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Apr 15th, 2012, 05:22 AM
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Lol sorry girls ok this was the situation..

I was throwing up yesterday morning, and went to lay down in bed. He is laying next to me and just starts pulling my shirt down, wanting to play with or look at my boob. I was not at all in the mood for that and just didn't feel like being touched and told him to stop. He thinks I'm wrong, and thinks that he should be able to do that whenever he wants..

We talked about it today and everything is fine but it reallybothered me and I wanted to ask you guys...
Totally understand in this situation, he should have left you alone if you weren't well! Men are so dense sometimes.

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Apr 15th, 2012, 06:19 AM
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Ok I understand your point in being sick that wouldn't make me feel happy and I'd want him to respect my wishes when I'm sick.

However I wish my dh would touch me more

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Apr 15th, 2012, 06:28 AM
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my dh is very afectionate and touches my bum etc all the time which i dont mind What does get to be sometimes is if i want to go to sleep coz im tired and he will constantly touch me up purely for sex and im just like argh go away lol. I also normaly love my boobs being touched and have no prob with it but this pregnancy they are so painful yet no matter hw many times i yelp in pain he stil thinks its ok and funny to touch grope and prod. Men!lolx

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i love being affectionate towards my OH, i love just rubbing her stomach knowing that my LO is in there! :') as regards to 'touching' and such, before we found out my OH is pregnant we were very 'active' but now that this is happened, i know shes probably in constantly pain ect so its hard for me not to touch her but in the end its worth it every now and again id smack her bum and then blame it on something else...but thats just a guys thing

maybe his way of showing how much he cares for you is by touching you i know that when your OH is touching you it might get annoying at some points, and if it is then just tell him calmly all the best!! x

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Apr 15th, 2012, 07:11 AM
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I'd be worried if my OH didn't want to touch me.. after all he is the person you love so why shouldn't he touch you

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Apr 15th, 2012, 07:22 AM
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I get what you're saying.. like he's almost smothering you? I get annoyed at DH if I'm not feeling well (and I mean REALLY not feeling well) and he's all up in my face with affection. It's the only time though and I feel terrible because when he's sick, I still demand attention from him... he'll still give me sex lol... he's waaaaaaaaaay too nice


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Apr 15th, 2012, 07:54 AM
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My OH is super affectionate but last night I had a headache and he was snoring wetly into my ear as well as sweating like he had a fever so I made him roll over and face away from me lmao (I feel bad now though)

To be fair I did try to wake him up and roll him over for cuddles now that my headache is gone but his side of the bed is soaked and now he's all sticky LOL

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My DH used to randomly grope me and I HATED it - that's not affection, that's groping!

I don't mind him touching me at all but there's a way to do it. Pinching my bum isn't the same as having a full on grope of my boobs lol or rubbing my back or tummy affectionately. I've never liked groping and since I made that perfectly clear to DH, he doesn't use that way with me anymore and he's much more understanding with what I do/don't like and what makes me feel invaded etc.

When it's sexy time together, that's a different story - I'm talking about just randomly throughout the day or out and about in public etc.

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Apr 17th, 2012, 23:09 PM
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Yea, there's definitely a time and a place. Iv just been a little not inthe mood a lot lately. And I really wouldn't mind him being affectionate all the time but I wish that sometimes it was just for affection and NoT always for sex makes me feel like that's all he wants from me

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