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Old Jun 1st, 2018, 10:02 AM   1
CharCharxxx
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I can't take much more of this


I'm still only 35+2 snd the thought of probably going overdue AGAIN makes me get so upset. All 3 of my previous births were inductions nothing makes mine come out!! I'm so fed up I'm in agony with spd, i feel like i can barely look after my other kids. Im lucky my oldest is so self sufficient she's helped me massively while my OH has been away at work the past 3 weeks. I can't stop crying I'm beyond miserable. Can't begin to explain how much i can't wait to close this baby making chapter of my life. NEVER AGAIN. Sorry for the rant



 
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Old Jun 1st, 2018, 10:06 AM   2
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Boo, I'm sorry you're in so much pain! My previous baby was also an induction and stayed in my womb an extra 10 days. The thought of this one doing the same thing makes me want to cry.

And don't apologize for ranting! When you're this pregnant, or pregnant at all, you're allowing to rant. It's uncomfortable, painful, and it sucks. Fingers crossed this baby is nice to you and comes early!



 
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Old Jun 1st, 2018, 12:02 PM   3
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Iím sorry youíre in pain. Itís especially hard the last few weeks. I couldnít imagine doing it without my husband around. Youíre sooo close!! Iím looking forward to the baby having stage of my life being over as well. Im tired of being fat and I have sciatica this time so it sucks. Iím very grateful, but Iím tired and done.



 
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Old Jun 1st, 2018, 13:05 PM   4
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Aw thank you ladies for your replies. It's meant to be the most beautiful natural thing in the world, yet it can make you feel soooo bad physically and mentally. I just want to get to around 38 weeks and him make an appearance im sooo ready for it. God this sucks. I suppose at least i can say I'm having my baby next month now. Or maybe this month if I'm lucky lol. X



 
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Old Jun 2nd, 2018, 06:32 AM   5
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Aw thank you ladies for your replies. It's meant to be the most beautiful natural thing in the world, yet it can make you feel soooo bad physically and mentally. I just want to get to around 38 weeks and him make an appearance im sooo ready for it. God this sucks. I suppose at least i can say I'm having my baby next month now. Or maybe this month if I'm lucky lol. X
Aww at least you see a good side about having a baby either this month or next i didnt relise that im a few weeks behind you and honsetly i cant wait for it to be over but im actually so glad that she is a girl cos i dont kno how i would cope if it was another boy this too is a final baby so we too are shutting up shop as medically ahould have stopped when i had a mesh fitted so there is no side affects or guidlines to pregnancys and a major mesh surgery so in a lot off pain
It also seems that any one that tries so hard for there babies me being one tried for 8 months to concieve this mirical and i seem to be in so much pain and having most awfull pregnancy where as some people full pregnant not trying and just sail through like nothing is happeneing i think since the nursery and babys stuff is now all set up and ready it seems its started to drag i had a awful pregnancy from 8 weeks till 33 weeks and then the best 8 weeks and she is the oposit best 30 weeks and now everything that can go wrong is hopefully you dont go the whole 10 youve made it so far every day is a day closer xx



 
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Old Jun 2nd, 2018, 12:52 PM   6
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Aw thank you ladies for your replies. It's meant to be the most beautiful natural thing in the world, yet it can make you feel soooo bad physically and mentally. I just want to get to around 38 weeks and him make an appearance im sooo ready for it. God this sucks. I suppose at least i can say I'm having my baby next month now. Or maybe this month if I'm lucky lol. X
Aww at least you see a good side about having a baby either this month or next i didnt relise that im a few weeks behind you and honsetly i cant wait for it to be over but im actually so glad that she is a girl cos i dont kno how i would cope if it was another boy this too is a final baby so we too are shutting up shop as medically ahould have stopped when i had a mesh fitted so there is no side affects or guidlines to pregnancys and a major mesh surgery so in a lot off pain
It also seems that any one that tries so hard for there babies me being one tried for 8 months to concieve this mirical and i seem to be in so much pain and having most awfull pregnancy where as some people full pregnant not trying and just sail through like nothing is happeneing i think since the nursery and babys stuff is now all set up and ready it seems its started to drag i had a awful pregnancy from 8 weeks till 33 weeks and then the best 8 weeks and she is the oposit best 30 weeks and now everything that can go wrong is hopefully you dont go the whole 10 youve made it so far every day is a day closer xx
I know what you mean. I've got so many annoying friends who have had no pregnancy issues and just bang on about how much they loved it. It makes me so sad that i can't be one of these women. It is the most amazing feeling though to know that i don't have to go through this again, each pregnancy has got that bit worse. Sorry you're having a tough last few weeks aswel. Thank god July is next month thats all I can say!!! X



