Hi everyone,

I have a slight problem i was due on last Tuesday and the witch didn't arrive so i did a test and got a BFN. Then i though i could have possibly got my dates wrong which would mean i would be due on by the latest last Friday. The witch still hadn't arrive on Saturday so took another test and got a BFN again much to my dislike. As i am on Tamoxifen to get pregnant as i have pcos my periods are never late.
Here are my symptoms:
A little tired
Serve heartburn every time i eat
My boobs feel huge and at times can be a little tender
Have felt a little sick on a couple of days
More toilet visits than normal
Had cramps in my stomach last night but they have now gone

I am so confused as i got BFN's but is their still a chance i could be pregnant. Is there anyone out their who is or has been in the same situation as me and still got their BFP????

Please offer any advice you have as i am now at least 16dpo and feeling a little confused and impatient.

Thanks everyone xx

What tests are you using? It can take some ladies quite a while to show their bfp xxx

I don't have any answers for you but going through the same thing just now.

Last cycle I had a chemical and the first week after was so strange and different it threw me off completley, so I have no real idea when I ovulated but was due AF anytime Thurs/Sat and she's still not here and I still don't have a BFP. I'm on CD34 today.

I also have/had loads of symptoms too, I say had because most of them have gone. All I have now is one tender boob, yep just the left one, cramps on and off and sensitive to some smells. Starting to lose hope and just like you very confused and impatient.

Your not alone, fingers crossed we get some answers soon xx

due to you having pcos it could easily be a case of u oving later than usual this month, it can happen to even the most regular girls, u could well still be pregnant its just very early still, if u oved late then really it wouldn't be time to test yet IYKWIM hence why u have neither af or bfp yet, id keep testing every other day hun until u have a bfp or af, sorry i dnt have better advice hun its just a horrid waiting game unfortunately xxxx GL xx

Hi chan I'm sort of having the same problem but in diffirent circumstances, I came of microgynan on the sat the 3rd of march and had my withdrawal bleed on the 6th since then I've had nothing my periods were regular before I stated microgynan so if I have gone back to the 28 day cycle like I hope I would have got my periods on tuesday! However I have had nothing I got bad cramps on Wednesday night even took a hot water bottle to bed! I though they would be there when I woke up and they weren't so I took a morrisons home test and it was negative so I retryed on Saturday morning with FMU and that was also negative, I have had a sore lower back! Have been very moody and irritable!,I've been so tired and I do the same shifts at work and I haven't had any changes to my routine, I've been getting heartburn occasionally which I never get,and I've been going to the toilet a lot more waking up durin the night sometimes, I don't know if it's even possible for me to be pregnant I'm just so confused and tired of not knowing what's going on! I know it hasn't been long but I worry so much!I know we aren't in the exact same situation so I hope you dont mind me writing but I hated getting the negative test when everything is pointing to pregnancy!!! I hope you get some answers and I hope they are the ones you want to hear!!!good luck hun xxx

Hi i was using a first response. Think i'm just gonna have to wait this one out and see what happens but thinks feel very different this time around xxx

Hi Kazorina,

I hope you get some real answers soon. The only thing i can say to you is that your not out until the witch shows her face. Well she hasn't shown her face so far for me today. Gonna go out and get some more tests tomorrow. When will you be testing and what brand you using.
Let me know how you get on. I'll keepmy fingers crossed for you and hope you get your BFP real soon xx

Thank you Charliemarina. I do know for sure that i ovulated any time between 19th to 23rd March. The reason why i'm saying these dates is because i was due to ovulate on 19th but i think i actually ovulated on 22nd i know this because of the tests i were using and the signs i had. This is why i'm saying i'm only 2dpo just to be on the safe side but either way she would be here by now. Gonna go and get more tests tomorrow and see what shows tomorrow. Its just the waiting game that's doing my head in. Thanks again xxx

Thanks wildheart. I know what you mean its very confusing and very stressful. I'm trying so hard not to stress as i've had 2 miscarriages and 1 chemical all since 2010 so i'm dead worried and just want to know either way. But secretly i'm wanting a BFP. I'm gonna buy some more tests tomorrow and see what that brings and then if nothing by the end of the week then i'll make a doctors appointment for next week to have a blood test done. When will you next be testing? Have you thought about speaking to a doctor or a nurse to see what they say and if this is normal?
I hope you get the answers you want real soon. Let me know how you get on xxx

Hope you get some answers soon, be looking forward to seeing your tests , good luck XXXX