Starting to get pissed off at peoples' comments! - Page 3

pinklightbulb · Mar 29th, 2012, 18:16 PM

, Feeling your pain very much! Only the opposite gender here

mrsrof · Mar 29th, 2012, 18:21 PM

How annoying for you!! Actually my sister (who has 2 little boys) said to me the other day that she is definitely not having any more kids (she can't really anyway cause she's had heart problems recently that she's only recovering from) "and besides, I really want a little girl and I know that if I got pregnant again it would be another boy".

Yeah, what's your point? Her 2 little boys are incredible little boys, I really don't see what the problem would be with having another one!! Oh well, each to their own I suppose!!

arj · Mar 29th, 2012, 19:14 PM

I have a DD and DS, people were so excited for me when I had my son, tho I actually wanted another girl. But am happy now of course.

I made it no secret that I wanted a girl this time and told people we were trying for a girl etc, got pregnant and am having TWIN BOYS!
We havent told anyone the sex but of course they are all saying that they hope we are having one of each... Sorry to disappoint but nope! And I am now really happy and have already named my boys and have bought their little clothes etc, and of course my DH is over the moon.

Boothh · Mar 30th, 2012, 02:14 AM

So annoying isn't it!! Everyone seemed dissapointed when we found out we were having another boy! We wanted another boy!! We thought it was a girl though so when we found out it was even more exciting for us because we wanted 2 little boys to be able to do things together and everyone was like 'aw maybe next time' or 'bet you wanted a girl' well no actually we didn't! I wouldn't have a clue what to do with a girl lol x

Trying4num2 · Mar 30th, 2012, 02:22 AM

I get this too. We have a 3yr old DD and were expecting our 2nd girl. We were over the moon, we wanted another girl (obviously would have been thrilled with a boy too but I wanted DD to have a sister) and everyone has been 'aw are you trying again then for a boy?' NO!!! We're happy with our girls!!!

My uncles partner actually said "oh, what a shame, never mind you can try again" WHAT!?!?!?! I flipped! How date they assume you're dissapointed with two children of the same sex! Feel for you ladies gone through this too!

judge12 · Mar 30th, 2012, 02:51 AM

It is disgusting really. How dare they have a right to feel sorry for you? oh your only having two of one gender, what a sad dissapointing thing...what!

Having two boys/girls means that they will have a great sister/brother bond which means they have a friend for life. Why do you need to have one of each? does it really matter? no its just stupid people thoughts

Lollipopbop · Mar 30th, 2012, 02:53 AM

People are stupid!! This is our first and we're expecting a boy and every one acted like we should be disappointed because my OH's brother has had 2 boys so all I've heard is "It would have been nice to of had a girl in the family" SO RUDE.

cherryglitter · Mar 31st, 2012, 15:20 PM

people are idiots! i swear it.
i get the opposite "ooh one of each, you can stop now then!!"

urm NO.

NuKe · Mar 31st, 2012, 15:28 PM

lol rosie!!

pinklightbulb · Mar 31st, 2012, 17:53 PM

Actually a post above reminds me of me

If I knew for certain my next pregnancy would be a girl, I would go through it one more time. If not, then I wouldn't. Pregnancy is hard on my 4'10", 40kg non-pg frame and while I have loved every minute of it and am so grateful for my two boys, I would have loved the chance to be Mum to a girl as well one day. If I know I won't get that option, I don't want to try again.
Hope that makes sense!

Mar 29th, 2012, 18:16 PM	#21
pinklightbulb Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Australia Posts: 6,263	, Feeling your pain very much! Only the opposite gender here

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mrsrof Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2011 Location: Surrey, UK Posts: 3,960	How annoying for you!! Actually my sister (who has 2 little boys) said to me the other day that she is definitely not having any more kids (she can't really anyway cause she's had heart problems recently that she's only recovering from) "and besides, I really want a little girl and I know that if I got pregnant again it would be another boy". Yeah, what's your point? Her 2 little boys are incredible little boys, I really don't see what the problem would be with having another one!! Oh well, each to their own I suppose!!

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Mar 29th, 2012, 19:14 PM	#23
arj Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Down Under Posts: 4,446	I have a DD and DS, people were so excited for me when I had my son, tho I actually wanted another girl. But am happy now of course. I made it no secret that I wanted a girl this time and told people we were trying for a girl etc, got pregnant and am having TWIN BOYS! We havent told anyone the sex but of course they are all saying that they hope we are having one of each... Sorry to disappoint but nope! And I am now really happy and have already named my boys and have bought their little clothes etc, and of course my DH is over the moon.

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Mar 30th, 2012, 02:14 AM	#24
Boothh Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Huddersfield/Manchester Posts: 8,580	So annoying isn't it!! Everyone seemed dissapointed when we found out we were having another boy! We wanted another boy!! We thought it was a girl though so when we found out it was even more exciting for us because we wanted 2 little boys to be able to do things together and everyone was like 'aw maybe next time' or 'bet you wanted a girl' well no actually we didn't! I wouldn't have a clue what to do with a girl lol x

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Mar 30th, 2012, 02:22 AM	#25
Trying4num2 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: England Posts: 738	I get this too. We have a 3yr old DD and were expecting our 2nd girl. We were over the moon, we wanted another girl (obviously would have been thrilled with a boy too but I wanted DD to have a sister) and everyone has been 'aw are you trying again then for a boy?' NO!!! We're happy with our girls!!! My uncles partner actually said "oh, what a shame, never mind you can try again" WHAT!?!?!?! I flipped! How date they assume you're dissapointed with two children of the same sex! Feel for you ladies gone through this too!

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Mar 30th, 2012, 02:51 AM	#26
judge12 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 356	It is disgusting really. How dare they have a right to feel sorry for you? oh your only having two of one gender, what a sad dissapointing thing...what! Having two boys/girls means that they will have a great sister/brother bond which means they have a friend for life. Why do you need to have one of each? does it really matter? no its just stupid people thoughts

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Lollipopbop Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: East Sussex Posts: 2,924	People are stupid!! This is our first and we're expecting a boy and every one acted like we should be disappointed because my OH's brother has had 2 boys so all I've heard is "It would have been nice to of had a girl in the family" SO RUDE.

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cherryglitter Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Gloucestershire Posts: 13,642	people are idiots! i swear it. i get the opposite "ooh one of each, you can stop now then!!" urm NO.

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Mar 31st, 2012, 15:28 PM	#29
NuKe Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: N. Ireland Posts: 13,888	lol rosie!!

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pinklightbulb Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Australia Posts: 6,263	Actually a post above reminds me of me If I knew for certain my next pregnancy would be a girl, I would go through it one more time. If not, then I wouldn't. Pregnancy is hard on my 4'10", 40kg non-pg frame and while I have loved every minute of it and am so grateful for my two boys, I would have loved the chance to be Mum to a girl as well one day. If I know I won't get that option, I don't want to try again. Hope that makes sense!

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