even bad!! i would have told her to stfu! its really none of her buisness what u post! and if u didnt she wouldnt have even seen it or knew to help! just keep calm hun ur alright!

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Apr 5th, 2012, 11:59 AM	#4
Vigreybrance Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 366	It's your status, and your business and you haven't posted anything offensive why would she feel it needed deleting? Sounds a bit controlling for a friend to me.

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Apr 5th, 2012, 12:03 PM	#5
overcomer79 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 4,419	Yea I haven't spoken/texted her since. I was floored like wtf!! I am mindful of things I post as I have had two friends to lose babies this year and she is currently trying so I'm not heartless but damn! That just was so uncalled for.

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Apr 5th, 2012, 12:05 PM	#6
teresapk Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Illinois Posts: 275	ya that's bs. put your status to whatever you want. or she could always comment on your status with this helpful info rather than making you feel bad :/

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Apr 5th, 2012, 12:07 PM	#7
jaymarie1991 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: NJ, USA Posts: 399	Tell her if she don't like it then don't read it and mind her own business!! With all my pregnancy hormones I would have cursed her out!

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Apr 5th, 2012, 12:09 PM	#8
artsiekat Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Princeton, NJ Posts: 1,122	This was a friend? If I had a friend who tried to tell me what to do with my facebook page and lecture me for such a trivial reason, they would quickly find they are no longer my friend. Leave your status up and ignore her, that's the only response she deserves.

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Apr 5th, 2012, 12:13 PM	#9
hopeforamirac Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: uk Posts: 6,156	cheeky mare.... i wouldnt remove it. your a grown woman and nobody should tell you what you can and cant say or do.

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Apr 5th, 2012, 12:21 PM	#10
Louisey80 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 800	I agree with all the other posts it's your status and you're a grown woman and can say / post what ever the hell u feel like!! Silly cow! Hope your heartburn eases up x

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