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Old Oct 14th, 2012, 15:52 PM   21
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I have been TTC for 2 years.. I finally got pregnant to go and have a miscarriage at 15 weeks With the only reason being 'one of them things'!! I am now on my fourth cycle since this and still NO BFP!! Everyone around me seems to be getting pregnant after just 1-2-3 months!! So frustratingggg!! All i want is a little baby and want it more than anything in the world.. So why is it not happening! Im sick of hearing 'it will happen in time' Well when! Im sick of waiting
I hate that response, too!! Or "things happen for a reason", or "maybe its just not your time". Are you serious?! Is that supposed to make me feel better?



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Old Oct 14th, 2012, 16:41 PM   22
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Dear whoever made up that "false BFP if you have a sense of humor" status going around right now on facebook about Christmas. I hate you, I broke down in tears thinking it was a real BFP announcement reading it until I got to the end to find out it was a prank which my tears then turned into anger.
OMG me too!! I immediately was full of anger and jealously two sentences in! I thought I was going crazy. Hugs to you!!
It's horrible isn't it? Guess we don't have a sense of humor LOL. For real though, I know that status was made as a joke but it's a reminder that people out there are completely clueless about infertility.



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Old Oct 15th, 2012, 18:00 PM   23
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Just needed to vent... I am so tired of people that are fertile with kids preaching to me about how hard it is having kids... And how it is such a sacrifice and blah blah blah.. always so negative and compaling about the darned kids they have... My questions is why the hell did these complaining people go on to plan and on purpose have a second and third child.. because it was sooo bad right..

I mean tell me something I don't know already... I am a grown women, in my 30's now, I have a happy stable marriage, and have been with my DH for over 11 years, we have a nice home, DH has a good career, I have completed my education.. What the hell else am I supposed to do... Meanwhile these other idiots pop out kids and are so irresponsible when they do it,one night stands, teen pregnancies etc.. Why do i need to be preached to about how hard it is having kids... ??? I have put so much time and planning into having a baby.. I don't know what the hell else I could do to be any more ready than I am.. but..thanks for reminding me of how horrible having kids is... WTF... Well i struggle with expensive fertility treatments, surgeries and embarrising tests to try to have a kid.....



 
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Old Oct 16th, 2012, 09:47 AM   24
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Dear Francis (a friend of the family) I know having a baby can make you forget stuff but could you stop damn insisting on we go visit your newborn? We MC barely 3 months ago, do you really think our hearts are set to go see a newborn that was an accidental BFP that we had to comfort you guys through because you aren't even mature enough to be parents? Had some damn curtosy



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Old Oct 17th, 2012, 07:08 AM   25
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To my mom's next door neighbour who happens to be dating my brother for less than 6 months, thanks for telling my mom you had a "pregnancy scare", now every time I go and see my mom she asks me when am I going to give her a grandchild? I'm trying mom, I really am.



 
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Old Oct 17th, 2012, 11:16 AM   26
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Just love seeing pictures of my cousin's "so called" surprise baby on facebook - NOT!!!

And mum, when I was on the phone to you about this last night practically in tears, you decide to tag me in the photos!!! Yes I know you want grandchildren, but, believe me when I say it won't be happening anytime!



 
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Old Oct 18th, 2012, 11:12 AM   27
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Really Mom? Do you have to upload pictures on facebook from your cellphone of your step grandchild like as if it's your own? As if I don't feel guilty enough to have lost your grand child 3 months ago...



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Old Oct 18th, 2012, 11:14 AM   28
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Really Mom? Do you have to upload pictures on facebook from your cellphone of your step grandchild like as if it's your own? As if I don't feel guilty enough to have lost your grand child 3 months ago...



 
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Old Oct 18th, 2012, 11:18 AM   29
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Mum, I tell you that I feel like a failure and you tell me that I'll get pregnant when I least expect it

Seriously?!?



 
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Old Oct 18th, 2012, 17:22 PM   30
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Why didn't you just tell me??!?!?


After 2 years with no luck, everyone pretty much knows that we are trying. Today, I get on Facebook and notice that one of our really good friends is pregnant and has her very tiny bump posted all over her wall along with her BFP picture. I just so happened to be at work and started to cry at my desk. Don't get me wrong, I am so happy for her and her family, but did I really have to find out on Facebook? Later, I sent her a text to congratulate her... She replied "I'm sorry "



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