Ive been banished to the couch :( - Page 2

plutosblue · Oct 29th, 2011, 02:53 AM

Uh, I would kick his butt out of the bed. Admittedly I sleep a lot on the couch, but its because we have such a hard mattress and our couch is incredibly comfy and is better for my pelvis.

You are pregnant, with twins no less, and need to have a comfortable place to sleep especially with SPD! Put your foot down hun and don't take it, if he doesn't like the bed situation than he can remove himself from it - not you!!! Arg! Makes me cross just thinking about it!

Lilmiss1 · Oct 29th, 2011, 03:07 AM

My dh moans about how he can't sleep too, really annoys me. Usually his complaining is when he's half asleep and I'm fidgeting. When he wakes up he always apologises. The other night I went and slept in the spare room and he came and got in there with me! That defeated the purpose! Plus a couple of nights ago I kept having nightmares and waking up screaming and he goes " will you stop having nightmares, I'm trying to sleep"!!! Like I could control it! I def think you should send your oh to the couch but maybe talk to him during the day!

shortie1990 · Oct 29th, 2011, 03:29 AM

If he wants sleep, maybe he should go on the couch, what a selfish thing to do, get back in your bed, if he's a problem, tell him he knows where the couch is!

mum2b2009 · Oct 29th, 2011, 03:40 AM

He should be on the couch end of!

Nyn · Oct 29th, 2011, 03:47 AM

Um hun he should be the one on the couch!! xxx

babyhopes2010 · Oct 29th, 2011, 03:53 AM

Hell no! kick him onto the sofa

Miss Duke · Oct 29th, 2011, 04:08 AM

Thats rediculous!!!! For a stat the dogs should be first to go anyway, no offence!!!

Next, it should have been him. Its not as if he is out working all dy by the sounds of it - I worry about my dh getting enough sleep because he is out early and driving all day for work. But theres no way he would allow me to go to the sofa just so he can sleep!!!

I am disgusted! You need to sort this hon, its a recipe for disaster if he still gets on like this after the babies come!

Blah11 · Oct 29th, 2011, 04:11 AM

He should be on the couch. Wow, can't believe he expects you to sleep on a couch when youre pregnant and with twins!

FiNZ · Oct 29th, 2011, 04:49 AM

What an absolute selfish asshole. DO NOT leave your bed. If he has a problem with there not being enough room, HE CAN PISS OFF TO THE UNCOMFORTABLE COUCH!!

God, that makes my blood boil thinking about him sending you out. Don't let him get away with being so selfish. So what if his precious 12 hour sleep isn't as perfect as he'd like? How dare he?

myasmumma · Oct 29th, 2011, 05:03 AM

what the hell?! your the pregnant one! if he has such a problem with it tell him to go to the couch...its hard enough to get comfy when pregnant let alone being made to sleep on the sofa

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plutosblue Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Cambrigeshire. Posts: 9,912	Uh, I would kick his butt out of the bed. Admittedly I sleep a lot on the couch, but its because we have such a hard mattress and our couch is incredibly comfy and is better for my pelvis. You are pregnant, with twins no less, and need to have a comfortable place to sleep especially with SPD! Put your foot down hun and don't take it, if he doesn't like the bed situation than he can remove himself from it - not you!!! Arg! Makes me cross just thinking about it!

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Lilmiss1 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: London Posts: 1,935	My dh moans about how he can't sleep too, really annoys me. Usually his complaining is when he's half asleep and I'm fidgeting. When he wakes up he always apologises. The other night I went and slept in the spare room and he came and got in there with me! That defeated the purpose! Plus a couple of nights ago I kept having nightmares and waking up screaming and he goes " will you stop having nightmares, I'm trying to sleep"!!! Like I could control it! I def think you should send your oh to the couch but maybe talk to him during the day!

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shortie1990 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Preston, Lancashire Posts: 5,967	If he wants sleep, maybe he should go on the couch, what a selfish thing to do, get back in your bed, if he's a problem, tell him he knows where the couch is!

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mum2b2009 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Devon Posts: 3,478	He should be on the couch end of!

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babyhopes2010 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Ellon,Aberdeenshire Posts: 15,848	Hell no! kick him onto the sofa

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Miss Duke Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Co Down, N Ireland Posts: 1,184	Thats rediculous!!!! For a stat the dogs should be first to go anyway, no offence!!! Next, it should have been him. Its not as if he is out working all dy by the sounds of it - I worry about my dh getting enough sleep because he is out early and driving all day for work. But theres no way he would allow me to go to the sofa just so he can sleep!!! I am disgusted! You need to sort this hon, its a recipe for disaster if he still gets on like this after the babies come!

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Blah11 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 38,152	He should be on the couch. Wow, can't believe he expects you to sleep on a couch when youre pregnant and with twins!

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FiNZ Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: Auckland, NZ Posts: 1,065	What an absolute selfish asshole. DO NOT leave your bed. If he has a problem with there not being enough room, HE CAN PISS OFF TO THE UNCOMFORTABLE COUCH!! God, that makes my blood boil thinking about him sending you out. Don't let him get away with being so selfish. So what if his precious 12 hour sleep isn't as perfect as he'd like? How dare he?

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myasmumma Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: cloud 9 Posts: 1,772	what the hell?! your the pregnant one! if he has such a problem with it tell him to go to the couch...its hard enough to get comfy when pregnant let alone being made to sleep on the sofa

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