so upset i dont know what else to do or who else to turn to
so this am a woman downstairs calls my bf while we were snuggled in bed at 6am to take her to get a pack of cigs. i am upset she calls and calls and i answered and told her off. well i here something outside and i look out the window to check on the van and she is out there, she yells at calls me names from outside our window. i am not even going to repeat it, and then i just start breaking down in tears. i am 38 weeks pregnant and my bf at the time was in the bt rm getting ready 4 work and he is like what is wrong with you. i tell him i been up all night i have not been outside in days we live in the ghetto i am so tired and that crazy lady is calling me names outside. he replys you should not of started stuff. well he does not even stick up for me so i get 10x more upset and i pushed the entertainment center and the tv fell. omg. if he would of just been on my side instead of being in the bt rm antagonizing me worse. well i did not mean for the tv to fall out of the damn thing and break but what does he do? he throws the bathroom organizer and screams at me and flips out and makes me freak out even worse. i needed to cry i been holding it in for days but i did not need the damn tv to fall or for him to join in and act 500x more hormonal than i am. and this is how i am supposed to bring a child into this earth. i am heartbroken, we are better than this, we are classier than this. when i am upset he gets upset instead of being on top of things and controlling the situation he joins in and makes matters worse. now i am ashamed and scared to go outside. :'( i dont know what to do. we are moving soon but we are moving to the county and liing in the same building directly on top of my moms apt and i cant have her knowing we fight this bad. my baby daughter is in my belly cannot control her destiny and here we are yelling. i had no idea yelling at that crazy neighbor for calling us over and over at 6 am would cause this much chaos.
babes, dont get upset, I know it is hard but these things happen all the time and to the best of us.....its crap i know but there really is no point making yourself more upset.....Once you move and your baby is here - you will both be so happy, pregnancy can be such a strain on both women and their partners so just try not to get so upset hunnee.
Don't worry, just try and relax and get some sleep if you can and it will all seem better after a while. At least you'll be getting out of there soon and maybe it will make u both calmer and argue less anyway. Plus you'll both be really busy with the baby so be great to have your mum nearby to help out.
Don't stress - we all have those days where things just get out of hand - talk to him when you've both calmed down and explain you just feel so stressed and needed to cry (and that the TV was an accident!)
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