Sorry but I have to rant or i'm gonna explode in work!

I really can't stand my OH sometimes! He is SO lazy and will not do anything i ask, without me asking for weeks!!!

Last Friday someone came to measure our windows for new blinds. They are coming this morning to fit them. OH was supposed to take down the old railings before the guy comes. Last night he was moaning for hours about how hes off work today and wanted to do something last night. At this point i said you could make yourself useful and take the railings down. He still didnt do it.

Getting ready for work this morning and he pipes up 'your gonna have to help me take them down before you go' .... excuse me?? AM I BALLS HELPING YOU! He has had a week to do it! i would have gladly helped at any other point in the week. So he went in a mood, got up and done it (only took like 3 minutes!)

Then i told him he needs to move the bed (or else the guy would have to climb over it to get to the window!) which he already knew... I told him to do it last week too for them getting measured, and he didnt do it! So he starts doing it in his clumsy 'im in a mood' way... and breaks the bloody headboard!!! and of course then he gets in more of a rage and starts swearing etc.

Absolute MORON. I seriously cannot stand him sometimes!!!!

Oh dear. I sort of know how you feel.

I have been asking my OH to move the dining table from one room to another and have been asking for weeks now. He doesn't live with me and he stays once or twice a week overnight but he always "forgets" even though I ask him numerous times.

Last night he went into what I can only describe as a "hormonal fit" (lol) as he was supposed to move in last weekend but hasn't done it and has excuse after excuse, he shouted and swore because I apparently "keep going on about it", it was the first time I'd mentioned it last night on the rare night he stays over. I could be here all day ranting about my OH, he is useless lol. But that is another story...

lol i swear my OH is just the laziest person tho! Like he has this horrible huge fish tank, its slim but high so difficult to clean... but he literally cleans it like once every 5 months! and has the cheek to moan about it! He finally done it last week after me moaning for months... its seriously disgusting! Like thick with green algae crap on the glass. I can't stand looking at it!

I moved in with him back in October and i STILL havn't had family up to visit cos im mortified at the state of the place. Since i moved in my dad has done the bathroom, the hall way and the nursery... So it finally looks good (when its clean!) But he just doesnt help me AT ALL I can't do it all myself anymore., i shouldnt be spending hours cleaning bathrooms and cleaning out cupboards/fridges etc !

Oh dear!!

Sounds like my OH in a way. Puts things off and off and off and I end up either having to do it myself or he asks me to help when I am either incapable in my condition, or I am due to go to work.

Men are such a pain in the ****!!

Men are useless!lol!

I love my husband to bits but I feel like I'm constantly nagging him sometimes to do things. I have asked him to cut the grass and also lift some boxes that I had sorted in our wardrobe, things like that. So of course I end up doing it and then he comes home and has a go at me saying I shouldn't be doing that lol! Xx

My oh can be like this. He will start doing DIY, then maybe finish it in about 6 months. He bought some new internal doors ages ago, took the old doors off, then hasn't bothered to put the new doors on! He's been getting round to it for ages. I'm tempted to get someone to do it, even though it will be expensive.

haha

they really are useless. I might become a lesbian once the baby is here

Seriously can't understand why its so difficult. My OH said to me once 'the thought of doing it is annoying me' i was like, well just do it and get it out the way!!! Before I moved in he didn't own a hoover, an iron or a mop .. so you can imagine what the place was like before! Kim and Aggie would have had a heart attack!

My mum keeps telling me to leave things for him to do... but they would actually NEVER get done! And if he does eventually do things he doesnt do it properly and i end up having to do it anyway !

Before i moved in he had been living in the flat for at least 3 n a half years... i recently found out he literally hasnt touched it, decorating wise. I knew he hadnt put a new bathroom or anything in , but you would think he would have at least painted/wallpapered. But no. hes happy to live in mess apparently. he also kept flooding the poor woman below because there was no seal around the bath... and when she came up to complain he used to moan that she was lying

My Oh has to be asked over and over again before he does the job!! Sometimes I give up asking and just end up doing it myself. Hope all our OH's are more helpful when our LO's arrive

me too! I'm actually a bit worried about that tbh,. What if hes still his lazy, laid back self and I have to do everything?! il be too busy to do all the housework etc and bet he doesn't help out