Can I just strangle her now and get it over with??
OH and I went grocery shopping a few days ago and I bought all sorts of whole wheat stuff for me ( I have GD) and white bread for her etc.
I go into the kitchen a moment ago to make lunch and AGAIN she has thrown all my whole wheat bread away in favor of white wonder bread, that I can't eat. When I asked her why she said it was stale. She hates whole wheat bread and I always make sure I buy her white bread but she insists my blood sugars won't change eating white breads.
I'm starting to think she's trying to sabotage my GD diet. She knows I can't eat white pasta's or white rice and this whole week she is planning on all sorts of pasta dinners, telling me " i read online it makes no difference if you eat this or not"...except it does. If I even eat 1/2 a plate of spaghetti my sugar goes sky high ( 180 +) for my 2 hour tests. Anything else and I'm spot on at under 120.
I am about fed up. First the chain smoking, now throwing my stuff away. and my dear darling OH simply tells me " we'll buy more" so she can throw that out too?
I was taught to respect my elders but really innerly I have told her off 1000x by now.

Oh if someone did that to me I would freak out. Wheat bread is the only bread I will even eat, I think white bread is disgusting. She should not being throwing away your food. That is just plain rude of her.

get a chain an padlock from a £ shop or sumert an chain the cupboard shut! thats what id do... stupid cow.. is she a doctor? im guessing not!

and of course now my OH is pissed at me because I told him why I am upset. Today is turning into a loosing battle.
Besides the fact that I eat whole wheat bread to regulate my sugar I also hate white bread, but alas it seems I am just being stubborn according to her.

And now she's informed me I need to go to the store to pick up a corned beef to make for dinner. Counting to 10 in my head isn't working anymore lol

wow that women has some ball I would have gone postal bread let alone whole grain wheat bread is not cheap! put your bread in the fridge and then she can't say it is stale! I would also put a lock on all my food even the fridge so that way when she want something to eat she has to ask you for the key and you then know exactly where all the food is going. sound like you oh need to step up to the plate and say something to her! My Dh's mom would never trow out anything before asking me first!

We definitely have a respect issue in this house. OH is her only son and she has a history of treating women he is with like crap. Don't get me wrong she has done alot for him over the years but I don't like being talked down to like I'm an ignorant woman... and i am also not impressed with my OH right now. Normally when I tell him something he at least listens.. today he just makes exasperated sighs. I am about to stuff them both in one sack lol

Her ass would be going to the store and getting me more bread! If she doesn't even like wheat bread then how in the hell does she know that it was stale? And even so it's not her place to be throwing things out....maybe someone should throw her out!!!

and I quote" i squeezed it" um anyone who enjoys crusty whole wheat bread knows it's not as floppy as white bread and I just to happen to like my crusty bread lol
For the first time this pregnancy I truly am having a moment where I do wonder exactly how much my OH is going to stand up for me.. because when it comes to mommy dearest apparently I am on my own, and sadly her house so I can't toss her out lol

Wow sounds like they both need a talking to.

Ha score alittle victory for me! Both of the groceries stores close to me are out of corned beef..guess won't be having her dinner tonight. I told the meat counter guy he made my day by telling me they were out lol Instead I got myself a loaf of delicious whole wheat bread and some sweedish fish.. the queen of doom can bite me right now