I just can't see the future....Am I alone???

Bingles · Feb 18th, 2010, 07:14 AM

OK I have 10 weeks ish left till I pray I will meet my LO but no matter how much I try I cant imagine it. I am here sitting on the sofa typing this and can't imagine a little baby sitting in his/her bouncer infront of me needing everything done for it. I don't know if this has anything to do with the fact this is my first or am I just not bonding with the baby right.

I still have lil niggles in the back of my mind spomething is going to go wrong. Am I alone or does anyone else feel like this?

kayleigh&bump · Feb 18th, 2010, 07:16 AM

Im exactly the same and im due in 2 days

I cant imagine what my lo will look like or having him here. It still feels like I have got weeks and weeks to go yet

x

lisa9999 · Feb 18th, 2010, 07:17 AM

I'm the same hon. I look at my bump and think 'lord there is actually a living baby in there' but it still dont really register.
I was on about it recently to my sis who has 3 and she said she was the same too.

I think it will be different once our bubs are here, and then it will all fall into place (I hope!)

littleblonde · Feb 18th, 2010, 07:18 AM

I feel the same hun. I then panic myself and think maybe this is a sign that something will go wrong. Its nice to no im not alone

Capsicum · Feb 18th, 2010, 07:19 AM

I totally feel the same. It's comforting to know that there are other people out there who also feel the same.

laura4disney · Feb 18th, 2010, 07:20 AM

i have that same feeling, have 12ish weeks to go and still cant believe that the baby in my belly will be a baby in my arms. You're definatly not alone in thinking that!

Bingles · Feb 18th, 2010, 07:20 AM

Thanks you girls I am delighted I am not alone. I lay in the bath watching my belly wriggle and think OMG there is a baby in there and it just don't register it must be quite common.

blackrose · Feb 18th, 2010, 07:20 AM

I still feel this way , it scares me that I have all my baby stuff ready because in the back of my mind I sometimes find it hard to believe I will ever be using it. I think its totally normal :hugs :

Bingles · Feb 18th, 2010, 07:24 AM

I feel so much better now girls

I have the hospital next week and my oH is off and I plan on going out ang getting loads of final bits for the baby but was feeling really scared to to it as I cant see the future its mad.

MrsGlitz · Feb 18th, 2010, 07:46 AM

I feel exactly the same.

I burst into tears last night and told my DH that I am not ready to be a mummy and he rolled his eyes and said it was a bit late to change my mind. I tried to explain that I do want this baby but the thought of having him here petrifies me. I don't feel old enough to be responsible for a baby despite being 27 and fairly mature.

Feb 18th, 2010, 07:14 AM	#1
Bingles Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Ireland Posts: 2,197	I just can't see the future....Am I alone??? OK I have 10 weeks ish left till I pray I will meet my LO but no matter how much I try I cant imagine it. I am here sitting on the sofa typing this and can't imagine a little baby sitting in his/her bouncer infront of me needing everything done for it. I don't know if this has anything to do with the fact this is my first or am I just not bonding with the baby right. I still have lil niggles in the back of my mind spomething is going to go wrong. Am I alone or does anyone else feel like this?

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Feb 18th, 2010, 07:16 AM	#2
kayleigh&bump Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Maidstone, kent Posts: 5,243	Im exactly the same and im due in 2 days I cant imagine what my lo will look like or having him here. It still feels like I have got weeks and weeks to go yet x

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Feb 18th, 2010, 07:17 AM	#3
lisa9999 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 2,494	I'm the same hon. I look at my bump and think 'lord there is actually a living baby in there' but it still dont really register. I was on about it recently to my sis who has 3 and she said she was the same too. I think it will be different once our bubs are here, and then it will all fall into place (I hope!)

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Feb 18th, 2010, 07:18 AM	#4
littleblonde Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shropshire Posts: 7,230	I feel the same hun. I then panic myself and think maybe this is a sign that something will go wrong. Its nice to no im not alone

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Feb 18th, 2010, 07:19 AM	#5
Capsicum Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: London Posts: 223	I totally feel the same. It's comforting to know that there are other people out there who also feel the same.

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Feb 18th, 2010, 07:20 AM	#6
laura4disney Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Wakefield, UK Posts: 342	i have that same feeling, have 12ish weeks to go and still cant believe that the baby in my belly will be a baby in my arms. You're definatly not alone in thinking that!

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Feb 18th, 2010, 07:20 AM	#8
blackrose Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Ireland Posts: 2,192	I still feel this way , it scares me that I have all my baby stuff ready because in the back of my mind I sometimes find it hard to believe I will ever be using it. I think its totally normal :hugs :

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Feb 18th, 2010, 07:24 AM	#9
Bingles Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Ireland Posts: 2,197	I feel so much better now girls I have the hospital next week and my oH is off and I plan on going out ang getting loads of final bits for the baby but was feeling really scared to to it as I cant see the future its mad.

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Feb 18th, 2010, 07:46 AM	#10
MrsGlitz Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Bournemouth, Dorset Posts: 3,150	I feel exactly the same. I burst into tears last night and told my DH that I am not ready to be a mummy and he rolled his eyes and said it was a bit late to change my mind. I tried to explain that I do want this baby but the thought of having him here petrifies me. I don't feel old enough to be responsible for a baby despite being 27 and fairly mature.

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