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Old Jan 30th, 2018, 17:05 PM   321
missielibra
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I haven't experienced your kind of losses, at all. And I'm paranoid. I think it's normal for you to be worried after everything you had to go through and you are being very, very strong. You know, my sister had different dating when she did hospital and private scan? Maybe one looks better than the other? And for her second, it shifted around a bit at the beginning. But you know what? She had two healthy babies! And she bled throughout both pregnancy!

I know it doesn't mean much, especially considering all your losses and struggles, but I don't think you should give up on this or think it's all gonna go away! I have my FX for you and I'm sending you all the positive vibes in the world. My heart ache for you, and I just - this is a sticky one!

Also look at that picture! That's gonna be a cutie!



 
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Old Jan 30th, 2018, 17:34 PM   322
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Great photo red and amazing you got to hear the heart beat again

I agree with everyone else I really wouldnít worry. Your date will most likely change again at your dating scan. 3 days behind isnít that much of a jump. I was dated at 7+1 at my early scan and last week at my dating scan they moved my due date forward by 6 days. Youíre growing perfectly!!



 
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Old Feb 3rd, 2018, 18:01 PM   323
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Just skim read through the updates as I haven't been on for a while. I'm so happy to see things are still going well even if u sometimes feel a bit worried. I would say in your case being worried is not only normal but it's a given!! Don't worry about the odd day here or there that the growth changes, it all depends on so many different things including the way the baby is laying. If they are curled up more than usual or turned slightly funny or even if the sonographer doesn't do the measurement at the exact point they should (which I would say is likely given the small size of early babies), they can all throw the dates off by up to a week!

I'm so pleased this is finally happening for u!!



 
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Old Feb 6th, 2018, 07:12 AM   324
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Red, just a thought but i have had lots of bleeding with my pregnancy in the last week, and so ended up with a couple of scans 2 days apart, both showed the heartbeat but at the 2 day later scan it said baby was 2 days earlier then the previous scan! Of course i freaked out and asked sonographer if baby was shrinking! Sonographer pointed out the actual measurement and said no it had grown a few mm which is good. And that different machines can have different date by measurements set, so this one was on a different setting to the other one. Just a thought maybe thats what happened to yours too? Wishing you all the best for your baby!



 
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Old Feb 6th, 2018, 08:16 AM   325
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Thank you all I hope it is just something trivial but I’m still worrying! I don’t think that’s going to change! It still doesn’t feel like it’s actially happening and I’m still checking for bleeding all the time! Time seems to be going so slowly it’s ridiculous. I wish I had a crystal ball!
Lightening thank you for that - I just googled it as I think baby measured 1.94cm and that seems about right for where I thought I was so maybe it is just different ways of calculating it. So complicated!! Because it was a private scan the lady doesn’t have a medical qualification, only an undergraduate degree so I think I’m just going to try and focus that baby is there, has grown and has a heartbeat.
Fingers crossed!!



 
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Old Feb 6th, 2018, 08:17 AM   326
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Also, just to say I know I should start a journal or stop updating this, but Iím really not ready to do that yet so I hope any admin donít mind!



 
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Old Feb 7th, 2018, 15:52 PM   327
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No worries fingers crossed for you! Hate the always needing to check for bleeding I'm the same! But they couldnt see anything at all in the scans that caused the bleeding!

Just know you arent alone! I'm just sticking to hope as the fact sheet for the early pregnancy unit ive been referred to says that 1 in 5 women experience bleeding in pregnancy the majority of whom go on to deliver a healthy baby!



 
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Old Yesterday, 10:37 AM   328
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Just to update this - had my 12 week scan today and it went good he was being awkward snuggled right into me and even afternoon coughing, star jumps and emptying my bladder and being tilted upside down on the table, he still didnít move out enough! It got a bit scary as she couldnít see his legs, but then he did kick luckily so we know theyíre there, but she couldnít get all the measurements so I get to back next week Iím still nervous but for sure feeling a bit more hopeful



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Old Yesterday, 10:38 AM   329
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I just realised you can see his legs in that pic! Haha she took that straight away and he must have snuggled down after!



 
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Old Yesterday, 10:40 AM   330
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Congratulations red! What a gorgeous little scan pic! Do you know the gender?



 
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