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Old Mar 13th, 2017, 11:37 AM   1
nycmommy
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Went to the doc today (39 weeks with my 3rd baby) and was told I am not dialated or effaced and baby is comfortable staying put. With my first I was 2.5cm dialated from 37 weeks and had him 3 days late. With my second I was 3cm dialated from 37 weeks and her her on due date. Now im 39 weeks and closed shut and the doc thinks she will be late wants me in next week wednesday (2 dats late) for monitoring. I tried lots of walking, rasberry leaf tea, EPO, bouncing on the ball, sex with DH, nipple stimulation and nothing. I get alot of BH that are somewhat painful but nothing. Im getting depressed that my body is refusing to cooperate. I really dont want to be late but seams like i will be



 
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Old Mar 14th, 2017, 04:16 AM   2
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Things can change very quick try not to let it get you down. I've had sweeps been told I'm 1cm and wouldn't be having her anytime soon she was in my arms two days later. My friend had a sweep and was 3cm and didn't have her until a week past due date



 
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Old Mar 14th, 2017, 10:24 AM   3
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Things can change very quick try not to let it get you down. I've had sweeps been told I'm 1cm and wouldn't be having her anytime soon she was in my arms two days later. My friend had a sweep and was 3cm and didn't have her until a week past due date
Thanks for your response. I guess I am dishearten because things with my other two were progressing from 37 weeks, and with this one nothing. Every appointment I go in I am told she is very comfortable, and yesterday I was told I will be probably be over. If I didn't have two other small kids I would't care, I would sit on the couch and wait, but I have my other babies that I want to be able to have energy to play with but everything hurts and I am so miserable. I just want to give birth and be back to being energetic me. =( And I feel like the more i try the less my chances of on time birth. =(



 
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Old Mar 14th, 2017, 13:51 PM   4
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Bless you, it must be hard at the end of pregnancy (as I'm sure I'll find out) but sadly baby will come when they are ready. It's one of those things that there is absoloutely no control over..! Which grates on my personality, I like to plan things! But what can you do And really, it is better for baby to get a full 40 weeks cooking!

I've struggled with feeling pretty pants this entire pregnancy and spent a lot of weeks wishing time away but after a recent second trimester loss in my family, its really hit home just how grateful I am to have been able to carry baby safely to this point and I'd quite like baby to stay out until 40 weeks to grow as strong as they can do!

Here's hoping time flies for you and baby makes an appreance soon! Try to enjoy the last few days as a Mum of two before your little one arrives and takes all your attention!



 
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Old Mar 14th, 2017, 13:54 PM   5
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things can change very quick so try not to worry and enjoy the last few weeks if you can



 
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Old Mar 14th, 2017, 14:51 PM   6
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Your first few tend to get ready earlier. I dilated very quickly with my 3rd even though my cervix was still very high two days before I had her, she wasn't engaged either. It's like the more you have your body doesn't need to prepare it just suddenly does it. I never lost any plug either with 2 or 3 until I was in labor



 
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Old Mar 16th, 2017, 21:39 PM   7
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So im getting some regular BH since 6pm today and now i noticed lots of mucus when wiping. Fingers crosswd its the start of something.



 
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