not happy :(

pixiemum · Apr 14th, 2012, 16:03 PM

Just had a massive row with husband, to the point i felt so angry and i screamed and cried uncontrollably, now baby is all active in my belly

this baby has no chance, im just going to pass on bad vibes and make it angry and bad tempered

i am already starting to get pre natal depression and anxiety (which i've started the ball rolling for help) but up to this point, i just want to start again

I dont know why i'm posting this, maybe to vent, some reassurance, i dont know.

Twister · Apr 14th, 2012, 16:06 PM

I'm sure baby will be fine and you'll be a great mummy! I've had a few arguments with oh and lost my temper and shouted a few times since being pregnant, I just put it down to hormones.

Lola90 · Apr 14th, 2012, 16:12 PM

Please don't worry. I've got myself into a bit of a state a couple of times when I've been totally overwhelmed. Just try to relax now. If youve been really upset you're probably putting out a bit of adrenaline. Have a bath or a warm drink and take some time out for yourself and just breathe.
Take care

pixiemum · Apr 14th, 2012, 16:50 PM

im going to have a nice late bath with chocolate. why is everything so hard work? youd think we have enough to contend with without the men upsetting us.

Lola90 · Apr 14th, 2012, 16:55 PM

I know hun. But honestly they're stupid! It's like arguing with a lampshade sometimes! Trust me I've had flaming rows with my now ex and baby has been ok so far. I am just trying now to stay calm and it sounds so cliche but laying down and focusing on breathing slowly makes me feel so much better when I'm like that. It slows my pulse down and makes me feel like I'm helping baba to be calm and not scared too xx

Twister · Apr 14th, 2012, 17:10 PM

Lmao arguing with a lampshade that's exactly what it's like sometimes! Me and my oh argue over the stupidest things, usually my work or something even prettier like how many times each of us have done the washing up

I've tried explaining to him that it's not worth it carrying it on with me and to just ignore me if an argument like that starts since the hormones are making me a bit crazy but he never listens and it always ends in me crying or shouting lol.

socitycourty · Apr 14th, 2012, 17:37 PM

it really can just be down to hormones...but I've had bad anxiety throughout my pregnancy so i know how you're feeling. it's very easy to get overwhelmed. like some of the ladies said take a nice bath and read a book or watch something funny, you will feel better

cmarie33 · Apr 14th, 2012, 17:40 PM

Oh I've had some right screaming dos with my OH since I got pregnant! Told him the other day that if I had a mug in my hand I'd throw it at him! Lol. I'm
Usually quite calm, OH has outbursts now and again that are depression related and I'm
Usually pretty good but these hormones make me give as good I get! Haha. You'll be absolutely fine and baby will be too, the fact that you recognise when things aren't right shows that xx

baby287 · Apr 14th, 2012, 17:46 PM

Omg I just did the same thing! Like viciously screaming and crying and now I feel just horrible. I left the house and now am sitting in my car down the street. I feel so bad I know it must be scary for baby when I yell like that

i don't want to do that to him

pixiemum · Apr 14th, 2012, 18:11 PM

thanks for the replies ladies, i feel abit better now. But it doesn't stop me worrying all the time, as i know we'll argue again down the line. I used to be a calm (ish) person, cheeky, mess about etc but because my husband is quite strong (fiery) and opinionated and will not let anyone say or do anything that he doesn't like no matter who it is, i've become quite fiery towards him now and i dont like it

and it causes clashes and arguments. baby is still wriggling about like a trooper, feel like i've stressed him out.

Apr 14th, 2012, 16:03 PM	#1
pixiemum Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 674	not happy :( Just had a massive row with husband, to the point i felt so angry and i screamed and cried uncontrollably, now baby is all active in my belly this baby has no chance, im just going to pass on bad vibes and make it angry and bad tempered i am already starting to get pre natal depression and anxiety (which i've started the ball rolling for help) but up to this point, i just want to start again I dont know why i'm posting this, maybe to vent, some reassurance, i dont know.

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Apr 14th, 2012, 16:06 PM	#2
Twister Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2011 Location: Birmingham, UK Posts: 5,922	I'm sure baby will be fine and you'll be a great mummy! I've had a few arguments with oh and lost my temper and shouted a few times since being pregnant, I just put it down to hormones.

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Apr 14th, 2012, 16:12 PM	#3
Lola90 Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: UK Posts: 1,242	Please don't worry. I've got myself into a bit of a state a couple of times when I've been totally overwhelmed. Just try to relax now. If youve been really upset you're probably putting out a bit of adrenaline. Have a bath or a warm drink and take some time out for yourself and just breathe. Take care

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Apr 14th, 2012, 16:50 PM	#4
pixiemum Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 674	im going to have a nice late bath with chocolate. why is everything so hard work? youd think we have enough to contend with without the men upsetting us.

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Apr 14th, 2012, 16:55 PM	#5
Lola90 Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: UK Posts: 1,242	I know hun. But honestly they're stupid! It's like arguing with a lampshade sometimes! Trust me I've had flaming rows with my now ex and baby has been ok so far. I am just trying now to stay calm and it sounds so cliche but laying down and focusing on breathing slowly makes me feel so much better when I'm like that. It slows my pulse down and makes me feel like I'm helping baba to be calm and not scared too xx

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Apr 14th, 2012, 17:10 PM	#6
Twister Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2011 Location: Birmingham, UK Posts: 5,922	Lmao arguing with a lampshade that's exactly what it's like sometimes! Me and my oh argue over the stupidest things, usually my work or something even prettier like how many times each of us have done the washing up I've tried explaining to him that it's not worth it carrying it on with me and to just ignore me if an argument like that starts since the hormones are making me a bit crazy but he never listens and it always ends in me crying or shouting lol.

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Apr 14th, 2012, 17:37 PM	#7
socitycourty Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 4,948	it really can just be down to hormones...but I've had bad anxiety throughout my pregnancy so i know how you're feeling. it's very easy to get overwhelmed. like some of the ladies said take a nice bath and read a book or watch something funny, you will feel better

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Apr 14th, 2012, 17:40 PM	#8
cmarie33 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: West Yorkshire, england Posts: 2,349	Oh I've had some right screaming dos with my OH since I got pregnant! Told him the other day that if I had a mug in my hand I'd throw it at him! Lol. I'm Usually quite calm, OH has outbursts now and again that are depression related and I'm Usually pretty good but these hormones make me give as good I get! Haha. You'll be absolutely fine and baby will be too, the fact that you recognise when things aren't right shows that xx

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Apr 14th, 2012, 17:46 PM	#9
baby287 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: US Posts: 1,123	Omg I just did the same thing! Like viciously screaming and crying and now I feel just horrible. I left the house and now am sitting in my car down the street. I feel so bad I know it must be scary for baby when I yell like that i don't want to do that to him

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Apr 14th, 2012, 18:11 PM	#10
pixiemum Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 674	thanks for the replies ladies, i feel abit better now. But it doesn't stop me worrying all the time, as i know we'll argue again down the line. I used to be a calm (ish) person, cheeky, mess about etc but because my husband is quite strong (fiery) and opinionated and will not let anyone say or do anything that he doesn't like no matter who it is, i've become quite fiery towards him now and i dont like it and it causes clashes and arguments. baby is still wriggling about like a trooper, feel like i've stressed him out.

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