Tough decision... OH no longer wants to find out gender - what to do?
So up until a few days ago, OH wanted to find out the gender, but since my mother and his father have put their views across that they don't think we should he no longer wants to He said if I still do he wants to know but he'd rather wait until the baby is born.
Since then he doesn't even want a 4D scan anymore either.. do I still go ahead?
What would you do??
I hate it when other people stick their oar in - even if meant in a nice way - and make you feel like your opinion is the wrong one If it were me in your position, I'd find out anyway - I'm so curious He could still come to the 4D scan cos you can't see obvious bits, and he could leave the room at the end if you tell them not to tell you both the gender
Easier to shop for 'correct' colour clothes? Easier to plan names and narrow down lists? If it's your first, easier to research how to look after their bits and keep them clean in advance? Easier to plan for bedrooms and nurseries? How about this, haha - if your fella is childish, like mine, and loves cartoons like Transformers or something, you could say that if it was a boy, you could plan a theme your OH would like?
Thanks lindsey, I've pulled most of them. But my mum argued that there's no point buying much clothes as you can go shopping with the baby after. But I said, If I saw something gorgeous in a sale I can buy it and save so much money but again she went against it.
The nursery situation unfortunately isn't such an arguement as we have to do the baby's nursery after it's already here. It's so tough.
I feel like I shouldn't now as I should respect his choice, my mum said it's out of order if I find out and he doesn't want to xx
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