Gosh - guess I am huge!

Sew_Sweet · Apr 2nd, 2012, 21:09 PM

Had a pity moment today at the grocery store. I was in the frozen food section picking out some things so standing in full profile view for anyone walking down the aisle. Well this "we're-too-cute" young athletic looking couple come walking by and I hear the guy say "oh my god that's huge". I turned to look at him with a look that said "I heard you and you're a douchebag" - his girlfriend/wife looked embarassed.

I have to admit though it made me feel kind of bad.

I know it's all baby but geez. Made me just feel like I must appear so huge fat and awkward - and apparently enough so that people feel the need to comment out loud as if I cannot hear them. I'm pregnant not deaf! I was almost naive enough to think being pregnant was sort of cute - but then I am reminded how disgusted some people are by it.

arj · Apr 2nd, 2012, 21:12 PM

OMG 'thats' huge! As if you are a thing!!!! RUDE!

I had a similar thing happen when I was 39 weeks and in a bikini (yea ok I was asking for it) and some one goes "omg look at that chicks tummy, shes huge"... I kept on walking but knew they were talking about me!

mrsbailey8 · Apr 2nd, 2012, 21:18 PM

People are so rude...and the fact that he said "THATS huge" makes it even worse...one day karma will bite him in the butt when his girlfriend/wife gets pregnant and blows up like a beach whale...

jenmcn1 · Apr 2nd, 2012, 21:25 PM

Oh no! They said that???? UGH!!! Seriously some people are soooooo RUDE and ignorant!! I'm sure you look fabulous!! 39 weeks...everyone's belly will be nice and round at that point. The young guy...is just THAT...young AND a guy...sadly these two are not always a good mix.
Wait until one day HIS wife is pregnant...he will get a dose of reality if he makes a comment like THAT to her...sooooooo rude...and mean...and horrible.
Hang in there sweetie...you are sooo close to having your baby...and you AREN'T naive to think pregnancy is cute...IT IS...and dont let people like this, stop you from enjoying the very last few days being pregnant. hugs!

jessicatunnel · Apr 2nd, 2012, 21:30 PM

What a jackass. :/
I'm sorry hun.

megrenade · Apr 2nd, 2012, 22:50 PM

he'll find out sooner or later if his wife/girlfriend ever get's pregnant.. but with that remark, I'm kind of hoping he has a low sperm count

MyMomToldMe · Apr 3rd, 2012, 01:15 AM

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Originally Posted by megrenade

he'll find out sooner or later if his wife/girlfriend ever get's pregnant.. but with that remark, I'm kind of hoping he has a low sperm count

I imagined other things karma might do, but don't want to put them out into the world. A low sperm count falls under what I was thinking.

One of my students said today: "Are you sure you aren't due right now?"

I am huge, but it is all bump.

I assured them that I have about 9 weeks to go, which means I will only get bigger.

Sorry the guy was such a jerk. Good job standing up for yourself.

YoshiPikachu · Apr 3rd, 2012, 01:18 AM

Wow what a jerk!

kitcat · Apr 3rd, 2012, 01:37 AM

what a dick!

CBaby84 · Apr 3rd, 2012, 02:39 AM

What a knob. I have been accused of having twins at around 30 weeks - some people are so insensitive.

Apr 2nd, 2012, 21:09 PM	#1
Sew_Sweet Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: USA Posts: 1,910	Gosh - guess I am huge! Had a pity moment today at the grocery store. I was in the frozen food section picking out some things so standing in full profile view for anyone walking down the aisle. Well this "we're-too-cute" young athletic looking couple come walking by and I hear the guy say "oh my god that's huge". I turned to look at him with a look that said "I heard you and you're a douchebag" - his girlfriend/wife looked embarassed. I have to admit though it made me feel kind of bad. I know it's all baby but geez. Made me just feel like I must appear so huge fat and awkward - and apparently enough so that people feel the need to comment out loud as if I cannot hear them. I'm pregnant not deaf! I was almost naive enough to think being pregnant was sort of cute - but then I am reminded how disgusted some people are by it.

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arj Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Down Under Posts: 4,436	OMG 'thats' huge! As if you are a thing!!!! RUDE! I had a similar thing happen when I was 39 weeks and in a bikini (yea ok I was asking for it) and some one goes "omg look at that chicks tummy, shes huge"... I kept on walking but knew they were talking about me!

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mrsbailey8 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: US Posts: 578	People are so rude...and the fact that he said "THATS huge" makes it even worse...one day karma will bite him in the butt when his girlfriend/wife gets pregnant and blows up like a beach whale...

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Apr 2nd, 2012, 21:25 PM	#4
jenmcn1 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 3,045	Oh no! They said that???? UGH!!! Seriously some people are soooooo RUDE and ignorant!! I'm sure you look fabulous!! 39 weeks...everyone's belly will be nice and round at that point. The young guy...is just THAT...young AND a guy...sadly these two are not always a good mix. Wait until one day HIS wife is pregnant...he will get a dose of reality if he makes a comment like THAT to her...sooooooo rude...and mean...and horrible. Hang in there sweetie...you are sooo close to having your baby...and you AREN'T naive to think pregnancy is cute...IT IS...and dont let people like this, stop you from enjoying the very last few days being pregnant. hugs!

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jessicatunnel Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: North Carolina Posts: 3,038	What a jackass. :/ I'm sorry hun.

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megrenade Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Oregon, USA Posts: 4,395	he'll find out sooner or later if his wife/girlfriend ever get's pregnant.. but with that remark, I'm kind of hoping he has a low sperm count

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YoshiPikachu Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Minnesota Posts: 2,018	Wow what a jerk!

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kitcat Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Scotland Posts: 756	what a dick!

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CBaby84 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Posts: 254	What a knob. I have been accused of having twins at around 30 weeks - some people are so insensitive.

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