is this normal?

dgirllamius · Apr 9th, 2012, 08:10 AM

The past couple of days, my OH disgusts me. I hate it when he touches me, hugs me, kisses me or tries to be close to me. The thought of him near me makes my skin crawl. I've never felt like this before.

He has many times tried to initiate sex but I've pushed him away as I just don't want him near me. I also feel very unattractive and fat - he says he doesn't think this about me and finds me sexy and thinks my bump is sexy etc.

I just feel sick around him, is this even normal?

Sunshine12 · Apr 9th, 2012, 08:21 AM

I dont think its necessarily the "norm" but thats not to say its not normal. If you still love him and know deep down its because of the pregnancy I wouldnt worry about it. If you were saying you didnt want to be with him it would be different but it sounds like its just a physical thing which wont be helped by the way you feel about yourself. x

Annubrius · Apr 9th, 2012, 08:30 AM

I call shenanigans on your hormones!! Hooorrrmooonnes!
But as the pp said as long as you don't truly feel as though you don't love him anymore and you still have feelings for him, all is well.

. Just ask for a little space; maybe have a bath surrounded by scented candles. Try to unwind.

bumpycat · Apr 9th, 2012, 09:20 AM

That sort of physical, primal disgust reaction sounds like it's not your head or your heart, it's your hormones. You could also be really overtired after your recent trip, and your body is trying to tell you to rest and relax for a few days. Hope it gets better soon!

ilysilly · Apr 9th, 2012, 09:33 AM

I knoe exactly what you mean. Sometime that happens to me as well. Hormones..

bubbles123 · Apr 9th, 2012, 09:46 AM

Hormones. Some days he drives me mad, others I look at him and go ahhh......X

Honeyblossom · Apr 9th, 2012, 11:31 AM

Hormones I agree! Just try and hide it from the poor chap

TNW · Apr 9th, 2012, 11:37 AM

I think just Hormones...

Apr 9th, 2012, 08:10 AM	#1
dgirllamius Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Germany, originally Southampton UK Posts: 1,606	is this normal? The past couple of days, my OH disgusts me. I hate it when he touches me, hugs me, kisses me or tries to be close to me. The thought of him near me makes my skin crawl. I've never felt like this before. He has many times tried to initiate sex but I've pushed him away as I just don't want him near me. I also feel very unattractive and fat - he says he doesn't think this about me and finds me sexy and thinks my bump is sexy etc. I just feel sick around him, is this even normal?

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Sunshine12 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Elite Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 10,589	I dont think its necessarily the "norm" but thats not to say its not normal. If you still love him and know deep down its because of the pregnancy I wouldnt worry about it. If you were saying you didnt want to be with him it would be different but it sounds like its just a physical thing which wont be helped by the way you feel about yourself. x

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Annubrius Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Vancouver, British Columbia. Posts: 1,124	I call shenanigans on your hormones!! Hooorrrmooonnes! But as the pp said as long as you don't truly feel as though you don't love him anymore and you still have feelings for him, all is well. . Just ask for a little space; maybe have a bath surrounded by scented candles. Try to unwind.

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bumpycat Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Edinburgh, Scotland Posts: 1,687	That sort of physical, primal disgust reaction sounds like it's not your head or your heart, it's your hormones. You could also be really overtired after your recent trip, and your body is trying to tell you to rest and relax for a few days. Hope it gets better soon!

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Apr 9th, 2012, 09:33 AM	#5
ilysilly Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: NC Posts: 1,187	I knoe exactly what you mean. Sometime that happens to me as well. Hormones..

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bubbles123 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 2,519	Hormones. Some days he drives me mad, others I look at him and go ahhh......X

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Honeyblossom Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: London Posts: 535	Hormones I agree! Just try and hide it from the poor chap

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TNW Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Somewhere you don't want to be:) Posts: 297	I think just Hormones...

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