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TheNewJZ Apr 11th, 2013 05:04 AM

Congrats universal! Bd bd bd like crazy. Can't hurt lol

I'm now in my torturous tww... what should I do to distract me this month? I HATE waiting. Lol

How is everything else going ladies?

universa_2k Apr 11th, 2013 05:52 AM

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Aww, you know I actually find the beginning of the cycle more stressful than tww but maybe thats because i've not actually timed it completely right before so might be different this cycle.
Is it only me or do you find opks hard to read?

What do you reckon of yesterdays? I think + so bd last night, also bd'd Tue am if that makes any difference, I dunno :wacko:

Hoping for bd tonight aswell but depends on DH and what kind of mood he's in!

How you feeling NJ, are you feeling positive this cycle?

Kath22 Apr 11th, 2013 11:42 AM

Hi everyone :)

Universa_2k, I don't know of they're positive opks :-/ oooonly because in my 1st loooong cycle of ttc I had loads like it, until I had my positives last cycle and boy did I know they were positive! Mega dark! BUT lots of people have said that they don't get dark lines and have ended up pregnant. I think it's just one of those things - say if you'd been doing opks for months and they were the darkest you ever got, then I would say he'll yeah they're positive, but I'm just saying don't be surprised if you get darker in the future like I did. God I'm waffling on now lol! I just wanted to say what mine were like, but also that other ppl have lines like yours and end up preggers ;-) just make sure you're bd'ing!!!

I'm CD12 today so I'm bd'ing every other day from now lol wish me luck!!

Hope everyone's ok :) xxxxxxxx

loveforlife Apr 11th, 2013 12:53 PM

Hola Chicas :)

I started OPKing two days ago and only yesterday I got this really whimpy line, so Iīm not sure how a fat positive OPK looks like but if I had gotten your lines Universa, Iīd be bd like crazy lol :happydance:

JZ!!! TWW thatīs awesome!! And yeah I also think the bigining of the cycle is far more stressful, Itīs like a mixture of disappointment+pms=total depression :dohh: TWW is exiting :happydance: so fingers crossed for you JZ!!

DH wants to go out of town to visit his parents this weekend, thatīs pretty much when iīm expecting my big O day... Iīll try to convince him to go next week.... wish me luck with that!:winkwink:

Aawww girls!!! Itīs great to have you around to share this process!!!

Good vibes and lots of positive OPKs and BFP!! :spermy:

Kath22 Apr 11th, 2013 13:49 PM

Hiya, keep doing the opks so then you know what "your" positive will look like - think that's what I meant above in a less waffly way lol!! I'm hoping to O soon fingers crossed!! I've put my foot down today and said we have to BD every other day now and my fiancé is like ohhhhh what a shame lol xx

universa_2k Apr 11th, 2013 15:10 PM

Hey, I got a definite + today, line darker than the other, there's no mistaking it! I'm trying to get dh in the mood though, he's being awkward! Xx

Kath22 Apr 11th, 2013 15:47 PM

Woohoo!!! Tell him to shape up!!! Grrrr!!! My fiancé is finding it mad that I'm actually initiating it all now lol!! I hope you get some BDing in ;-)

I realised too, I'm on CD10, but O'd last cycle between CD25-28, so I've got a while to go :(


universa_2k Apr 11th, 2013 16:07 PM

Yeah I think I may have done the trick with dh :winkwink:

When do you start testing Kath? May be earlier this cycle?

TheNewJZ Apr 11th, 2013 21:29 PM

Hey ladies,

Universa- I've only used digital opk bc I'd stress too much with reading the lines.. like how dark they are and what not so I spent a little more and get the ones that just have happy faces on my o days so the guess work is out.

Love- I'd Def use some power of persuasion to convince him to go next weekend instead and stay in and bd as much as possible! You can do it... :)

Kath- my husband feels the same way.. but I think the trick is that you have to not relate it to baby making every time and just make them feel like you want them just bc. I know for my dh when he thought I only wanted it bc I was o or trying to get pregnant he didn't enjoy it as much and felt more like it was a chore. Now I don't tell him when I o but just put the moves on him and tell him how much I need him lol. (not mentioning baby making), he has yet to realize its more so around certain times of the month and lives that in want him so much.

I'm on cd16 and trying to stay sane. If everything is right I o'd on cd 12... either way I'm going to try and bd every other day for a little longer just in case. lol

GL and baby dust to all!!!
Btw- I'm loving this thread and having all of you. :)

universa_2k Apr 12th, 2013 03:18 AM

Hey ladies, hope your all good today.

Nj I'd never really thought of trying the digital opks before, sounds like a good idea but I've got 50 of the sticks to get through!

Love I agree with nj about persuading him, you can do it :flower:

Kath, yep I agree about the men thinking its a chore, my dh wouldn't give in for nothin last night so had to settle for vs this morning but I think I have now o'd possibly.

Hope all is good x

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