I know exactly what you mean susie.... My fella practically lives at th pub cos his best mate owns it! Annoying! And I feel like I'm
No fun to go there with. Mayb it's in my mind but jus feel like a bore so I'd rather jus stay in an not go! Jus think wen we've had our baby's an wer ready for a night gettin trollied it won't cost much. Would love a wine sprit zzz right now or cheeky vimto's love them! Been really good tho not had a drop since October.

What ru gonna say to ur fella hun?! I've giv up n jus accepted lke someone said - it's day 1 from
Bfp for us but men it's birth! X

Ps ur twins r CUTE!!!!

I'll go hang out with my friends if they're having a party at someone's house and I can sit by a fire in the backyard and still enjoy myself. Otherwise my social life has pretty much went in the toilet lol. A lot of my friends are musicians, so they're always going out and playing in smoky clubs. I don't really mind going out and being the only sober person (its kind of entertaining) but I'm not about to go out to a club where smoking is allowed and you can't even see through the haze of smoke.

I do miss drinking, I miss the feeling of getting a buzz. We've already got two grandmothers begging to keep the baby every weekend lol so I think when the baby is a little older I'll still have plenty of time to go out and drink with my friends.

although now I'm going to have a parental conscious which will prevent me from getting too shit-faced lol.

Honestly, you are not a bad person. I feel the same way sometimes, I mean I never drank all that much before but sometimes I do miss life before pregnancy and I do wish I could go back adn wait a little longer somtimes and when the baby comes I'm sure I will feel it more as well. Does not make us bad people, it's normal to miss a lifestyle once you're forced to change it completly.

As for your guy, however, I'm kinda hacing the same issue. He isn't changing anything at all and he really needs to. I don't feel waiting until the baby is born for him to change is a wise choice though. As hard as it is to get it through our mens' thick skulls, they need to start wising up now rather than later.

Right there with you ladies, im choking for a glass of wine, lol.
although i would never have one whilst preggers im certainly gonna have a chilled glass of champers once I get home from hospital!!
xxx

omg i miss the odd drink - im not much of a drinker really but there have been some nights i just wanted to go out and get lashed!!! to not be in the same "zone" as everyone is pants!!1

I would really really love a couple of glasses of something with a cigarette I wont do it but I have had a bad week could do with a relax chocolate isnt cutting it never mind its all for the best lovely healthy babies are worth the sacrifice!

i miss getting ready to go out for a great night with oh, meeting up in the pub with friends, going to clubs, havent been in a club since the night we concieved!oh went out for a staffnight last wk n i felt so lonely, i bust in to tears, i said to him i miss doing things that r fun, miss feeling sexy when we go out n not just trying to find the most comfy thing to wear in my wardrobe, i miss the old life but i wouldnt trade what i have growing my my belly for anything in the world when my baby gives a wiggle, or i see my belly growing each week im so happy we have both wanted this for so long i forget about what im missing and meet my girlies out for a cuppa or plan to meet for dinner r go to some1s house, ive told oh when baby comes and is a good few weeks old i wanna go out with my friends and let my hair down for a night, after 9 months of carrying our baby and then another 2 r 3 looking after babs i think ill deserve a night out but i also told him that ill probbly start cryin half way through the night n to get his friend who lives near our house to come n get me