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Old Mar 8th, 2017, 05:31 AM   11
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I was like this at about 28-31weeks. Now im getting bigger and not scared of labor to much (and my last labor ended in complications)
At the end of the day I always think your in hospital for a reason and they WILL get baby out even if Ec-sec.

I am more scared about being away from my son for the night! Hes 3 and I have never spent a night away from him. Hes never slept out. Has slept in his own bed since he was born. He still has night terrors which you cant do anything about, but me or daddy have always been there. So yeah im freaking out about leaving my son

Also im freaking out about being a mummy to a baby AND 3yr old!!! i just have no idea how i will cope with even less sleep and having to do the school run etc..

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Old Mar 11th, 2017, 16:09 PM   12
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I'm absolutely petrified this is baby no.13 for me and my first 10 we're very straight forward normal deliveries then no.11 was a cord prolapse crash section and no. 12 emcs now I'm booked in for cs on May 15th but I'm also told if I go into labour before this I will be allowed to labour now I'm scared stuff of another cs would much prefer a vaginal delivery but I'm also scared as last cs I went in hemorraging because I had a placental abrubtion so I feel I can't win scared of cs ( my worst nightmare) but also scared of a repeat abrubtion but not scared of actual labour I'm having extreme anxiety over all this but I think I would prefer it if I went into labour myself just without the bleeding problems at then I would be fairly happy , now I'm getting to the stage where I can't ignore it anymore as it's getting closer as I'm now in my 31st week , hope we all get the outcomes we want x



 
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Old Mar 12th, 2017, 05:33 AM   13
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Yep I'm scared this time! I was scared with my first baby then for the next three I was fine but this one I'm scared because my last labour was awful, I was rushed round to high risk, baby had pooped in my womb and they were trying to put cannulas in my arm and failing miserably and asking for urine samples whilst I was in full labour, the bed had someone else's blood on it, and my baby girl was so big that I really struggled to give birth to her the pain of her moving down was horrendous with her big head lol felt like bones scraping I didn't think I was going to be able to get her out, problem is for my size they reckon she was a fine size but giving birth to her was shocking so this time they feel I can have another big baby but I think if this baby is any bigger I'm really going to have problems!
sounds awful no wonder you are scared this time. I hope they are keeping a close eye so baby doesn't get too big for you!



 
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Old Mar 12th, 2017, 05:36 AM   14
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I was like this at about 28-31weeks. Now im getting bigger and not scared of labor to much (and my last labor ended in complications)
At the end of the day I always think your in hospital for a reason and they WILL get baby out even if Ec-sec.

I am more scared about being away from my son for the night! Hes 3 and I have never spent a night away from him. Hes never slept out. Has slept in his own bed since he was born. He still has night terrors which you cant do anything about, but me or daddy have always been there. So yeah im freaking out about leaving my son

Also im freaking out about being a mummy to a baby AND 3yr old!!! i just have no idea how i will cope with even less sleep and having to do the school run etc..

Labor is the easy bit
That must be hard leaving LO for the first time when you go into labour, I'm sure once labour kicks in though you won't worry about him too much. I'm sure he will be fine and probably enjoy the adventure! Having 2 kids is freaking me out too DD is 7 so fairly easy (apart from the attitude) and going back to the start with this LO is going to be a shock to the system!



 
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I'm absolutely petrified this is baby no.13 for me and my first 10 we're very straight forward normal deliveries then no.11 was a cord prolapse crash section and no. 12 emcs now I'm booked in for cs on May 15th but I'm also told if I go into labour before this I will be allowed to labour now I'm scared stuff of another cs would much prefer a vaginal delivery but I'm also scared as last cs I went in hemorraging because I had a placental abrubtion so I feel I can't win scared of cs ( my worst nightmare) but also scared of a repeat abrubtion but not scared of actual labour I'm having extreme anxiety over all this but I think I would prefer it if I went into labour myself just without the bleeding problems at then I would be fairly happy , now I'm getting to the stage where I can't ignore it anymore as it's getting closer as I'm now in my 31st week , hope we all get the outcomes we want x
Fingers crossed for you that you get the birth you want. it must be so scary when the last 2 had complications. Hopefully this LO follows the births of your first 10!



 
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Old Mar 12th, 2017, 07:31 AM   16
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Yup, I'm scared too. I think I'm most anxious about being away from Max. Ethan lives with his dad and I haven't been apart from Max for more than a few hours since he was born so I'm a bit anxious about being apart from him, especially as he's now getting to that stage where he wants me a lot. Then when he next sees me, he'll have to share me with his sister 24/7 whereas with his brother, he only sees him time to time, if you know what I mean?
But yeah, I am anxious about the birth. I have a planned c section on the 30th but I could still go at any time. I've put a waterproof mattress protector on the bed though incase my waters go at night so one less thing to worry about



 
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