Miscarried in Nov, Pregnant again. .. so scared to even acknowledge that i am again
 

Hi all i had a miscarriage in November at 9 weeks even though the baby stopped growing at 6 weeks. My dr said we could start trying again in January and we did and we are pregnant again. I am so scared that I will lose this one i dont even want to talk about it. We arent going to tell anyone until we are in the 2nd trimester and i am just so scared . . . i have been getting nauseous here and there which i didnt last time and horrible headaches. I had horrible MS with my daughter so I hoping this is all good signs. Anyone have encouraging words for me i really could use a friend to talk to now.

Its okay, hun. Being afraid is perfectly normal. I'm right there with ya. Hoping and praying that this one is my rainbow baby. We'll make it through!

I called my dr and he told me to take a test to confirm it and then call him to make a appt when i am 7 weeks along. I wish I could go the whole thing without having to see anything I am so scared to see the heartbeat and lose it again. I feel if I can make it to 8 weeks that everything will be ok. I really feel in my heart after 8 weeks all is well.

Hi, I'm in exactly the same boat as you! I had a miscarriage on the 12th November at 9wks along. The dr told me we could try as soon as we liked. It took 2 months for my body to get back to normal. I tested on sunday 12th feb the day i was due on (i couldn't wait any longer!) an i got a BFP!! exactly 3month later. I couldn't believe it...i still can't, i keep looking at the test to make sure i'm not dreaming! lol. I am so happy but so nervous at the same time.I hope and pray all will work out this time! We have also decided to wait until the 12wk to tell everyone, but its so difficult not say anything as we're so excited!! I never had symptoms as such last time and i still haven't this time but it's still early days! I'm sure all will be ok with you, but i know where your coming from. My dr said that i have a 89% chance all will go smoothly this time, so here's hoping!! xx

It's totally normal to be scared, I'm in the same boat...I even find myself wishing at times that I was still ttc instead. I have had 5 miscarriages, so I have been through this stage alot and it has not gotten any easier. We are going to try and hold off on telling everyone too, at least until i have a normal ultrasound at 8 weeks...my only healthy child had a normal ultrasound at 8 weeks, the others were never measuring correct and not much of a hb. Only my DH's boss and his wife know...just in case he has to take off... I just wish I knew something already, seems like time just stops while I'm waiting and when I m/c it seems like it just wasn't enough time...sigh

Yes! You took the words right out of my mouth!

I am so glad I am not alone. I decided to call my Dr on monday to let him know i thought i might be and he said to take a HPT so i did and it was POSITIVE which i already new. He also said to wait till i was 7 - 8 weeks to get a u/s if i see a healthy bean then i will feel much better about this all. We aren't telling anyone till we are 12 weeks. It is so hard because we are so close to our families but I will try my best.

I pray for all of you that this will be all our times. Hugs and Kisses to all for successful pregnancies. We all deserve that.

We all do deserve healthy pregnancies and I really pray that we get those rainbow babies...I could get an ultrasound early, but am choosing to wait until 8 weeks too b/c a healthy baby at that time should be very good for me...Several times I had to go in at 8 weeks and see that I was measuring really really small and barley a hb there, the one time I went in and had a baby measuring right on and a big whooping hb of 164 I carried to term and had beautiful DD! So a good 8 week ultrasound is a good oman for me. Good luck on your pregnancy and just do whatever you feel you need to do to "survive" this...honestly, I don't know what's harder, surviving a m/c or surviving a new pregnancy. With DD I worried until I gave birth to her and then worried some more!

Everything that i see or feel worries me. I just want this one to stick so bad, I will drive myself mad till i get to the 8 week U/S if I see a baby measuring 8 weeks i will be fine.

The one i m/c never measured right when i was 5 weeks it was at 4 weeks at 7 it was 6 and at 9 it was gone at what should have been 7 1/2 . So having it measure correctly is all i am really hoping for.

To all you amazing ladies here: We all WILL have our sticky beans & forever babies soon! I feel the same exact way you all do, scared, worried, nervous, every cramp, every small back ache, anything sets me off. I want to scream, I want to cry, I want this baby SO BAD! We ALL deserve it. It's OUR turn for this to turn out perfectly! I'm praying non-stop for each & every one of you going through this when this should be a very happy time. <3