Feeling a bit guilty...!

jaybee · Apr 2nd, 2012, 02:40 AM

..... I have started my Monday's off leading up to ML in a few weeks time.
So I am home all day.... But still took Tobi to the nursery!

He just totally broke down and was crying his heart out (although this is nothing new!)I know he will be fine within minutes if not seconds! But, part of thinks he should be here with me! Even though I know he LOVES nursery and gets sooooo much out of it!

Trying4num2 · Apr 2nd, 2012, 07:27 AM

Aw don't feel guilty. It will do him good to keep going, a change in routine now right before baby will confuse him. He will be ok like you said (my mum works in a nursery and gets the mums to 'peek' through the window after they have left - to see their LO playing happily when seconds earlier they'd been inconsolable)

I used to feel the same with DD. She hasnt been for a while, had to take her out last year as was made redundant. Started my own business but can't afford to put her back in yet. She is back in sept for pre-school. Will feel awful dropping her off and leaving with DD2 to go home. Don't know what she's going to think about that

Feel bad on her today, I have NO patience and I'm in agony (had a fall yest ended up in L&D all is ok with bump I'm just very very sore) Poor thing she doesn't understand why mummy's being boring.

Apr 2nd, 2012, 02:40 AM	#1
jaybee Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Wiltshire/ Somerset Border. Posts: 4,406	Feeling a bit guilty...! ..... I have started my Monday's off leading up to ML in a few weeks time. So I am home all day.... But still took Tobi to the nursery! He just totally broke down and was crying his heart out (although this is nothing new!)I know he will be fine within minutes if not seconds! But, part of thinks he should be here with me! Even though I know he LOVES nursery and gets sooooo much out of it!

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Apr 2nd, 2012, 07:27 AM	#2
Trying4num2 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: England Posts: 738	Aw don't feel guilty. It will do him good to keep going, a change in routine now right before baby will confuse him. He will be ok like you said (my mum works in a nursery and gets the mums to 'peek' through the window after they have left - to see their LO playing happily when seconds earlier they'd been inconsolable) I used to feel the same with DD. She hasnt been for a while, had to take her out last year as was made redundant. Started my own business but can't afford to put her back in yet. She is back in sept for pre-school. Will feel awful dropping her off and leaving with DD2 to go home. Don't know what she's going to think about that Feel bad on her today, I have NO patience and I'm in agony (had a fall yest ended up in L&D all is ok with bump I'm just very very sore) Poor thing she doesn't understand why mummy's being boring.

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