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Old Sep 24th, 2012, 12:10 PM   1
WelshOneEmma
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Must be the hormones (irrational rant day)


Well, hormones must be well and truely kicking in. Having the most irrational day.

Woke up at 6am in a FOUL mood (didn't help my alarm wasn't due to go off until 7am). Got up, had a cup of tea. Pissed off at everything.

Did the chickens at 7am, within an hour they looked a state as its raining and they just look drenched. i keep asking hubby to do something so they have more decent shelter, but nothing ever happens.

3 nights ago the dog peed in the spare room overnight (hubby didnt out down a puppy pad), so I cleaned it up. Its always me that cleans it up. Room still smells funny. One cat also has a habit of randomly peeing on things, including on top of the dog pee, so trying to sort that too. Its a rented house and to be fair the carpets were shit when we moved in.

Nursery is nearly sorted, just waiting on payday to get the last few big things. It feels like its always me getting everything though. Hubby just complains about the cost or everything being "too pink and girlie".

Been trying to sort through things, throw a load of junk out and get ready for baby. i feel like i am doing everything (then get told off for doing stuff). My sister tells me the house is a state, but no-one offers to help me sort it. I've been paying the neighbours 10 year old daughter at weekends to help me with things. Normally hubby does stuff too but as he is due to start a load of leave, everything's 'on hold' until then. He's off today but went to see his grandmother (I know he needs to see her, she's not in the best of health).

I just feel so fed up. Fed up of feeling like i have to be responsible for everything (money, animals, baby planning, cleaning etc), fed up of not being able to have anything nice because the animals wreck it (from nice rugs, bedding, clothes etc). Fed up of being in constant pain with this pregnancy, fed up of being tired and fed up of my bloody neighbours kids shouting and screaming at each other (you hear them through the walls). Work is stressful too so fed up with everything there as well.

I just feel so alone, and annoyed and fed up. For the first time in my life I want all the animals gone. And hubby too.

Must be the hormones!



 
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Old Sep 24th, 2012, 12:26 PM   2
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Ahh hun I think we all have those days, I feel like a woman possessed sometimes when I want something done and oh doesn't do it when I ask. I too feel like a never stop decorating, cooking, cleaning ironing, looking after our other son and working part time!

Enjoy a bit of time out for yourself or just have a relaxing bath.

Hopefully tomorrow will be a better day x



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Old Sep 24th, 2012, 12:31 PM   3
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sounds like you got good preparation for kids! i dont have any animals but i got three kids an they wreck everything about five minutes after ive bought it or tidied it or cleaned it for instance i bought the cot and put it all together an my toddler came along an flung her nappy in it then drew allover the sides i cried for about an hour then just cleaned it up and carried on lol everythings a hundred times more dramatic when your pregnant (or it is for me) just get it all out and have a good rant its good for ya!



 
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Old Sep 24th, 2012, 13:13 PM   4
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well he's come home and he knows I am upset and annoyed, so he's not spoken to me or anything. Will answer me if i say something to him. Sat reading my hypnobirthing book with the cat on his lap.

I know he works hard and long hours too, but right now i just want to punch him in the face.

Been crying for 30 mins since he got back and he's just ignored me the whole time.

I miss my Lucie cat. She used to always come and cuddle me, especially when i was upset but she died 3 weeks ago.

And i need to sort insurance for my new car tomorrow. Mum and dad have kindly bought me a new, better car, but now i need to sort insurance for that, but cover the old car until its sold, but sell the old car, but get it fixed first as the catalytic converter's gone and everything is just bloody hassle!!!



 
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Old Sep 24th, 2012, 13:23 PM   5
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well he's come home and he knows I am upset and annoyed, so he's not spoken to me or anything. Will answer me if i say something to him. Sat reading my hypnobirthing book with the cat on his lap.

I know he works hard and long hours too, but right now i just want to punch him in the face.

Been crying for 30 mins since he got back and he's just ignored me the whole time.

I miss my Lucie cat. She used to always come and cuddle me, especially when i was upset but she died 3 weeks ago.

And i need to sort insurance for my new car tomorrow. Mum and dad have kindly bought me a new, better car, but now i need to sort insurance for that, but cover the old car until its sold, but sell the old car, but get it fixed first as the catalytic converter's gone and everything is just bloody hassle!!!
Alot of this sounds like unnecessary stress...your husband needs to rise to the occasion and take on the burden of alot of this stuff...He needs to Step up big time...And animals do wreck alot thats why I dont have any...I do plan to get one small dog in a couple of months...but it will be very low maintenance



 
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Old Sep 24th, 2012, 14:15 PM   6
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well he's come home and he knows I am upset and annoyed, so he's not spoken to me or anything. Will answer me if i say something to him. Sat reading my hypnobirthing book with the cat on his lap.

I know he works hard and long hours too, but right now i just want to punch him in the face.

Been crying for 30 mins since he got back and he's just ignored me the whole time.

I miss my Lucie cat. She used to always come and cuddle me, especially when i was upset but she died 3 weeks ago.

And i need to sort insurance for my new car tomorrow. Mum and dad have kindly bought me a new, better car, but now i need to sort insurance for that, but cover the old car until its sold, but sell the old car, but get it fixed first as the catalytic converter's gone and everything is just bloody hassle!!!
Alot of this sounds like unnecessary stress...your husband needs to rise to the occasion and take on the burden of alot of this stuff...He needs to Step up big time...And animals do wreck alot thats why I dont have any...I do plan to get one small dog in a couple of months...but it will be very low maintenance
I had a go at him for ignoring me, he said it was because i was just going to shout at him. Told him he needs to sit and take it as i need to rant as everythings getting on top of me.

So I ranted and cried, he hugged me, then has started making a list of jobs for him to do. He's off tomorrow as well so will do some of them, then as of Saturday he's got a good week or two's leave to use so will do more for me then.

And dog's are always high maintenance. Ours is a terrier cross, so not a huge amount of work but lately REALLY pissing me off. they all are today for some reason! including the chickens who give us eggs!



 
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Old Sep 24th, 2012, 15:25 PM   7
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I've had one of those stressy afternoons. My 4 yr old moan he didn't want spaghetti Bol for tea so I threw it in the bin. Anyone would have thought I was the 4 yr old the way I reacted. He then told me he loved me and didn't want to see me cross. It made me feel so bloody horrible. My 11 yr old springer spaniel despite having been out for a walk is pacing the floor and following me out to the kitchen every time I get up. The sound of her paws on the wood floors is sending me insane. I just wanna scream and be left alone for some peace and quiet. On top of that my ribs feel like they are on fire

Hope your oh pulls his finger out and gets the jobs done x



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