No it really wasn't just that it was some other things that have happened the past week and it was more me thinking that since she probably doesn't want to be here anymore we shouldn't make her. I have said from day one if she ever wanted to leave we would figure it out. I really feel that this has gotten out of hand and it's so hard to talk about it through a computer with people that aren't around to understand every aspect of it. If I was to put down the whole situation it would take way too long and there is more to it than I said, but I'm just going to let it rest, I have calmed down and a lot of it has to do with hormones I just hate that people are thinking that I'm using our dd for a lesson when that was never the case, his mom wanted her to be around responsibility and better influences because of other stuff that was going on and I guess not being able to see it as a whole makes it difficult to understand. Thanks for your support and I know we will be fine, like I said my hormones have been crazy the past few days and I've really calmed down since I've written this post.