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Old Oct 18th, 2011, 02:44 AM   1
nickyXjayno
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So sick of my sister in law


Everyone has a family member that irritates them beyond reason and just need to rant about mine.

She doesn't work so is really lucky as she can have every day with her son to do what ever, I would kill for that!
Yet she does nothing with him!!
Every day she plonks him in front of the telly and then in the evening goes out with her boyfriend.
She lives with her mother and her gran so lets them take care of her son during the week if he moves away from the tv.
Her mother and her gran are the ones who take him on days out during the week and weekends, they are teaching him to swim and ride his bike.

She does sweet f all during the week and has the gall to post on face book wish this week would go fast as can't wait for the weekend....

What exactly is so hard about her weekdays?

She's not his mother, she's his sister I swear to god.

I love my son so much and can't fathom handing him over to my family all the time so they can take him out and show him the world.
She has no interest in him it seems.
Doesn't even take him into the garden to play!!

If it weren't for her mum and gran he would be sat at home all day every day watching tv.

His reception can't cope with him and limit him to an hour a day instead of the full 9 to 3 as he doesn't listen to teachers and hits other kids.
He has no issues such as ADHD/autism, he's just never told the word no or taught how to concentrate.
She doesn't read with him or do anything constructive.
He lives out a diet of sweets from morning till night and struggles with his dinner as he is never hungry enough to eat it.

I can't stand her any more.
I used to get on with her but she just makes me ill.
She has exactly what I would love, not having to work so can bring up her child, but doesn't appreciate it.

Why can't I let it go over my head girls?

Why is it everytime I see her posting on facebook about can't waiting till the weekend or fake tan/lashes I just want to scream?
She's always moaning she is skint but I don't know where her benefit money is going as it aint on her son.
Her mum and nan feed and clothe him!!


I know parents need a break so they can have the odd night out but this is taking the piss.
Who just lets their mum and gran raise their kid and take him on days out/teach swimming/bikes/reading and doesn't even bother themselves?!


I really wish I could just delete her from my facebook so I'd never have to see her stupid vain vapid comments again, or see how she's broken up with her loser boyfriend for the millionth time even though they have only been together for 4 months.

she's even moved him into her mother and grans house now even though he doesn't have a job and doesn't contribute towards bills.
they have screaming arguments every other day.

She's not even that young, 25!!
Why is she such a spoilt child?

I was over the house the other day and the son was with his gran in the front room while she was upstairs with her boyfriend, music blasting.

Why did she even have a child?
Yes her son was actually planned and wanted!!!
Why I don't know as there are many women on here who would love children and would never take them for granted like she does.

arggghhhhhh!!!!



 
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Old Oct 18th, 2011, 02:57 AM   2
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Sorry u have to deal with that, all I got for u is to say on Facebook if you go to the top right of the update u get a drop down menu that includes the option to unsubscribe to her updates, that might help.



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Old Oct 18th, 2011, 03:00 AM   3
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Didn't know you could do that, thanks will have a look now.

Am so sick of her selfishness.



 
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Old Oct 18th, 2011, 03:07 AM   4
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Everyone has a family member that irritates them beyond reason and just need to rant about mine.

She doesn't work so is really lucky as she can have every day with her son to do what ever, I would kill for that!
Yet she does nothing with him!!
Every day she plonks him in front of the telly and then in the evening goes out with her boyfriend.
She lives with her mother and her gran so lets them take care of her son during the week if he moves away from the tv.
Her mother and her gran are the ones who take him on days out during the week and weekends, they are teaching him to swim and ride his bike.

She does sweet f all during the week and has the gall to post on face book wish this week would go fast as can't wait for the weekend....

What exactly is so hard about her weekdays?

She's not his mother, she's his sister I swear to god.

I love my son so much and can't fathom handing him over to my family all the time so they can take him out and show him the world.
She has no interest in him it seems.
Doesn't even take him into the garden to play!!

If it weren't for her mum and gran he would be sat at home all day every day watching tv.

His reception can't cope with him and limit him to an hour a day instead of the full 9 to 3 as he doesn't listen to teachers and hits other kids.
He has no issues such as ADHD/autism, he's just never told the word no or taught how to concentrate.
She doesn't read with him or do anything constructive.
He lives out a diet of sweets from morning till night and struggles with his dinner as he is never hungry enough to eat it.

I can't stand her any more.
I used to get on with her but she just makes me ill.
She has exactly what I would love, not having to work so can bring up her child, but doesn't appreciate it.

Why can't I let it go over my head girls?

Why is it everytime I see her posting on facebook about can't waiting till the weekend or fake tan/lashes I just want to scream?
She's always moaning she is skint but I don't know where her benefit money is going as it aint on her son.
Her mum and nan feed and clothe him!!


I know parents need a break so they can have the odd night out but this is taking the piss.
Who just lets their mum and gran raise their kid and take him on days out/teach swimming/bikes/reading and doesn't even bother themselves?!


I really wish I could just delete her from my facebook so I'd never have to see her stupid vain vapid comments again, or see how she's broken up with her loser boyfriend for the millionth time even though they have only been together for 4 months.

she's even moved him into her mother and grans house now even though he doesn't have a job and doesn't contribute towards bills.
they have screaming arguments every other day.

She's not even that young, 25!!
Why is she such a spoilt child?

I was over the house the other day and the son was with his gran in the front room while she was upstairs with her boyfriend, music blasting.

Why did she even have a child?
Yes her son was actually planned and wanted!!!
Why I don't know as there are many women on here who would love children and would never take them for granted like she does.

arggghhhhhh!!!!
Hey, if its any consolation her life to me is nothing to be jealous about, being at home all day so nan and great nan can look after your child etc and being on benefits. she hasn't got a clue - oh and take it from me - my best friend done the hole 'putting bubba in front of the tele all the time' she now has 2 unruly girls who she has no control over - she admits that she is a lazy lousy mother - but honestly they have fights police are involved the lot ..... trust me your SIL won't benefit from being a lazy hands off mother - if anything she is a benchmark of not how to bring up your children - don't let it bother you xx



 
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Old Oct 18th, 2011, 03:15 AM   5
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Very sad. I'm glad that her family is stepping in though. Poor kid.



 
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