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Old Aug 8th, 2018, 10:39 AM   21
ashleyg
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Now that’s it’s dried a little you can see it better.
I don’t know what to do.



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Old Aug 8th, 2018, 10:53 AM   22
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I can’t. I don’t want another right now. I’m crying because the stupid line is there. I saw it on the wondfo but it was so light I thought it was just my eyes. But the frer is light pink and it’s there. I don’t know what to do if this is real.
Ok...breathe. So many of us have seen lines that don’t get darker etc... don’t freak out yet! Can you get a digital FRER or a digital EPT? Those are the most sensitive. Maybe grab one and see what it says?



 
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Old Aug 8th, 2018, 10:53 AM   23
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Hey there, so I've been following this thread because I was in a similar situation. We were completely done after three and when we had an oops moment and I was paranoid testing at 5 dpo, and sure enough got a positive test when my period was due I was feeling terrible. I can't tell you what to do, as I explored all of my options, and we decided we had room in our life for another instead of terminating. Try and take a deep breath and talk with your dh about it. I spent a lot of time crying and feeling so bad about it all, you're definitely not alone!



 
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Old Aug 8th, 2018, 10:54 AM   24
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Girl...I’m trying to support whatever it is you want! Lmao you’re not making it easier with these lines.



 
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Old Aug 8th, 2018, 10:56 AM   25
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I feel sick even thinking of terminating but I seriously can’t handle another. We just moved into a new home, I have a business I’ve been trying to get back up and running since we moved. My youngest is not even 8 months yet. Im crying so hard since seeing the tests.



 
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Old Aug 8th, 2018, 11:05 AM   26
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Like classic has said, they aren't that dark yet, they could be evaps. All I can say is you should talk with your dh and go from there.

I got pregnant with my third even while ebf my second, when he was just seven months old, and we were in the middle of buying a house, it was so rough but we managed. You can do it if you choose to!



 
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Old Aug 8th, 2018, 11:44 AM   27
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In agreement with the other ladies.

Take a deep breath, talk to DH.

Rushed decisions are rarely ever sound ones. Sending so much love



 
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Old Aug 8th, 2018, 11:46 AM   28
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Wait wait....take a few more before talking to DH! Just my 2 cents



 
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Old Aug 8th, 2018, 13:04 PM   29
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I agree with classic on this one... I would wait to see if lines get darker before telling DH... I had heartbreaks over light lines like that when I was TTC before. No need to stress if they are just evaps and FRER are crap for me and always gave me a light pink line pregnant or not.



 
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Old Aug 8th, 2018, 13:14 PM   30
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I'm currently pregnant with a pull out baby....
I was 1000% sure our family was complete and when I got this positive I bawled my eyes out, for probably a month straight. At first I was sure we would terminate. I finally am in a nursing program after years of preparing myself for this. I'm not working because I am having yo be a full time student so we are struggling to make ends meet as it is. This baby could not have come at a worse time!! However, I decided to keep it and hope that at some point I become excited about it. I can't say I'm exactly excited yet, but I am starting to look forward to seeing who this little one is.
I feel you and the complete devastation of an unplanned pregnancy. I hope you make a choice that is right for you and your family. It's so hard but whatever you chose, you will get through it.



 
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