Originally Posted by MommaAlexis

I understand the whole "boy who cried wolf" feeling, but to each their own. It doesn't hurt you or me either way, so I don't think it's a big deal at all.

Originally Posted by waiting2012

Like the others ladies mentioned--if reading the posts that you seem to have problems with is an issue--don't read them--in fact just don't come to this forum.. These ladies are looking for support, a "heads up", someone to say--"No your not crazy and here is what I see"...Everyone deserves to have something to look forward to...I understand what you are saying--to say that "a test that is tweaked ect and looks positive due to the tweak and then the woman has her af on time then claims it's a chemical {is sad}" but have you looked at the statistics of chemical pregnancies? It has become more and more common for a woman to have a chemical pregnancy because of the tests that we women use to determine whether we are pg or not. A chemical pregnancy is just that. It was a pregnancy that for whatever reason during implantation--didn't take "hold" and when the time of AF arrived--bleeding commenced as usual. There are a lot of women who probably have chemical pregnancies and don't even realize it because they DIDN'T test early on..With test manufacturer's claiming this test and that test can be used 5-7 days before your period is due-- we are basically setting ourselves up for heartbreak. I have had 3 m/c's this year--and ALL of mine were confirmed--does that make me some nut job for testing before my period is due; tweaking my test, having a bunch of women look at my test and TELL me they see a line on them..I post both the before tweak and after tweak tests--and still got told that I had bfps--so do I sit and mope because they aren't dark like someone else's...No, I take that what I see on a picture and in person is backed up by someone else's eyes...I don't wish a chemical pregnancy on anyone nor do I wish a m/c on anyone; they happen and sadly it is what it is. Some of these women NEED to know early on if they are pg because of medications they take or medications they might need to keep a pregnancy going--If they ask for a test to be tweaked--I'll do my best to see what I see and point it out and pray that someone else comes along and is able to help them out. So all in all...I'm sorry for your losses; congratulations on your current pregnancy--I hope all goes well. And honestly if reading the posts here and you come across some that you are shaking your head to--try to avoid them--as ALL these ladies are looking for that same thread of hope of being as pregnant as you are right now in the near future..

Just my opinion. And hope I don't sound mean.