 
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Old Jun 2nd, 2018, 22:55 PM   7
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I have a friend right now who is due a few weeks ahead of me with her third and has ranted about how she can't wait to meet her lil man, how blessed pregnant women should be and not complain when they end up with the reward of a baby at the end. Obviously she hasn't went through the pain I have. She was able to work most of her pregnancy without complaint - she even said she didn't have any MS with this baby - whereas I was unable to because of 20 weeks of HG and then now dealing with the end of pregnancy woes (SPD, lower back pain, pressure, can't breathe, babies kicking making me feel bruised, etc.) so I kind of just want to punch her in the face... dang hormones

I'm just ready to be done too. I'm tired of being in pain and unable to care for my children the way I want to. I just look at housework that needs to be done and I can never find the motivation to do it because it is more painful to get up than to sit where I am staring at it. DH helps as much as he can but he is also the breadwinner so I feel like a deficit when I ask him to do something for me because I know he is tired from work. Thankfully unlike you ladies I've never went overdue so I can't imagine having that pressure to think about but I can't wait until it is over. I'm only 33 weeks going by LMP but baby has been consistently measuring 3 weeks ahead by ultrasound (he was already 4lbs 12oz at 30 weeks) so I'm sure if he came early he'd be ok. Is it sad that I think that?



 
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Old Jun 3rd, 2018, 16:54 PM   8
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I have a friend right now who is due a few weeks ahead of me with her third and has ranted about how she can't wait to meet her lil man, how blessed pregnant women should be and not complain when they end up with the reward of a baby at the end. Obviously she hasn't went through the pain I have. She was able to work most of her pregnancy without complaint - she even said she didn't have any MS with this baby - whereas I was unable to because of 20 weeks of HG and then now dealing with the end of pregnancy woes (SPD, lower back pain, pressure, can't breathe, babies kicking making me feel bruised, etc.) so I kind of just want to punch her in the face... dang hormones

I'm just ready to be done too. I'm tired of being in pain and unable to care for my children the way I want to. I just look at housework that needs to be done and I can never find the motivation to do it because it is more painful to get up than to sit where I am staring at it. DH helps as much as he can but he is also the breadwinner so I feel like a deficit when I ask him to do something for me because I know he is tired from work. Thankfully unlike you ladies I've never went overdue so I can't imagine having that pressure to think about but I can't wait until it is over. I'm only 33 weeks going by LMP but baby has been consistently measuring 3 weeks ahead by ultrasound (he was already 4lbs 12oz at 30 weeks) so I'm sure if he came early he'd be ok. Is it sad that I think that?
Haha i completely relate to that feeling of wanting to punch someone in the face. I almost don't belivee them i think they are just trying to make themselves feel better lol..
Well maybe if this one is measuring so far ahead then things will happen earlier for you! X



 
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Old Jun 3rd, 2018, 18:24 PM   9
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I have a friend right now who is due a few weeks ahead of me with her third and has ranted about how she can't wait to meet her lil man, how blessed pregnant women should be and not complain when they end up with the reward of a baby at the end. Obviously she hasn't went through the pain I have. She was able to work most of her pregnancy without complaint - she even said she didn't have any MS with this baby - whereas I was unable to because of 20 weeks of HG and then now dealing with the end of pregnancy woes (SPD, lower back pain, pressure, can't breathe, babies kicking making me feel bruised, etc.) so I kind of just want to punch her in the face... dang hormones

I'm just ready to be done too. I'm tired of being in pain and unable to care for my children the way I want to. I just look at housework that needs to be done and I can never find the motivation to do it because it is more painful to get up than to sit where I am staring at it. DH helps as much as he can but he is also the breadwinner so I feel like a deficit when I ask him to do something for me because I know he is tired from work. Thankfully unlike you ladies I've never went overdue so I can't imagine having that pressure to think about but I can't wait until it is over. I'm only 33 weeks going by LMP but baby has been consistently measuring 3 weeks ahead by ultrasound (he was already 4lbs 12oz at 30 weeks) so I'm sure if he came early he'd be ok. Is it sad that I think that?
I feel that way too about my baby being a little bigger I'm okay with him being born earlier... so if it is sad you think that, you're definitely not alone! And it's a relief to me to know that I'm not either!



 
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Old Jun 3rd, 2018, 23:14 PM   10
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Your deffinatly not alone there little miss is measuring as big as a 38 weeker i think in weight was 5.12 or around the higher end at 32 weeks my 35 prem boy was 6.4 and was ok so i feel if she comes early she is bigger then all my boys but i do have to admit i never had no pregnancy symptoms until i was able to feel her kicks at 20 week no morning sickness no periods nothing so im greatfull there but this last half has been dreadfull but where all here together another day closer xx



 
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