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Old Jan 12th, 2018, 03:44 AM   231
jenniferannex
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So sorry to hear about his Grandad



 
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Old Jan 12th, 2018, 16:02 PM   232
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So sorry for yours and your husbands loss. I really hope things turn out well for u on Monday. I will be checking in for an update as soon as I can, I have everything crossed for you both xx



 
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Old Jan 13th, 2018, 15:38 PM   233
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The bleeding could have just been due to having an internal scan, they can really irritate the cervix and cause it to bleed.

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Old Jan 13th, 2018, 16:32 PM   234
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Just caught up on your posts, Red. I'm so sorry this is all happening. Praying your next scan shows you baby/heartbeat and I hope the bleeding completely stops. The Union will help you out with work. My husband is part of a Union too.




 
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Old Jan 13th, 2018, 16:51 PM   235
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Hope you're doing ok, Red



 
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Old Jan 13th, 2018, 17:01 PM   236
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Hope you’re doing okay! x



 
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Old Jan 14th, 2018, 04:00 AM   237
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Hey all
I’m still really struggling. I have no symptoms and just don’t feel pregnant. Things I was having like sore boobs, very mild nausea and headaches are non existent. I keep googling it and find all these posts saying ‘oh I had no symptoms except (insert major symptom here) and it was fine’ - which makes me want to hurt someone!! That is a symptom! Lol!
Still no more bleeding but I just don’t think that is really an indication of anything.
I’m really dreading tomorrow. I’m thinking of cancelling. I’m not ready for it to be over. I don’t want to hear there isn’t a heartbeat. Especially there. I don’t want to have to come out that room into the hallway of the maternity ward which is always full of pregnant women waiting for their scans and stuff. I can’t stand the thought of it. I’m not ready to give up yet. I’m really developing a phobia of that place. I know it’s burying my head in the sand but I just want to be pregnant a little longer. I don’t want it to be over. I’m not ready to hear it yet.



 
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Old Jan 14th, 2018, 04:04 AM   238
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It may not be over. No bleeding is really good! I know there's such thing as missed miscarriage, but most of the time it isn't like that. I really hope you see a beautiful little heartbeat. I know you don't want to go, but if you don't you'll drive yourself crazy not knowing



 
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Old Jan 14th, 2018, 05:27 AM   239
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I hope so too.
The problem is I keep thinking it is a missed miscarriage, and go round in circles telling myself that it won’t be as the one thing I can do well is miscarry!! I’ve got that nailed! But then I think maybe I’m just trying to outdo myself with how shit I can make things! I know I’m being irrational. It’s just so hard not knowing. I keep thinking back to my first pregnancy and how happy and excited and stupid I was. I’d give anything to feel like that this time! I didn’t even consider that it would end without a baby when I saw that BFP. Now I’m struggling to imagine a pregnancy that does end with one!



 
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Old Jan 14th, 2018, 05:31 AM   240
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I really wish they would be a bit more thoughtful of women going through the loss of a pregnancy and had a different exit. It's so upsetting.
That said i really dont think this will be the case for you tomorrow! For me my symptoms were on and off til just past 7 weeks when they came on full force but everyone is different. Some women sail through pregnancy with no symptoms at all. Crossing everything that you see a wiggly baby tomorrow, but I do totally understand why you are preparing for the worst, I think its our minds way of trying to protect us x



 
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