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ilove3baby · Apr 14th, 2012, 18:32 PM

O wow! That would have pissed me off to the MAX! I had my first baby at 16...yea not wise....but my babygirl is so smart and in no way Delayed!!! And now Im having my 2nd at 20years old! Bet she would have a HUGE lecture for me huh??? Dont worry about it!

ColoradoBaby1 · Apr 14th, 2012, 18:54 PM

Excuse my language, but what a bitch! 26 is a great age to have a baby. Remember that people only say nasty things when they feel threatened. It's probably that she wants to have a baby right now, but can't for whatever reason. The only people who say rude things to me have trouble TTC or have OHs who aren't ready yet. I have literally had to tell good friends to STFU or stop talking to me, because pregnancy is not a time to hear any negativity.

o0oCharlieo0o · Apr 14th, 2012, 21:11 PM

Lol what a stupid girl, how can she say somethin like that, im 26 and this is.my 3rd baby, 26 is a lovely age hun xx

Boothh · Apr 15th, 2012, 00:46 AM

She sounds like a complete idiot! Don't let her upset you Hun

We are both 22 and expecting our second baby, not being funny but I know plenty of older parents can't cope as well as we do, and who don't have as good a lifestyle etc!

As long as you can support your child (financially and emotionally) provide for their needs and care enough to at least try and do your best for them you can't go far wrong whatever age you are xx

Stevielyn · Apr 15th, 2012, 00:52 AM

My friend was 15 when she had her first son. He just turned 10 last month. Straight A student and one of the most well behaved boys i've ever seen. She had he 2nd son a little over a year ago. She is very successful and is doing wonderful with her life as a wife and mom.

judge12 · Apr 15th, 2012, 02:01 AM

26 is a fantastic age to give birth to your first child..I am 22 and I feel quite young to be having my first but I know I be a good mother. What are you missing out on? getting drunk?

She just sounds jealous too me how can anyone judge a 26 year old woman? world gone crazy

NickyNack · Apr 15th, 2012, 02:11 AM

I had mines at 16 (two weeks after my birthday) 19, 25, and I'm now just turned 27. My kids must be totally mental then :S

admiral765 · Apr 15th, 2012, 02:20 AM

I had my little girl at 26, I will have just turned 27 when I have my boy.

Fact if the matter is, if you are ready and in a position to have a baby then you go ahead regardless of your age. Both of mine were planned and I feel very lucky that my husband and I were able to start a family when we wanted to. It is no one else's business, it's your lives! Xx

Bex1408 · Apr 15th, 2012, 03:00 AM

I agree with everyone else.. She has absolutely no idea! Behavioural problems??who does she think she is!! Age is a number it's how mature your are in yourself and your lifestyle! I'm 23, married with my own house so I'm just as prepared and capable of having a child as a 33 year old in my opinion! Don't listen to her she's obviously jealous and just wants to put u down! My best friend had her first at 17 and she is the most lovely, well behaved little girl so that proves that silly girl wrong straight away! Try not to let her stupid comments upset u hun xxx

Apr 14th, 2012, 18:32 PM	#21
ilove3baby Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 1,226	O wow! That would have pissed me off to the MAX! I had my first baby at 16...yea not wise....but my babygirl is so smart and in no way Delayed!!! And now Im having my 2nd at 20years old! Bet she would have a HUGE lecture for me huh??? Dont worry about it!

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Apr 14th, 2012, 18:54 PM	#22
ColoradoBaby1 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 107	Excuse my language, but what a bitch! 26 is a great age to have a baby. Remember that people only say nasty things when they feel threatened. It's probably that she wants to have a baby right now, but can't for whatever reason. The only people who say rude things to me have trouble TTC or have OHs who aren't ready yet. I have literally had to tell good friends to STFU or stop talking to me, because pregnancy is not a time to hear any negativity.

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Apr 14th, 2012, 21:11 PM	#23
o0oCharlieo0o Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Essex Posts: 3,028	Lol what a stupid girl, how can she say somethin like that, im 26 and this is.my 3rd baby, 26 is a lovely age hun xx

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Apr 15th, 2012, 00:46 AM	#24
Boothh Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Huddersfield/Manchester Posts: 8,580	She sounds like a complete idiot! Don't let her upset you Hun We are both 22 and expecting our second baby, not being funny but I know plenty of older parents can't cope as well as we do, and who don't have as good a lifestyle etc! As long as you can support your child (financially and emotionally) provide for their needs and care enough to at least try and do your best for them you can't go far wrong whatever age you are xx

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Apr 15th, 2012, 00:52 AM	#25
Stevielyn Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: NJ Posts: 542	My friend was 15 when she had her first son. He just turned 10 last month. Straight A student and one of the most well behaved boys i've ever seen. She had he 2nd son a little over a year ago. She is very successful and is doing wonderful with her life as a wife and mom.

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Apr 15th, 2012, 02:01 AM	#26
judge12 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 356	26 is a fantastic age to give birth to your first child..I am 22 and I feel quite young to be having my first but I know I be a good mother. What are you missing out on? getting drunk? She just sounds jealous too me how can anyone judge a 26 year old woman? world gone crazy

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Apr 15th, 2012, 02:11 AM	#27
NickyNack Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: East of Scotland Posts: 2,112	I had mines at 16 (two weeks after my birthday) 19, 25, and I'm now just turned 27. My kids must be totally mental then :S

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Apr 15th, 2012, 02:20 AM	#28
admiral765 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Uk Posts: 2,158	I had my little girl at 26, I will have just turned 27 when I have my boy. Fact if the matter is, if you are ready and in a position to have a baby then you go ahead regardless of your age. Both of mine were planned and I feel very lucky that my husband and I were able to start a family when we wanted to. It is no one else's business, it's your lives! Xx

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Apr 15th, 2012, 03:00 AM	#29
Bex1408 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 569	I agree with everyone else.. She has absolutely no idea! Behavioural problems??who does she think she is!! Age is a number it's how mature your are in yourself and your lifestyle! I'm 23, married with my own house so I'm just as prepared and capable of having a child as a 33 year old in my opinion! Don't listen to her she's obviously jealous and just wants to put u down! My best friend had her first at 17 and she is the most lovely, well behaved little girl so that proves that silly girl wrong straight away! Try not to let her stupid comments upset u hun xxx

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