Does your OH...

baby287 · Apr 14th, 2012, 10:22 AM

Think he can touch you wherever, whenever he wants? Mine seems to think he should be able to.. I think it's absolutely ridiculous.

honeybee2 · Apr 14th, 2012, 10:24 AM

What do you mean? Like if he wants to touch you on the bum he should be able to? Well, I'd say I'd be pretty happy to let my husband touch me when he wants to, if I dont like it I just push him away but I don't think he should need my permission initially if he's tryign to be caring and intimate.

griffinh · Apr 14th, 2012, 10:24 AM

i have a habit of slapping lol. the other day i was standing looking out the front door peephole in my pants (as you do) and he came up behind me and i *thought* he was poking the top of my bum with his hands, so i slapped him away.....

problem is, it wasnt his hand!!!!! i turned and he was bent double cos id smacked his right ball

he hasnt done that since....

but on a serious note, no, its your body, not his right to maul ya whenever he thinks! but i agree with honeybee - yeah touching and being affectionate is ok

hoping4girl · Apr 14th, 2012, 10:27 AM

Mine does, but I don't mind it. I kinda like it, makes me feel loved

He used to think we should have sex all the time cuz he was so horny, which made me feel like a piece of meat just there for his pleasure, but now that he's about 5 years older he has outgrown that thank goodness!! So...I know how you feel, but now I don't mind him doing that

Mrs_Snape · Apr 14th, 2012, 10:37 AM

I never get annoyed at my DH touching me, especially now that I'm pregnant. He can touch me wherever he wants whenever he wants. I'd be upset if he didn't

I LOVE that he's paying attention to my belly in particular

I let him put lotion on me and cuddle up to me and he's been SUPER affectionate in public these days. I think this pregnancy has brought us a lot closer together and I'm loving every minute of it..I think we both are

Jennbear · Apr 14th, 2012, 10:39 AM

I love OH touching me too, although I would get annoyed if it was always to initiate sex rather than just being affectionate but he's never been like that

dgirllamius · Apr 14th, 2012, 10:42 AM

Just asked my OH this and he said "is it wrong?"

He does do things like touch my bum and completely denies it, blaming it on something else like the cat.

ms.hope · Apr 14th, 2012, 11:06 AM

I don't see the problem

I don't want him ignoring me and making me feel unattractive so him wanting to touch me makes me feel good about myself

Cin · Apr 14th, 2012, 11:19 AM

Yes, but I can't really complain because I do exactly the same to him

HPmum2B · Apr 14th, 2012, 11:31 AM

I'm not sure if I am understanding you... do you mean affectionately / sexily? I help myself to grabbing hubbies bum whenever I like (at home or out) so I can't complain when he does it to me.

We have a little game, if I say "get off my arse", he will say "its my arse, you are mine, therefore its my arse."

But I do the same to him. Its not a possessive thing, its a LOVE thing!

Apr 14th, 2012, 10:22 AM	#1
baby287 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: US Posts: 1,123	Does your OH... Think he can touch you wherever, whenever he wants? Mine seems to think he should be able to.. I think it's absolutely ridiculous.

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honeybee2 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Elite Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: UK Posts: 12,090	What do you mean? Like if he wants to touch you on the bum he should be able to? Well, I'd say I'd be pretty happy to let my husband touch me when he wants to, if I dont like it I just push him away but I don't think he should need my permission initially if he's tryign to be caring and intimate.

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Apr 14th, 2012, 10:24 AM	#3
griffinh Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: RainbowTown Posts: 8,259	i have a habit of slapping lol. the other day i was standing looking out the front door peephole in my pants (as you do) and he came up behind me and i thought he was poking the top of my bum with his hands, so i slapped him away..... problem is, it wasnt his hand!!!!! i turned and he was bent double cos id smacked his right ball he hasnt done that since.... but on a serious note, no, its your body, not his right to maul ya whenever he thinks! but i agree with honeybee - yeah touching and being affectionate is ok

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Apr 14th, 2012, 10:27 AM	#4
hoping4girl Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Wyoming Posts: 1,945	Mine does, but I don't mind it. I kinda like it, makes me feel loved He used to think we should have sex all the time cuz he was so horny, which made me feel like a piece of meat just there for his pleasure, but now that he's about 5 years older he has outgrown that thank goodness!! So...I know how you feel, but now I don't mind him doing that

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Apr 14th, 2012, 10:37 AM	#5
Mrs_Snape Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 99	I never get annoyed at my DH touching me, especially now that I'm pregnant. He can touch me wherever he wants whenever he wants. I'd be upset if he didn't I LOVE that he's paying attention to my belly in particular I let him put lotion on me and cuddle up to me and he's been SUPER affectionate in public these days. I think this pregnancy has brought us a lot closer together and I'm loving every minute of it..I think we both are

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Apr 14th, 2012, 10:39 AM	#6
Jennbear Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 1,234	I love OH touching me too, although I would get annoyed if it was always to initiate sex rather than just being affectionate but he's never been like that

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dgirllamius Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Germany, originally Southampton UK Posts: 1,619	Just asked my OH this and he said "is it wrong?" He does do things like touch my bum and completely denies it, blaming it on something else like the cat.

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Apr 14th, 2012, 11:06 AM	#8
ms.hope Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: toronto, Canada Posts: 1,164	I don't see the problem I don't want him ignoring me and making me feel unattractive so him wanting to touch me makes me feel good about myself

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Apr 14th, 2012, 11:19 AM	#9
Cin Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 419	Yes, but I can't really complain because I do exactly the same to him

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Apr 14th, 2012, 11:31 AM	#10
HPmum2B Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 729	I'm not sure if I am understanding you... do you mean affectionately / sexily? I help myself to grabbing hubbies bum whenever I like (at home or out) so I can't complain when he does it to me. We have a little game, if I say "get off my arse", he will say "its my arse, you are mine, therefore its my arse." But I do the same to him. Its not a possessive thing, its a LOVE thing!

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