how does your OH generally feel about your bump??

chel27 · Jan 16th, 2009, 16:20 PM

i was just wondering on everyones opinions about what your OH thinks about your bump!! i had this conversation briefly yesterday as you all know how hard it can be to have a heart to heart with your OH lol.

as we dont seem to have much

anymore and i asked him if its because i dont look as attractive with a big bump, he said hes not sure what the reason is but he just doesnt seem to be in the mood lately!!! i personally think its because i dont look attractive!!! my OH says hes not sure!! does anyone else understand what im saying??? or anyone elses OH feel the same?? if so what has he told you as the reason why??

pippam116 · Jan 16th, 2009, 16:23 PM

i hate DH coming near me, we havnt done the deed in almost 6 months, and its now at the stage where he wont, he never did at the end of any of my pregnancies, says not till baby is here, think it freaks him out a but, but hes addimant its not cos of how i look

xx

claire1978 · Jan 16th, 2009, 16:37 PM

The way I understand it from talking to males in the past when their girlfriends are preggers and this includes my hubby they love a womans body when it has a bump, they seem to find it quite sexy

baby#4due2/16 · Jan 16th, 2009, 16:38 PM

my hubby loves my bump he rubs it all the time when we go to bed...

chel27 · Jan 16th, 2009, 16:47 PM

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Originally Posted by claire1978

they love a womans body when it has a bump, they seem to find it quite sexy

i said this to my OH and he cant quite understand how a bloke can find a baby bump "sexy" that baffled him

claire1978 · Jan 16th, 2009, 16:50 PM

Not connected to the baby, its more about the womans curves iykwim, not in a pervy sort of way, eekk

hayley x · Jan 16th, 2009, 16:50 PM

My OH loves my baby bump, maybe its my confidence with it, I feel much better having a bump than when im not pregnant! Although I can say its me that doesnt really want the sex any more not him =[ xxx

chel27 · Jan 16th, 2009, 16:57 PM

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Originally Posted by claire1978

Not connected to the baby, its more about the womans curves iykwim, not in a pervy sort of way, eekk

yea i understand hun but he has said that he doesnt find my bump as being attractive, he misses my slim figure!!! oh well i will never understand a mans mind

it might also be because i dont feel attractive either

lauzliddle · Jan 16th, 2009, 17:03 PM

My dh loves my bump hes always touching it and says he still finds me attractive we still do it occasionally, but he finds it hard to get in close enough to me as my bump is huge.

Beltane · Jan 16th, 2009, 18:13 PM

My DH wants me to get maternity lingerie-there is no way that is happening! He thinks the bump is super hot and I'm just not feeling sexy in the least!

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chel27 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 4,134	how does your OH generally feel about your bump?? i was just wondering on everyones opinions about what your OH thinks about your bump!! i had this conversation briefly yesterday as you all know how hard it can be to have a heart to heart with your OH lol. as we dont seem to have much anymore and i asked him if its because i dont look as attractive with a big bump, he said hes not sure what the reason is but he just doesnt seem to be in the mood lately!!! i personally think its because i dont look attractive!!! my OH says hes not sure!! does anyone else understand what im saying??? or anyone elses OH feel the same?? if so what has he told you as the reason why??

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pippam116 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: wales Posts: 2,394	i hate DH coming near me, we havnt done the deed in almost 6 months, and its now at the stage where he wont, he never did at the end of any of my pregnancies, says not till baby is here, think it freaks him out a but, but hes addimant its not cos of how i look xx

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claire1978 Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Berkshire Posts: 1,706	The way I understand it from talking to males in the past when their girlfriends are preggers and this includes my hubby they love a womans body when it has a bump, they seem to find it quite sexy

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claire1978 Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Berkshire Posts: 1,706	Not connected to the baby, its more about the womans curves iykwim, not in a pervy sort of way, eekk

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hayley x Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Here! Posts: 18,935	My OH loves my baby bump, maybe its my confidence with it, I feel much better having a bump than when im not pregnant! Although I can say its me that doesnt really want the sex any more not him =[ xxx

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lauzliddle Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: South shields, UK Posts: 995	My dh loves my bump hes always touching it and says he still finds me attractive we still do it occasionally, but he finds it hard to get in close enough to me as my bump is huge.

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Beltane Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2008 Location: Philadelphia, PA Posts: 4,399	My DH wants me to get maternity lingerie-there is no way that is happening! He thinks the bump is super hot and I'm just not feeling sexy in the least!

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