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PJS1982 Aug 6th, 2015 14:33 PM

18w loss to Hypercoiled cord
 
We lost our Eliana at 18w on June 20th. We waited weeks upon weeks for her pathology and finally it came back that she was completely healthy (after a T18 loss at 14w, this was a big concern) and that the only thing they found was that her umbilical cord was hypercoiled to the point that it was hair thin at her belly button. My heart broke all over again with this news and I've been struggling with it daily since.

My doctor assured me that this would never happen to us again, but that if I fell pregnant again, I would be under a lot of monitoring with an MFM and high risk OB rather than herself. My worry is that it WILL happen again. Has anyone gone through this and gone on to carry to term healthily? This or any other cord anomaly, really.

Andypanda6570 Aug 6th, 2015 18:59 PM

A lot of people have went on to have healthy babies and so will you..I am so very sorry for your loss.. I lost my Ava at 22 weeks, I delivered her, she was my surprise at 40.. I already had 3 grown boys, I didn't try again, cause of my age.. Don't be discouraged, you will be fine ..XOXOOXOXOXO

Andypanda6570 Aug 7th, 2015 08:51 AM

I think you should be monitored closely with your next pregnancy, I think if you take and your doctor all the steps it will be ok.. It was a fluke, it wont happen again..<3:hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:

PJS1982 Aug 8th, 2015 21:19 PM

Thank you so much <3

I really want to believe that my next bfp will result in a healthy baby in my arms. I know the chemicals and T18 and the cord anomaly were all flukes, but my fear is yet another fluke. How many times can lightning strike one person? :(

Andypanda6570 Aug 9th, 2015 01:52 AM

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Originally Posted by PJS1982 (Post 35962643)
Thank you so much <3

I really want to believe that my next bfp will result in a healthy baby in my arms. I know the chemicals and T18 and the cord anomaly were all flukes, but my fear is yet another fluke. How many times can lightning strike one person? :(

:cry::cry::cry:Yes, I know what you mean.. But I do believe you will get a healthy baby...I know you are going through hell right now and I am so sorry,,,I know it is hard to think positive when you have been through so much:hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs: Take some time for yourself and you will know in your heart what to do and what not to do..I am always around if you ever want to talk, anytime.. I am so sorry <3:hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:

MrsWez Aug 9th, 2015 15:01 PM

My heart aches for you. I didn't lose my daughter to a cord accident but rather a incompetent cervix at 20 weeks. It also really hurt to know that she was healthy.

I also had a MMC at 10 weeks due to T18 and two back to back chemical pregnancies. I now have healthy son.

I have faith that you will have a healthy little one in your arms soon. :hugs:

PJS1982 Aug 11th, 2015 16:42 PM

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Originally Posted by MrsWez (Post 35965551)
My heart aches for you. I didn't lose my daughter to a cord accident but rather a incompetent cervix at 20 weeks. It also really hurt to know that she was healthy.

I also had a MMC at 10 weeks due to T18 and two back to back chemical pregnancies. I now have healthy son.

I have faith that you will have a healthy little one in your arms soon. :hugs:

This made me cry. I am so sorry for your losses! Our instances seem so similar! I am so glad you have your little boy now and it makes me very hopeful that I'll get my happy ending as well. :hugs:

PJS1982 Aug 11th, 2015 16:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Andypanda6570 (Post 35963081)
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Originally Posted by PJS1982 (Post 35962643)
Thank you so much <3

I really want to believe that my next bfp will result in a healthy baby in my arms. I know the chemicals and T18 and the cord anomaly were all flukes, but my fear is yet another fluke. How many times can lightning strike one person? :(

:cry::cry::cry:Yes, I know what you mean.. But I do believe you will get a healthy baby...I know you are going through hell right now and I am so sorry,,,I know it is hard to think positive when you have been through so much:hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs: Take some time for yourself and you will know in your heart what to do and what not to do..I am always around if you ever want to talk, anytime.. I am so sorry <3:hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:

Thank you so so much. You are lovely! :hug:

Rhio92 Sep 16th, 2015 07:32 AM

:hugs: xxxxx

lewood88 Sep 22nd, 2015 12:30 PM

So sorry for you loss run, have faith that your next pregnancy will be healthy xxxx


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