failed sex....TMI

Gingerspice · Apr 3rd, 2010, 15:49 PM

So we hadn't had sex in a long time. We gave it a go today, but we just couldn't get it to work.

We were both too clumsy and then it turned into a general moan about sex techniques and he got turned off, then I moaned as I'm really tight down below so he then got frustrated when I groaned a bit from pain. He then ranted about how a baby will be coming out of there and my pain threshold is obviously crap and super low so how was I going to cope!

I'm also upset as he commented I smelt strong, which is probably true as there is increased discharge etc, but even so its hit home a bit. Maybe I should try the using baby wipes to freshen up that whole area before we give it a go again!?

What positions do people find best with a big bump?

WhosThatGirl · Apr 3rd, 2010, 15:55 PM

I always take a shower before we do it, with the discharge and stuff I just feel cleaner and fresher. The ONLY position that works for us is my leaning over the side of the bed, ,my head resting on the side of the mattress, feet on the floor, belly hanging between my legs and the end of mattress and dh grabbing from the back and going at it that way. Not the most romantic position but its the only way we can get it done with my huge stomach.

MUMMYBEAR6 · Apr 3rd, 2010, 15:57 PM

well before my partner left during the week he used to lie behind me & wed do it that way,

as for baby wipes ave never used them just the feminine wipes

Hattie80 · Apr 3rd, 2010, 16:01 PM

I know wot u mean. It's all v unsexy and mechanical isn't it?! We hadn't done it in while and had a go earlier in week as I'm overdue and so fed up so willing to give anything a go! Missionary is way too uncomfy now so I go on top. But it's hard to feel turned on as I just feel so huge and clumsy. He seemed to enjoy it tho!!

What cracked me up tho was afterwards his voice was all strained and quiet as he said 'Babe could u move now as you're really squashing me and I can't breathe!!'

Oh the joys of being heavily pregnant!

I can't wait to be slim and flexible again...I feel like an elephant

flame · Apr 3rd, 2010, 16:08 PM

Tell the guy to go buy a blow up doll if he isent satified with you as at least hse wont answer him back, as he should be ashamed of himself

Ladybug2009 · Apr 3rd, 2010, 16:11 PM

Hey hun.

You will smell strong but dont feel hurt about this i usually have a shower before hand as this can be a turn off for DH if it smells that strong. Where ok with the sex at the min althou i feel so un-sexy but DH seems to think otherwise so just goes to show what mite work for sumone eles may not work for u!

Hope this may help. Ur nearly there now thou so fingers crossed you wont be feeling like this for much longer.

snailien · Apr 3rd, 2010, 16:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hattie80

I can't wait to be slim and flexible again...I feel like an elephant

I second that! I feel so unsexy!

lauralora · Apr 3rd, 2010, 16:13 PM

awww bless... WELL im too scared to have sex as ive had bleeds before. i miss it so much though so this morning we decided to have sex up the other entrance if you get me lmao! actually worked well... before that though he was able to lie on top of me, coz my bump isnt huge yet ha xx

daisyfflur · Apr 3rd, 2010, 16:21 PM

It's weird isn't it? I feel like such a huffalump and he must notice bigger thighs, bum and extra weight in general, it's very off putting...

flame · Apr 3rd, 2010, 16:29 PM

Im happily single, BUT i have noticed that since i have got so much curvacious than my usual size 8 to 10, i have been chatted up a lot more and am only a few days away from birth, so lassies i say love your curves

Apr 3rd, 2010, 15:49 PM	#1
Gingerspice Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: the south Posts: 2,293	failed sex....TMI So we hadn't had sex in a long time. We gave it a go today, but we just couldn't get it to work. We were both too clumsy and then it turned into a general moan about sex techniques and he got turned off, then I moaned as I'm really tight down below so he then got frustrated when I groaned a bit from pain. He then ranted about how a baby will be coming out of there and my pain threshold is obviously crap and super low so how was I going to cope! I'm also upset as he commented I smelt strong, which is probably true as there is increased discharge etc, but even so its hit home a bit. Maybe I should try the using baby wipes to freshen up that whole area before we give it a go again!? What positions do people find best with a big bump?

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Apr 3rd, 2010, 15:55 PM	#2
WhosThatGirl Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Seattle,Washington Posts: 1,911	I always take a shower before we do it, with the discharge and stuff I just feel cleaner and fresher. The ONLY position that works for us is my leaning over the side of the bed, ,my head resting on the side of the mattress, feet on the floor, belly hanging between my legs and the end of mattress and dh grabbing from the back and going at it that way. Not the most romantic position but its the only way we can get it done with my huge stomach.

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Apr 3rd, 2010, 15:57 PM	#3
MUMMYBEAR6 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Scotland Posts: 186	well before my partner left during the week he used to lie behind me & wed do it that way, as for baby wipes ave never used them just the feminine wipes

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Apr 3rd, 2010, 16:01 PM	#4
Hattie80 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Oxford, UK Posts: 239	I know wot u mean. It's all v unsexy and mechanical isn't it?! We hadn't done it in while and had a go earlier in week as I'm overdue and so fed up so willing to give anything a go! Missionary is way too uncomfy now so I go on top. But it's hard to feel turned on as I just feel so huge and clumsy. He seemed to enjoy it tho!! What cracked me up tho was afterwards his voice was all strained and quiet as he said 'Babe could u move now as you're really squashing me and I can't breathe!!' Oh the joys of being heavily pregnant! I can't wait to be slim and flexible again...I feel like an elephant

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Apr 3rd, 2010, 16:08 PM	#5
flame Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 253	Tell the guy to go buy a blow up doll if he isent satified with you as at least hse wont answer him back, as he should be ashamed of himself

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Apr 3rd, 2010, 16:11 PM	#6
Ladybug2009 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Liverpool - Merseyside Posts: 615	Hey hun. You will smell strong but dont feel hurt about this i usually have a shower before hand as this can be a turn off for DH if it smells that strong. Where ok with the sex at the min althou i feel so un-sexy but DH seems to think otherwise so just goes to show what mite work for sumone eles may not work for u! Hope this may help. Ur nearly there now thou so fingers crossed you wont be feeling like this for much longer.

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Apr 3rd, 2010, 16:13 PM	#8
lauralora Other BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 3,940	awww bless... WELL im too scared to have sex as ive had bleeds before. i miss it so much though so this morning we decided to have sex up the other entrance if you get me lmao! actually worked well... before that though he was able to lie on top of me, coz my bump isnt huge yet ha xx

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Apr 3rd, 2010, 16:21 PM	#9
daisyfflur Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Wiltshire Posts: 704	It's weird isn't it? I feel like such a huffalump and he must notice bigger thighs, bum and extra weight in general, it's very off putting...

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Apr 3rd, 2010, 16:29 PM	#10
flame Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 253	Im happily single, BUT i have noticed that since i have got so much curvacious than my usual size 8 to 10, i have been chatted up a lot more and am only a few days away from birth, so lassies i say love your curves

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