Feeling needy, anyone else? - Page 2

Louisey80 · Apr 11th, 2012, 15:20 PM

Haha we are a crazy bunch! At the time of the (probably reasonable) rejection it feels awful. I wasn't getting cuddled at bed time the other day so took myself down to the sofa and cried thinking 'how could he let a pregnant woman sleep on the sofa' sob sob poor me!! Even though I made the decision to go down to the sofa. Woke up at 1am and sulked back into bed oh was oblivious!! Own worse enemy. Crazy mood swings seem to be easing up a bit luckily!

claireybell · Apr 11th, 2012, 15:23 PM

Im always wanting hugs & kisses with OH but not sex lol as just not interested, im hormonal all the time & anything makes me cry rar!

Jslyn9996 · Apr 11th, 2012, 15:25 PM

Aww. Im doing alright. Sucks very badly. But I am living with grandparents so thats nice. If I lived alone I dont think I could hack it. Its been about 8 months since we have been living like this and im happy to say only a couple months longer will I have to suffer.

On the sex, I want it when I want it.. but if he wants it when I dont its not happening. If I want it and he doesnt.. Well its another end of the world type thing

lola_90 · Apr 11th, 2012, 15:27 PM

I am and its ridiculous! I went away for a week last week, and cried whenever I spoke to my fiance! Worst week of my life!

claireybell · Apr 11th, 2012, 15:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Louisey80

Haha we are a crazy bunch! At the time of the (probably reasonable) rejection it feels awful. I wasn't getting cuddled at bed time the other day so took myself down to the sofa and cried thinking 'how could he let a pregnant woman sleep on the sofa' sob sob poor me!! Even though I made the decision to go down to the sofa. Woke up at 1am and sulked back into bed oh was oblivious!! Own worse enemy. Crazy mood swings seem to be easing up a bit luckily!

Haha ive also done similar, the other morning OH left for work and never gimme a kiss goodbye as was running late, as i heard door bang shut i burst into tears thinking'how can u not want to kiss me goodbye'

damn hormones x

lala222 · Apr 11th, 2012, 15:32 PM

I must say, glad it isn't just me and good to hear a lot of you are the same! lol. Before getting pregnant I loved spending time with my OH ofcourse, but I loved time apart too. Since being pregnant I just want him around me all the time. I can never wait till' he gets home from work and I always tell him now "I feel so attached I need you near me!" I don't think men quite understand it lol. Then when I am having a SUPER hormonal day and he pisses me off (for probably a stupid reason and I get so upset over it)and he tells me I am being ridiculous to get so upset, I tell him to "GO FIND YOURSELF SOME NON-HORMONAL NOT PREGNANT GIRLFRIEND, THEN!" hahahaha...then I get a lot of love and attention after using this...because he knows much better than to ever do that ofcourse, and I know he never would!!!

Louisey80 · Apr 11th, 2012, 15:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Jslyn9996

Aww. Im doing alright. Sucks very badly. But I am living with grandparents so thats nice. If I lived alone I dont think I could hack it. Its been about 8 months since we have been living like this and im happy to say only a couple months longer will I have to suffer.

On the sex, I want it when I want it.. but if he wants it when I dont its not happening. If I want it and he doesnt.. Well its another end of the world type thing

Oh good glad it won't be long distance for much longer.
I wouldn't really worry about turning oh's sexual advances down pre pregnancy now I know how he feeks ill make more effort!! X

oh_socold · Apr 11th, 2012, 16:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Louisey80

Haha we are a crazy bunch! At the time of the (probably reasonable) rejection it feels awful. I wasn't getting cuddled at bed time the other day so took myself down to the sofa and cried thinking 'how could he let a pregnant woman sleep on the sofa' sob sob poor me!! Even though I made the decision to go down to the sofa. Woke up at 1am and sulked back into bed oh was oblivious!! Own worse enemy. Crazy mood swings seem to be easing up a bit luckily!

omg this is exactly what I did last night. I got up at midnight because 1) he wouldnt give me sex, so I was mad and accused him of being gay, or cheating on me and then eventually my brain went to the "omg I'm fat you hate me, im a monkey from hormones i am gross" blah blah blah and then 2) he wouldnt cuddle with me. I went to the couch, lasted about 15 mins before I was then hormonal and mad. I made the couch up went into the bedroom took his pillow and was like you are leaving, I am going to read so I can forget about how gross I am.

