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Old Oct 19th, 2012, 14:27 PM   31
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I'm new here to BNB.

TTC for 11 years now.


My rant is ; our ground floor neighbours cat has decided to start coming up to out first floor landing and taking a crap!
I CANNOT deal with cat poop as I am TTC. Went downstairs to give her a telling off to see she is about 7 months pregnant!
So she obviously isn't dealing with her own cats crap, because she is preggers, so I have to?? I just couldn't bring myself to say anything and just ran off crying.



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Old Oct 19th, 2012, 17:18 PM   32
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House next door just got sold..I've been lucky so far to have neighbors that are too old to have kids, please if there is a God do not let a family move next door or an expecting couple. It would be the needle that breaks the camels back for my sanity.



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Old Oct 20th, 2012, 01:14 AM   33
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Only I can go for a routine smear/pap test and it all go wrong. Nurse noticed my cervix was inflamed/looked like it had a cyst on it so told me to see the doctor ASAP, can't get a doctors appointment to a week Tuesday and then I'll prob be on my period so will have to put it back later, meanwhile I googled it and now I think I've probably got cervical cancer or some horrible infection.

On the bright side it's not like my fertility can get any more ruined right?!

Fuck my body.



 
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Old Oct 24th, 2012, 13:36 PM   34
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Mum i know you love me and really i love you but please stop telling me to be more positive and it will happen give it time. Well, its been 15 months, countless blood, semen tests, a lap and dye that revealed i only have one tube and one ovary. But yeah mum, i'm super positive



 
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Old Oct 24th, 2012, 13:46 PM   35
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May I join in?

I'm new here to BNB.

TTC for 11 years now.


My rant is ; our ground floor neighbours cat has decided to start coming up to out first floor landing and taking a crap!
I CANNOT deal with cat poop as I am TTC. Went downstairs to give her a telling off to see she is about 7 months pregnant!
So she obviously isn't dealing with her own cats crap, because she is preggers, so I have to?? I just couldn't bring myself to say anything and just ran off crying.
Well that really IS SHT!
Good luck with the ivf



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Old Oct 25th, 2012, 17:58 PM   36
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Dear hubby, I love you but can you just get your SA done NOW!! can you try and support me through this, can you understand how im feeling... please!

dear friends, congrats on your latest pregnancy, and yes i would love to hear how it was just a lot of sex and you were pregnant, and how easy it was to get pregnant and how sick, tired and fat you feel!

Dear everyone, Stop asking me if I'm pregnant, stop telling me the best way, stop telling me I have lots of time, stop telling me to relax and stop telling me it will happen when it's ment to!

Wooo, that felt good!!! sending everyone babydust by the barrel!



 
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Old Oct 25th, 2012, 18:33 PM   37
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Dear TV shows, enough with the "oops, I'm pregnant! *cry from fear/discusses getting you know what*" story lines.. It's not even with teens either, it's usually the girl you see sleeping with every character and then wonders how it happened. My DH and I go on long rants every time those types of stories pop up. I can't remember the last happy BFP on tv anymore. At least if you're gonna throw it in my face, at least make it be with people who actually appreciate such precious gift of life and are happy for once.



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Old Oct 26th, 2012, 03:52 AM   38
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When will it be our time? Havent we done everything so far? I'm a good person, really i am. Why in this world do people who have no clue even what the word mum encompasses get pregnant with the bat of an eyelid? I have to believe i know i do but i'm so so so so tired. I have been pricked, pinched, put on a cold table to have surgical instruments delve into me. Havent we done enough? Havent we given enough yet? I cant want it anymore than i do now, my dh is even starting to feel the strain. I know deep in my heart it will happen but i just need a sign, anything to let me know, when? When will it happen? How much longer do we have to endure this torture? I will never give up, i will not let this get the best of me. I will continue on this god-awful journey until my dreams come true. I have to have hope, i have to believe, i do!!!



 
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Old Oct 29th, 2012, 17:18 PM   39
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UH! I'm tired of my family and friends treating their kids like crap and then accusing me of not being a good aunt because I don't want to rescue them every time they run out of money for food or diapers or shelter! Sorry, I'm not rescuing you anymore! Grow up, you had them, not me.

Then my sister said.. stop being a bitch just because you can't have kids.. when she announced her third pregnancy .. when she is mentally ill! Literally and shouldn't be having more kids. I didn't even tell her that either. I just said.. oh.. because I was shocked and she blew up at me.

My other sister had three kids. The first she let the father keep, the second she put up for adoption, the third she keeps.

My other sister has two kids and is pregnant with a third. She doesn't treat them right and had over 100 complaints to child protective services (including from me). She brags about how every time a complaint is filed and she's investigated she covers her tracks so well and is so capable of having others wrapped around her finger. It's enough to make anyone sick!

So I watch all of this going on, then my boyfriends ex-wife has two kids and she lost her first baby at 17 days old.. but yet, she doesn't even appreciate the two she has now.. and spends her whole time drunk! The girls come over here every week and complain about how horrible it is there and the state (again) does nothing!

UGHHHHHHHHHHH

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Old Oct 29th, 2012, 17:27 PM   40
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UH! I'm tired of my family and friends treating their kids like crap and then accusing me of not being a good aunt because I don't want to rescue them every time they run out of money for food or diapers or shelter! Sorry, I'm not rescuing you anymore! Grow up, you had them, not me.

Then my sister said.. stop being a bitch just because you can't have kids.. when she announced her third pregnancy .. when she is mentally ill! Literally and shouldn't be having more kids. I didn't even tell her that either. I just said.. oh.. because I was shocked and she blew up at me.

My other sister had three kids. The first she let the father keep, the second she put up for adoption, the third she keeps.

My other sister has two kids and is pregnant with a third. She doesn't treat them right and had over 100 complaints to child protective services (including from me). She brags about how every time a complaint is filed and she's investigated she covers her tracks so well and is so capable of having others wrapped around her finger. It's enough to make anyone sick!

So I watch all of this going on, then my boyfriends ex-wife has two kids and she lost her first baby at 17 days old.. but yet, she doesn't even appreciate the two she has now.. and spends her whole time drunk! The girls come over here every week and complain about how horrible it is there and the state (again) does nothing!

UGHHHHHHHHHHH

SCREAM
your time will come. But I know what you mean, I'm so fed up of having to comfort friends from accidental BFP's and act like as if they're a burden when I'd do anything to be that fertile.



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