Babies behind bars part 2 starting now - Page 2

RaspberryK · Jul 4th, 2011, 16:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Ruby x

not wanting to start a riot but I think its pretty wrong people who commit these sorts of crimes can even have kids when there are so many people TTC who wnat a baby so badly. Its jus not fair. Especially the bird last week who was having her 3rd or 4th kid behind bars...seriously. I cant watch it.

Ouch!

Every soul is perfect, pure and beautiful. In the state of forgetfulness in which they reside here on Earth, God's perfect beings may do imperfect things -- or what we would call imperfect things -- yet everything that occurs in life occurs for a perfect reason.

I'm not religious but I think it is something to think about?

x

emyandpotato · Jul 4th, 2011, 16:21 PM

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Originally Posted by RaspberryK

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ruby x

not wanting to start a riot but I think its pretty wrong people who commit these sorts of crimes can even have kids when there are so many people TTC who wnat a baby so badly. Its jus not fair. Especially the bird last week who was having her 3rd or 4th kid behind bars...seriously. I cant watch it.

Ouch!

Every soul is perfect, pure and beautiful. In the state of forgetfulness in which they reside here on Earth, God's perfect beings may do imperfect things -- or what we would call imperfect things -- yet everything that occurs in life occurs for a perfect reason.

I'm not religious but I think it is something to think about?

x

Very well said, agree completely.

RaspberryK · Jul 4th, 2011, 16:25 PM

It's from a book - friendship with god.
I am feeling quite spiritual of late .

x

emyandpotato · Jul 4th, 2011, 16:30 PM

I'm not religious but it's a beautiful quote.

I feel some people have very confused ideas on morality sometimes.

RaspberryK · Jul 4th, 2011, 16:33 PM

Yes I feel the same.

x

jacks mummy · Jul 4th, 2011, 16:33 PM

i think its awful to have your child taken away from you i personally couldnt even begin to imagine it!! i think that unless they have done somthing awful ie murder/child cruelty ect they should get to keep there babies. some of the ladies who are on baby 6,7,8 and dont have any of them even when they are on the outside world are a different matter in my opinion they have been given the chance time and time again i think its better for the baby to be adopted strait away so the LO dosnt get hurt. its just an awful situaion for all involved! and it shouldnt happen in the first place xxx

emyandpotato · Jul 4th, 2011, 16:37 PM

Jacks Mummy I agree with you for the most part but with the women on their 7th baby or so I think it completely depends on the individual situation which we just don't know so and so can't really say IMO.

jacks mummy · Jul 4th, 2011, 16:42 PM

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Originally Posted by emyandpotato

Jacks Mummy I agree with you for the most part but with the women on their 7th baby or so I think it completely depends on the individual situation which we just don't know so and so can't really say IMO.

i do agree with u but like a ladie last week said she didnt have any of her kids due to her drug taking ect and i just think what difference would another baby make when u finally get out and can get your drugs i just tthink if someone hasnt changed by baby number 7 whats the point in dragging out the inevitable

its such a sad situation all round and i feel for every one of them including the ladies i was just talking about shame there life didnt turn out better and they could maybe of been the mums they should be x

emyandpotato · Jul 4th, 2011, 16:47 PM

The one with eight babies didn't get to keep her LO in the end anyway, and you could see how painful it was for her. She hadn't been allowed to keep any of her children while she was in prison and that probably made the drug problem worse. She might have turned her life around if she was allowed to bond with her baby and made things better for her and her other children as a result. Forced separation would only cause her to turn to drugs in distress and she'd probably end up in prison again, likely pregnant as it said she worked as a prostitute to fund the addiction, so things would just repeat themselves. Then again she might get out of prison and abandon the baby for drugs and crime, we just don't know.

jacks mummy · Jul 4th, 2011, 16:51 PM

yea awful situation!! its such a shame any women or baby has to go thru such a thing in the first place. x

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RaspberryK Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Northamptonshire, England Posts: 4,629	It's from a book - friendship with god. I am feeling quite spiritual of late . x

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emyandpotato Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: UK Posts: 5,223	I'm not religious but it's a beautiful quote. I feel some people have very confused ideas on morality sometimes.

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jacks mummy Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: leeds, uk Posts: 2,777	i think its awful to have your child taken away from you i personally couldnt even begin to imagine it!! i think that unless they have done somthing awful ie murder/child cruelty ect they should get to keep there babies. some of the ladies who are on baby 6,7,8 and dont have any of them even when they are on the outside world are a different matter in my opinion they have been given the chance time and time again i think its better for the baby to be adopted strait away so the LO dosnt get hurt. its just an awful situaion for all involved! and it shouldnt happen in the first place xxx

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emyandpotato Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: UK Posts: 5,223	Jacks Mummy I agree with you for the most part but with the women on their 7th baby or so I think it completely depends on the individual situation which we just don't know so and so can't really say IMO.

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Jul 4th, 2011, 16:47 PM	#19
emyandpotato Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: UK Posts: 5,223	The one with eight babies didn't get to keep her LO in the end anyway, and you could see how painful it was for her. She hadn't been allowed to keep any of her children while she was in prison and that probably made the drug problem worse. She might have turned her life around if she was allowed to bond with her baby and made things better for her and her other children as a result. Forced separation would only cause her to turn to drugs in distress and she'd probably end up in prison again, likely pregnant as it said she worked as a prostitute to fund the addiction, so things would just repeat themselves. Then again she might get out of prison and abandon the baby for drugs and crime, we just don't know.

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jacks mummy Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: leeds, uk Posts: 2,777	yea awful situation!! its such a shame any women or baby has to go thru such a thing in the first place. x

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