This morning he called me from work to tell me he loves me and im not gross or fat or a monkey, and i had completely forgotten

oh_socold · Apr 11th, 2012, 16:03 PM

It feels so much better to read that it is not just me, and I am not losing my mind. That it is a pregnancy thing to get all clingy and attached. Maybe its an evolutionary safety thing. Next time DH laughs at me, I'm gonna tell him if we were cave people I'd have to cling to him to fight off wild boars.

Jslyn9996 · Apr 11th, 2012, 16:14 PM

Lol! Yes it is good. I know what you mean! Maybe I will make more of an effort too.. But probably not.

Apr 11th, 2012, 15:20 PM	#11
Louisey80 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 800	Haha we are a crazy bunch! At the time of the (probably reasonable) rejection it feels awful. I wasn't getting cuddled at bed time the other day so took myself down to the sofa and cried thinking 'how could he let a pregnant woman sleep on the sofa' sob sob poor me!! Even though I made the decision to go down to the sofa. Woke up at 1am and sulked back into bed oh was oblivious!! Own worse enemy. Crazy mood swings seem to be easing up a bit luckily!

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Apr 11th, 2012, 15:23 PM	#12
claireybell Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Hampshire, UK Posts: 1,020	Im always wanting hugs & kisses with OH but not sex lol as just not interested, im hormonal all the time & anything makes me cry rar!

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Apr 11th, 2012, 15:25 PM	#13
Jslyn9996 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 2,508	Aww. Im doing alright. Sucks very badly. But I am living with grandparents so thats nice. If I lived alone I dont think I could hack it. Its been about 8 months since we have been living like this and im happy to say only a couple months longer will I have to suffer. On the sex, I want it when I want it.. but if he wants it when I dont its not happening. If I want it and he doesnt.. Well its another end of the world type thing

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Apr 11th, 2012, 15:27 PM	#14
lola_90 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Brighton Posts: 2,920	I am and its ridiculous! I went away for a week last week, and cried whenever I spoke to my fiance! Worst week of my life!

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Apr 11th, 2012, 15:32 PM	#16
lala222 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 1,198	I must say, glad it isn't just me and good to hear a lot of you are the same! lol. Before getting pregnant I loved spending time with my OH ofcourse, but I loved time apart too. Since being pregnant I just want him around me all the time. I can never wait till' he gets home from work and I always tell him now "I feel so attached I need you near me!" I don't think men quite understand it lol. Then when I am having a SUPER hormonal day and he pisses me off (for probably a stupid reason and I get so upset over it)and he tells me I am being ridiculous to get so upset, I tell him to "GO FIND YOURSELF SOME NON-HORMONAL NOT PREGNANT GIRLFRIEND, THEN!" hahahaha...then I get a lot of love and attention after using this...because he knows much better than to ever do that ofcourse, and I know he never would!!!

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Apr 11th, 2012, 16:03 PM	#19
oh_socold Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Oregon Posts: 612	It feels so much better to read that it is not just me, and I am not losing my mind. That it is a pregnancy thing to get all clingy and attached. Maybe its an evolutionary safety thing. Next time DH laughs at me, I'm gonna tell him if we were cave people I'd have to cling to him to fight off wild boars.

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Apr 11th, 2012, 16:14 PM	#20
Jslyn9996 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 2,508	Lol! Yes it is good. I know what you mean! Maybe I will make more of an effort too.. But probably not.

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