Oh crumbs I am with Hays on this one. It is soooo dam irritating when people say 'just relax it will happen'...... arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. No no it wont happen cause we weren't even trying (OPKs, Clomid etc) for the first year and said we will let nature take it's course and nothing happend..... so relaxing is not the answer for everyone. I am proof of that.
Good luck though. If I were you I would just get cracking with the Clomid.
I have gotten to be a real smartass when people tell me stupid stuff like that. I usually respond with something really sarcastic, like "Wow I never thought of that. Guess I spent all this money on fertility treatments for nothing!"
Yep, I've had those moments! I try to ignore it but I've had to resist the urge to snap a few times. The worst is my mum, who is such a kind and caring person, but when she says "just relax and it will happen" I have to bite my tongue. We started otu with the 'let's see what happens' method, and now it's looking likely we have problems, I don't think any degree of relaxing will help!!!!
Agree agree agree!!!!!! I reckon I am actually a pretty chilled out relaxed kinda person 8) and spent one year of ttc just going with the flow and enjoying lots of but by the second year, you can't help but think about it constantly...I reckon all them "relax and it will happen" people should walk a mile in our shoes and then see how they feel!!!! relax my arse!
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