Some of u may no that my husbands family belong in a zoo, not happy unless there shitstirring,splitting us up or making life generally difficult.

A couple of weeks ago my hubby text his mum to say if she didnt make the effort to come and c him or kids by the end of the next week he'd cut her out completely cos she'd disappeared to spain a year before and didnt bother with her kids or grandkids. She has 5kids and 9grandkids. She moved with a man she'd known,been with and married in the space of 2months and everyone said he'd be trouble. She moved, he got arrested for trying to smuggle 20mil worth of drugs from england to spain in furniture in back of lorry and beat her up constantly. She's caused so much grief and we've always been there for her. She came back from spain 2months ago after her mum used her pension to pay for her ticket to get her back safely and then her fella came back and she took him back. She went round to her friends who lives literally the next road but couldn't pop in and see her son or grandkids at the same time. After my hubby text her that he's had nothing since. Yet she's been calling and texting the rest of his brothers and sisters. And had to phone my hubby last year to ask him when his birthday was? Her own son!


Anyway to the point of the rant. We got our post this morning and had a letter addressed to his mum at our address which we've never had. She's been done for fraud before. Saying that she owes provident £805 and if its not paid in 72hours there taking legal action! He phoned her and asked wat the hell she was playing at and she tried saying she'd called them that morning to say she doesn't live here but we've never had post for her before for her to know it had come here and when he asked her what our address was she couldn't remember. So she obviously hadn't contacted them. And he said if she doesn't call them he'll phone them and give them her number and address she's staying at cos he's not having ours or our childrens stuff being taken or our kids being made homeless and she hung up on him! Bitch! After all the help we've given her. We gave her a phone and sim and money when she was here last time so her fella couldn't contact her. that night she went back to him.

I called provident myself and gave them her address and number cos there's no way in hell she's bringing that crap to my kids door! And if anyone in his family thinks we've over reacted they'll be told we'd happily do it again. How can she call herself a mum?

Rant finally over. Sorry ladies

Wow.... Thats alot of s**t hun, I wish I could say something to help so heres a flower and some hugs hope you get it sorted out soon xx

she sounds like an absolute waste of space!
x

Thanks hun and agreed gemabee. There's so much more then that I wont even go into x

Good for you. Why shouls she ruin your credit score cos she cant sort herself out? Some people are just better off out of your life

What a bitch!!! You so don not need her in your life! My hubby's mum is a nightmare and we cut her out of our lives in february after a string of events and her lies etc, when she didn't show up to our wedding that was the final straw as she had gone on and on about how proud of us she was etc, it was all bullshit.
We made the decision that she would have no part in our child's life, and she doesn't even know that I am pregnant as we haven't heard anything since feb from her.
Sometimes these decisions have to be made and someone who does stuff like that does not deserve to be in your life our your childrens lives. xx

Wow, thats a shedload of crap you don't need right now! I think you've done the right thing, bloody hell, she sounds like a total nightmare! xxx

Oh she is. Thanks girls. I no what u mean some people aren't worth bothering with and it took a lot for my hubby to do that cos he's a real family man but he's opened his eyes alot recently cos we nearly split for good over there rubbish a couple of months ago. Im glad he's not letting them walk all over him anymore tho x

Big hun, you can really do without all that!

I'd be asking what Provident were doing lending money to her at your address though? Sounds fishy to me, hope they leave you alone now x x x

Its a loan her and her hubby took out to move to spain and obviously she'd called a long while back and changed her address. Thanks for hugs :-) x