So my 29th birthday is tomorrow, my parents cant take our 3 1/2 yr old this weekend unfort, but say they can next weekend. I was sort of hoping my hubby would at least offer me out to dinner tonight, even with the kid i wouldnt mind that much. i know he didnt buy me anything, no card, no flowers, no jewelry, he just isnt like that sometimes, this being one of those times. Anyways...im really hurt by it actually.
trying to decide if its cause im 13 weeks pregnant and still hormonal to a degree, or what?
ive gotten the usual checks and cards from the rest of the family, but really the one who matters is my hubby when he does nice things. i wouldn't even be surprised if he says happy bday tomorrow to me, so am i crazy for wanting something, doesnt have to be a gift, just a nice gesture. ill end up cooking dinner tonight, cleaning up, and same tomorrow, chores, cooking, cleaning, etc;. i just cant decide if im being neglected, or if i do deserve this (there are other issues within our marriage but no point in getting into it all)
i guess im really mad my parents cant take the kid so at least ill get a break, he never really does anything with the kid around the house. i always do everything, sometimes he will cook her food, but then i end up cleaning.
i really want to enjoy this pregnancy and not feel bitter, especially on my birthday. just need a break. like i need a 2 day vacation. i cant even go get a pedicure with a gift card i have because the stinking girl who does them at this place is never around on the days i can get in! i guess i have to bake myself a freaking cake or a bunch of muffins huh? haha. what better for a pregnant woman to do on her bday than enjoy some sweets since i cant have a few drinks.

are you sure he hasn't even got you a card? but he just hasn't mentioned it as it isn't until 2moro? I really hope he at least takes care of you on your birthday! Even if he's not the type that's no excuse! You sound like you're having a tough time hope you feel better 2moro and enjoy your day