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Old Jul 4th, 2009, 17:03 PM   1
kimfrye661
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why are men such insensitive assholes


My husband is being the most insensitive asshole right now...I cant stand him.
He wants to go to his brothers for 4th of July and I agreed to go. He wanted to go at 5 in the evening and I said no because its still too hot outside for me. He says, "you can sit in the house then while we stay outside". He wants me to sit in his brothers house, that has no air conditioning, that reeks of cat piss, BY MYSELF while him and his brother have fun outside.

So sweet.
So when I ask if its okay if we go around 7 when its cooler he gets all pissed off. He texts his brother saying were not coming and accusing me of ruining his day. How the hell did I ruin his day? Im 8 months pregnant, sorry for not wanting to sit in the 105 degree heat. On top of that ive had diarrhea all day, nausea, and all that wonderful crap.


Hes such an asshole. I hate guys. They dont understand half the shit we have to go through to carry their freaking children. Hes the one who wanted me pregnant SO BAD, but now that I am its like im ruining his life. Im supposedly a "hermit". IM SICK OF HIM. I honestly wish sometimes that I would've just broke it off with him in the beginning of our relationship, maybe I wouldn't be so damn miserable now.

Now hes laying on the bed, sleeping (like usual) even though im sitting here on the floor crying my eyes out. JACKASS.



 
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Old Jul 4th, 2009, 17:06 PM   2
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Awww Im sorry your OH is being such an ass. Thats Men for ya. Hope you start feeling better soon hun



 
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Old Jul 4th, 2009, 17:34 PM   3
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I would have just told OH to go on his own and sat and ate a massive bar of chocolate and had the remote to myself! Seriously, men just don't get the pregnant thing. My husband just told me that I can go tomorrow to a kitchen store and change a unit over. I can barely flipping walk my feet are so swollen! xx



 
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Old Jul 4th, 2009, 17:37 PM   4
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aww hunny, thats no good at all what a prat!! i honestly dont see why some men cant grasp that there pregnant partners should be getting looked after, cant be that difficult to see!! hope your okay xx



 
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Old Jul 4th, 2009, 21:26 PM   5
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sorry to hear hes being such an insensitive jerk! my oh is pretty good, everytime i complain, he just strokes my hair and says "oh you poor thing, thats so terrible. dont worry, not long to go now, etc etc"......i know he doesnt mean any of it and most of the time hes watching the football over my shoulder but it makes me feel better anyway. lol. cant expect too much from a man i guess! haha



 
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Old Jul 5th, 2009, 03:44 AM   6
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Sorry hunny, these men can be so annoying it is unbelievable. My hubby seems to have some of your hubbies characteristics - so damn lazy and everything that he does is half hearted. Yesterday I just said to him that I hate feeling like I am everyone's mother and he replied well you are...I was just like you are an arse, I am not supposed to feel as if I am your mother but your frigging other half who you should treat with respect. I tell you, sometimes I really question myself whether I love him at all.



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Old Jul 5th, 2009, 03:46 AM   7
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I would have just told OH to go on his own and sat and ate a massive bar of chocolate and had the remote to myself! Seriously, men just don't get the pregnant thing. My husband just told me that I can go tomorrow to a kitchen store and change a unit over. I can barely flipping walk my feet are so swollen! xx

Wonder if your hubby and mine are somehow related by male genes. Sounds like something he would say



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