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Apr 9th, 2012, 02:56 AM
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I'm getting a bit fed up with everyone sticking their nose in my business lol. With Lucas I wanted to find out and oh wouldn't let me. He even told the sonographer we werent finding out so I wasnt tempted. I told him i wanted to find out this time and he agreed. Until everybody told him not to. Again. His auntie told him I'll get post natal depression if I find out, my mum went on about it being the only surprise why ruin it, his mum keeps making comments. I've told him im finding out whether he likes it or not, I'm not being bullied into it again and I'm happy to be the only one who knows the sex!

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Thanks babyblueskye I did say infront of my mum that OH wanted to find out until she started saying this and that, and OH started saying well he hadn't thought it out and my mum made good points. It's definitely put a downer on it all xx

Mumsince2010 - that's nice your OH is still letting you do what you wish - let us know what the gender is!! xx

Mumof1+1 - thanks for your supporting post hun, I understand where your coming from. I plan to have a home birth too I know in regards to some things it doesn't change much but I believe it does make things easier. ALso, clothes I have already brought are around 0-3 or even 3-6 lol, Im expecting to have quite a big bubs! xx

Jenniferttc1 - OH mainly wants the surprise, but yes the 4D scan he has now agreed to...again. Im just hoping it doesn't change. Your LO is gorgeous by the way! xx

Silverbullet - I did say that to him but he said if I am finding out he's definitely finding out too xx

Fidget - Im glad your sticking to your guns hunny! Im getting fed up of other people saying it too, the main thing that changed him was when his dad said not to xx

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flip a coin...that's what we did!

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I went ahead anyway and had a private 3d gender scan. Told OH after 6 days by accident

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thanks ladies, I do believe we're going ahead with it now anyway, he says now that he doesn't mind just would've preferred to wait. So whoop whoop! Come on 28th May xx

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thanks ladies, I do believe we're going ahead with it now anyway, he says now that he doesn't mind just would've preferred to wait. So whoop whoop! Come on 28th May xx

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If ANYONE asks you if you're finding out the sex or anything just change the subject lol say they'll just have to wait and see I wouldn't mention it at all to your mum.
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Thanks hunny, well if my mum interferes again Im going to tell her to p*ss off.
Im just glad OH's meeting me half way now xx

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Maybe he would agree to do something like a gender reveal party. Then it's still a surprise and you can celebrate with everyone too at the same time..

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Thanks that's a good idea, although I think he see's where Im coming from anyway now which is super good! xx

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Hi sweetie, hope you are well. Aint spoke to you in ages!

I was kind of in this situation except OH from day one said he didnt want to know. I did and was adamant but then I figured I should go along with it as some men dont take any interest whatesoever so I figured that fact that he felt strongly about it was a nice thing rather than a negative IYKWIM.

Ive gone along with it and now that Im 32 weeks Im soooo glad I didnt find out! Ill be honest and say shopping hasnt been as much fun because I cant really buy gender specific stuff but I am so happy that I get the surprise once Ive done the hard work of pushing this bubba out! I have bubba to look forward to but also have the excitement of the not knowing if its a boy or a girl. x
I'm 27 weeks now, and have also remained team yellow, as OH is adamant he doesnt want to find out.....however curiosity has got the better of me and I've booked a 3D scan for this weekend, but still undecided on whether to find out or not! I agree with Sunshine that it would be amazing to keep the surprise til the very end, but I'd also love to be able to call baby him or her, and get round the idea that I'm having a boy, or girl. Its a tough decision!

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