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Old Mar 3rd, 2012, 10:11 AM   #1
mrsbailey8
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sick of being pregnant!!!!!


Im 35 weeks and i swear im just so sick of being pregnant! The past two days have been horrible....i have barely been able to sleep at night because my baby is crazy active and it hurts....it feels like he is trying to push himself out of my belly....its so uncomfortable i cant get to sleep...then during the day he is still super active and ive been having some belly pain...not to mention the fatigue and hot flashes! Plus the fact that i have had horrible anxiety...I spent all morning crying to OH that i cant take this anymore...

I cant imagine waiting this out until im 40 weeks! I hope he comes early...am i a bad mom for feeling this way? Is anyone else feeling the same?


 
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Old Mar 3rd, 2012, 10:27 AM   #2
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No your not a bad mum. Im only 28 weeks and feel the same so god knows how Ill feel at your stage. Not long to go now though hun. A few more weeks. You've done fantastic thus far. It will be so worth it x


 
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Old Mar 3rd, 2012, 10:33 AM   #3
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LOL just saying you think its bad now, wait until you hit 40 weeks...and then are still pregnant days after. Just enjoy the time you have now because it gets to a point where you know how you didn't think things could get worse, well they do. You get more tired, more aches, have to pee MORE but sometimes pressure builds and its soo hard to pee, AND ON TOP OF THAT you sit around and every little twinge you jump on the computer hoping thats a sign labor is coming. Or you will be like me and have NO SIGNS at all and be over due and miserable. ALSO just be happy you have a moving wiggling baby, mine gets real lazy and although her hearts always fine and ends up turning out fine, I HATE that I am scared and worried constantly that somethings happened to her when I can poke her right in the ass and she wont even budge! She is soooo stubborn!

What you need to do to pass the time is find a hobby like cooking or reading and try to add that to your probably already busy schedule, if you find time to get miserable about being pregnant most likely theres something productive or fun you can do in replacement of that sad time.
And trust me hoping doesnt work I wish it did lol then i would have had mine weeks ago haha.
Good luck and just know things get better its just hormones.


 
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Old Mar 3rd, 2012, 10:55 AM   #4
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You're not a bad mum... You're human

I absolutely hate being pregnant. I did with my first and I do again now. I've never had that wonderful glowing feeling people talk about. I don't like the way it feels when baby moves. I don't enjoy having this huge hump sticking out meaning I cant sit stand or lay comfortably. I don't enjoy the backache and hip ache and leg ache the sore leaking boobs, or the mood swings and the SODDING heartburn!! (Particularly sore about that one!) And lets not forget the constantly feeling shattered but the worsening insomnia that accompanies it!

I'd rather be in labour than pregnant, it hurts but at least its not as drawn out!

The only thing I hang on to is that its not forever... It does eventually end and you forget it all very quickly when your little ones in your arms.

A walk with my headphones in can be a temporary distraction... That and a hot bath with bubbles and candles. (I swear I'd spend the rest of my pregnancy in the bath if I could)

Hang in there, the longest part is over now xx


 
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Old Mar 3rd, 2012, 11:22 AM   #5
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Your not alone, I am also sick of it too.
I've gained 15 pounds the past 3 weeks. It's all fluid i'm sure.
i'm so swollen up it hurts to walk now.
My last day of work was yesterday so hopefully it'll go back down because i can relax.

I hit the 180 marker yesterday at the doctor's office, everytime i go it's add 5 pounds. so i'll probably be about 200 the time she actually wants to come.
The weight doesn't bother me like because of appearence but because it's just feels awful.

My doctor never mentioned this being a problem though, probably because i'm so close.


 
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Old Mar 3rd, 2012, 11:41 AM   #6
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Im sick too! people keep saying stupid things like "get your sleep whilst you can" NO i CANT sleep im far too uncomfy! I'm actually more likely to have a better night's sleep with a screaming crying baby, thats how little sleep i get nowadays My little boy's movements are starting to hurt too and i hate not being able to enjoy him moving around anymore. You're not a bad mum at all for feeling this way - im trying to evict my baby! x


 
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Old Mar 3rd, 2012, 11:43 AM   #7
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Im sick too! people keep saying stupid things like "get your sleep whilst you can" NO i CANT sleep im far too uncomfy! I'm actually more likely to have a better night's sleep with a screaming crying baby, thats how little sleep i get nowadays My little boy's movements are starting to hurt too and i hate not being able to enjoy him moving around anymore. You're not a bad mum at all for feeling this way - im trying to evict my baby! x
hahaha
eviction time.
i love it.


 
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Old Mar 3rd, 2012, 13:07 PM   #8
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You're not a bad mum... You're human

I absolutely hate being pregnant. I did with my first and I do again now. I've never had that wonderful glowing feeling people talk about. I don't like the way it feels when baby moves. I don't enjoy having this huge hump sticking out meaning I cant sit stand or lay comfortably. I don't enjoy the backache and hip ache and leg ache the sore leaking boobs, or the mood swings and the SODDING heartburn!! (Particularly sore about that one!) And lets not forget the constantly feeling shattered but the worsening insomnia that accompanies it!

I'd rather be in labour than pregnant, it hurts but at least its not as drawn out!

The only thing I hang on to is that its not forever... It does eventually end and you forget it all very quickly when your little ones in your arms.

A walk with my headphones in can be a temporary distraction... That and a hot bath with bubbles and candles. (I swear I'd spend the rest of my pregnancy in the bath if I could)

Hang in there, the longest part is over now xx
I could have wrote this myself! The only difference is this is my first baby, but i feel guilty admitting that i dont like being pregnant
I know it will be worth it in the end - its just hard getting there!!


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