thank you everyone.. i went to kingston hospital in surrey, london. the worst thing was i actually believed her that i was only in early labour! i was thinkin oh no i really am a wimp. but now when i think back to it i think she is a fool for not seeing it, throwin up as im in so much pain has gotta be a sign AND that my contractions were regular for hours and not "easing off" as she insisted they would.

funny thing is she came in and congratulated me when i was ready to push! if looks could kill! they tried to tell me that i wouldn't of been dilated even if she did check me they think i went from 0 to 10 in the 2 hours when i had had the pethodine injection! i no for sure this is not the case as the contractions were the same pain throughout and the pethodine didn't touch them just forced me to be sleepy and not be able to do anything even tho i was in horrendous pain!

i was dead set on having the epidural and i think the whole reason why he came out so quick was because he was head down and ready to come for a long time but i couldn't call anyone in through the injection. my labour notes says 4 hours but i'm sure it started the second my waters broke! i a,proud that i done it without and am grateful he was small and i didn't tear just got scratched by little man coming out lol. he is such an angel i would do it all over again even though it seems a little traumatic the actually pushing was fine! good luck to everyone who is going to go through it it is no way near as bad as they say

The midwife was not helpful at all. But you made it! Congrats, hun!

Congratulations and well done you!! Glad your oh made it x