Any1 else a bit fed up of peoples stupid comments??

Mrsctobe · Apr 10th, 2012, 08:18 AM

I swear every second person i see has to pass some stupid comment.
im fed up of hearing when are you due? 8 weeks omg you looks like your gona explode...yet if you were tiny they would feel the need to tell you your tiny

I don't understand the need people need to pass stupid comments.
whats up with when are you due? are you all organised? do you know the sex? nice questions if they want to take interest instead of passing stupid comments about the size of your bump or the legth of time you have left?

anyone give some good answers i could use?

i hate how people feel the need to comment on everything when your pregnant esp when its negitive stupid comments. i dont mind people taking an interest but i dont care for their omg your huge yes so are loads of women at my stage

baby_mama87 · Apr 10th, 2012, 08:20 AM

I was so fed up of it at first because ive been getting the same thing since I was about 27 weeks but now I just ignore them and smile! lol

xxx

ash086 · Apr 10th, 2012, 08:25 AM

yep Im quite annoyed. wow youre huge! I can't handle it anymore. Yes Im huge, im aware.

Mrsctobe · Apr 10th, 2012, 08:25 AM

I just wanna slap them lol ive had the comments for ages too but it irratates the hell out of me.

Mrsctobe · Apr 10th, 2012, 08:26 AM

But then if you wernt huge you would get your tiny...cant win you wanna say yeah your huge but not cos your pregnant just to shut them up lol

mrsrof · Apr 10th, 2012, 08:39 AM

Urgh, right there with you, varies between "you look ready to pop" (have been getting this one since about 30 weeks!!!) to "oh your bump is so neat".

The questions can get annoying too though, like when they ask if I know the sex and when I tell them we haven't found out so many people have said things like "Oh my god how could you not find out, how are you going to be ready?" OK don't ask the question if you're basically going to poo-pooh my answer!!

My favourite one that I got was from some girls in the school I work in (they're 17 and 18) saying "What do you mean you don't know yet, you're like 7 months, they should have told you a few months ago!". Some of them actually didn't understand that some people didn't want to find out beforehand!

Clara cluck · Apr 10th, 2012, 08:39 AM

I've just posted a pic of me on facebook. I'm 40+5. A girl just wrote that she thinks I'll go to 42 weeks!! Helpful, I don't think. Grrrr, very angry with her.What the hell makes her think that's what I'd like to hear?!!!

People can be so insensitive. Most things wash over me but this has p***ed me off!

frangi33 · Apr 10th, 2012, 08:39 AM

lol, this morning I've had "oh that looks painful"

Argh!

crazylady5 · Apr 10th, 2012, 08:43 AM

sometimes with my last lo i would cry when i got back from the school run

i was soooooooooo so sick of everyday someone saying ooh you look like youv'e had enough now and you look so huge or when you due

not had it yet then

clearly if i'd had it you would see the baby in a pram in not still in my belly

i would just be so sick of them and everyone else

i then went over due like a week which made it even worse

thankfully its all a thing of the past but hey i'm doing it all again!! and the questions and comments are to follow ...this is my 5th baby so i must quite clearly be nuts

( well a little)

oo mmmyyy gooodd! your so huge?!! really don't think i'm as big this time

10 mins later i will some one else, and all of a sudden i'm tiny

i'm def carrying a girl app you can tell by just looking at me

x

Clara cluck · Apr 10th, 2012, 08:43 AM

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Originally Posted by frangi33

lol, this morning I've had "oh that looks painful"

Argh!

Equally unhelpful! People!!!

Apr 10th, 2012, 08:18 AM	#1
Mrsctobe Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Uk Posts: 6,554	Any1 else a bit fed up of peoples stupid comments?? I swear every second person i see has to pass some stupid comment. im fed up of hearing when are you due? 8 weeks omg you looks like your gona explode...yet if you were tiny they would feel the need to tell you your tiny I don't understand the need people need to pass stupid comments. whats up with when are you due? are you all organised? do you know the sex? nice questions if they want to take interest instead of passing stupid comments about the size of your bump or the legth of time you have left? anyone give some good answers i could use? i hate how people feel the need to comment on everything when your pregnant esp when its negitive stupid comments. i dont mind people taking an interest but i dont care for their omg your huge yes so are loads of women at my stage

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Apr 10th, 2012, 08:20 AM	#2
baby_mama87 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: UK Posts: 2,689	I was so fed up of it at first because ive been getting the same thing since I was about 27 weeks but now I just ignore them and smile! lol xxx

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Apr 10th, 2012, 08:25 AM	#3
ash086 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 324	yep Im quite annoyed. wow youre huge! I can't handle it anymore. Yes Im huge, im aware.

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Apr 10th, 2012, 08:25 AM	#4
Mrsctobe Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Uk Posts: 6,554	I just wanna slap them lol ive had the comments for ages too but it irratates the hell out of me.

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Apr 10th, 2012, 08:26 AM	#5
Mrsctobe Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Uk Posts: 6,554	But then if you wernt huge you would get your tiny...cant win you wanna say yeah your huge but not cos your pregnant just to shut them up lol

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Apr 10th, 2012, 08:39 AM	#6
mrsrof Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2011 Location: Surrey, UK Posts: 3,980	Urgh, right there with you, varies between "you look ready to pop" (have been getting this one since about 30 weeks!!!) to "oh your bump is so neat". The questions can get annoying too though, like when they ask if I know the sex and when I tell them we haven't found out so many people have said things like "Oh my god how could you not find out, how are you going to be ready?" OK don't ask the question if you're basically going to poo-pooh my answer!! My favourite one that I got was from some girls in the school I work in (they're 17 and 18) saying "What do you mean you don't know yet, you're like 7 months, they should have told you a few months ago!". Some of them actually didn't understand that some people didn't want to find out beforehand!

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Apr 10th, 2012, 08:39 AM	#7
Clara cluck Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: UK Posts: 1,781	I've just posted a pic of me on facebook. I'm 40+5. A girl just wrote that she thinks I'll go to 42 weeks!! Helpful, I don't think. Grrrr, very angry with her.What the hell makes her think that's what I'd like to hear?!!! People can be so insensitive. Most things wash over me but this has p***ed me off!

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Apr 10th, 2012, 08:39 AM	#8
frangi33 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 526	lol, this morning I've had "oh that looks painful" Argh!

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Apr 10th, 2012, 08:43 AM	#9
crazylady5 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: east sussex uk Posts: 1,441	sometimes with my last lo i would cry when i got back from the school run i was soooooooooo so sick of everyday someone saying ooh you look like youv'e had enough now and you look so huge or when you due not had it yet then clearly if i'd had it you would see the baby in a pram in not still in my belly i would just be so sick of them and everyone else i then went over due like a week which made it even worse thankfully its all a thing of the past but hey i'm doing it all again!! and the questions and comments are to follow ...this is my 5th baby so i must quite clearly be nuts ( well a little) oo mmmyyy gooodd! your so huge?!! really don't think i'm as big this time 10 mins later i will some one else, and all of a sudden i'm tiny i'm def carrying a girl app you can tell by just looking at me x

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