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kittylady · Apr 6th, 2012, 15:50 PM

if the police we're involved then I definatly think they will put in a referal to social services. She may get help, if not they will eventually just take the baby into care and adopt it out. The child will probably be put on the at risk register to be kept an eye on.

It was a horrible traumatic experience and I hope your ok

Nits · Apr 7th, 2012, 04:05 AM

I'm studying to be a teacher. Things like these are eye openers: we expect all kids to perform the same and meet all the stupid standards that some adult sets for them when there are so many other basic needs that may not be covered. The worst part is that then we treat the child as if they were having problems on purpose (be it behavioral or a learning disability) but when you look at the background they come from, how can they not have issues?

It is really sad =(

It also makes you realize that we worry so much, sometimes, about being able to afford everything we think our baby will need. But our babies are so fortunate and they have so much already just by having loving parents.

loverguts · Apr 7th, 2012, 04:21 AM

I just hope that her doctor and MW are aware of her problems and that she is being monitored closely by social services because it clearly sounds like she probably isn't capable of looking after a baby

ClaudiasMummy · Apr 7th, 2012, 05:26 AM

You did the right thing and as much as you could. It is shocking someone could be like that and I hope that she gets the help she needs, well that the baby gets the correct help the baby deserves.

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kittylady Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Birmingham, UK Posts: 1,675	if the police we're involved then I definatly think they will put in a referal to social services. She may get help, if not they will eventually just take the baby into care and adopt it out. The child will probably be put on the at risk register to be kept an eye on. It was a horrible traumatic experience and I hope your ok

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Apr 7th, 2012, 04:05 AM	#22
Nits Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Awesome rural New England Posts: 1,510	I'm studying to be a teacher. Things like these are eye openers: we expect all kids to perform the same and meet all the stupid standards that some adult sets for them when there are so many other basic needs that may not be covered. The worst part is that then we treat the child as if they were having problems on purpose (be it behavioral or a learning disability) but when you look at the background they come from, how can they not have issues? It is really sad =( It also makes you realize that we worry so much, sometimes, about being able to afford everything we think our baby will need. But our babies are so fortunate and they have so much already just by having loving parents.

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loverguts Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Kent Posts: 2,158	I just hope that her doctor and MW are aware of her problems and that she is being monitored closely by social services because it clearly sounds like she probably isn't capable of looking after a baby

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ClaudiasMummy Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Posts: 1,067	You did the right thing and as much as you could. It is shocking someone could be like that and I hope that she gets the help she needs, well that the baby gets the correct help the baby deserves.

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